brain54:
Some of these your red flags...

Should just be an issue of personal choice Sha!

Chukwuka319:
What a great and wonderful post, this Blessed Easter Sunday.
Unfortunately many men are still entangling themselves with ladies with one,two , three most,or all of the mentioned nasty attitudes and attributes, because they are foolishly carried away by her curves,big hips,beauty, social status.

jimmyvic:
One manipulative one with big nyash and many red flags nearly carry me go where I no know

But God pass her.....I come down for junction

Tomcorp:


You wise up on time.

Solofresh2:
I disagree with number 3,4,5,6 and 13

Tomcorp:

They will learn the hard way.

kokakola:
Your points are valid.
As a guy, use your free gift of Logic to know a woman better for your future sake... Never take the seat of emotion when it comes to choosing right.

jimmyvic:
One manipulative one with big nyash and many red flags nearly carry me go where I no know

But God pass her.....I come down for junction

brain54:

You just picked my exact reservations...

Those are matters of personal choice as I stated and not necessary red flags. I mean what's wrong if a person has many friends or likes to go out? Everyone cannot be docile, timid or reserved. Some people have outgoing personalities. Its okay if you say it's your personal choice and can't cope with that. So you don't go and marry someone and try to make the person change.

So Its choice and that's why I didn't want to argue with the OP.

But to me some of the points listed just seem like insecurities!

Tomcorp:


When you get married and your eyes see shege, you will understand why these points are extremely important. A wife is not a girlfriend, there are attributes she must and mustn't have.

brain54:

And that's why I said it's your choice...


You are entitled to it. But stop making it look like a general standard!

Tomcorp:


Get married first then come back to comment. You don't know life yet.

Nijimog:
she carry me go O, where I no know O

Fefenefem,

Kcee song comes to mind

otipoju:
I made some mistakes early but thank God for his guidance. I quick correct them.

But there are some red flags that you don't see or see early enough. Na that one dey cause severe headache.

You will either continue to bear your cross or drop it down and run

brain54:

Very funny...

You are only being insecure "Mr don't get married from a poor background"

So now being married makes you have all the perfect knowledge about marriage? It makes you understand all that will work and cannot work... Well congratulations sir.

I leave you at this point with your insecurities!

Tomcorp:
Brotherhood Code of Observation;

1. Don't marry her if she has nothing to bring to the table.

2. Don't marry her if she doesn't have a job or business.

3. Don't marry her if she loves extravagant lifestyle.

4. Don't marry her if she likes to go out alot.

5. Don't marry her if she is from a poor background. Their parents sees them as saviors that will uplift their family from poverty, and she will bank on you to do that.

6. Don't marry her if her mother is a divorcee or baby mama.

7. Don't marry her if her IQ is very low.

8. Don't marry her if she follows Blessing CEO, Saidaboj, Nons Miraj, Bobrisky and other known p*rostitutes on social media. Her mindset will be the same as theirs.

9. Don't marry her if she likes materialistic competition.

10. Don't marry her if she doesn't know how to make money but wants to squander yours.

11. Don't marry her if she lacks priorities.

12. Don't marry her if she keeps too many friends.

13. Don't marry her if her mother consults prophets, marabouts, seers and spiritists.

14. Don't marry her if she lacks empathy and understanding.

These are the main red flags to watch out for if you don't want to die before your time.

Happy Easter.

Evolutionism:


Op na from deeper part of the Streets

Tomcorp:
Brotherhood Code of Observation;
2. Don't marry her if she doesn't have a job or business. as much as anyone can be jobless, if they are actively seeking for work and/or tried and fail in thieir own business, then that shouldnt dismiss them automatically. whats importnat here is THEIR CHARACTER:

3. Don't marry her if she loves extravagant lifestyle. if a woman has the job/income/business that can afford her the extravagant lifestyle, then why should this be a bad thing?
aint you the one who claimed that if she doesnt have a job/business she is no good? so now if she has a job/business and spend lavishly on what she desires, its also bad?

4. Don't marry her if she likes to go out alot. isnt it through going out a lot that you met her? what about if she now wants to go out a lot WITH YOU?

5. Don't marry her if she is from a poor background. Their parents sees them as saviors that will uplift their family from poverty, and she will bank on you to do that.90% of Nigerians women come from poor background... just saying

6. Don't marry her if her mother is a divorcee or baby mama. what does the sin of her mother got to do with her? does the above also stand for SONS of these women? lets not be hypocrites here.

10. Don't marry her if she doesn't know how to make money but wants to squander yours. unless a man allows a woman to squander his money, there is no way a woman could do it.

12. Don't marry her if she keeps too many friends. so being friendly is a problem today? or is it your insecure mind talking? a beautiful happy friendly person would probably have a lot of friends, what is so wrong with that?

MrBrownJay1:

TrustNone:
I've been observing you these days.
You're beginning to reason like a simp