What is the answer to this
A
B
C

They are all wives, thats the koko

As a Christian it is B

EreluRoz:
As a Christian it is B

As for me na A reason it's because tradition was already there before Christianity maybe am wrong

Seunpapa65:

As for me na A reason it's because tradition was already there before Christianity maybe am wrong

That's why I said as a Christian else I would have chosen A

EreluRoz:
That's why I said as a Christian else I would have chosen A

C is the legal wife cos she's the only one with a legal backing, binding her to the man. If he sends her parking, she can sue him with proof of legal marital documents and demand settlement.

The rest can be thrown out of the house and nothing would happen.

Nazgul:

C is the legal wife cos she's the only one with a legal backing, binding her to the man. If he sends her parking, she can sue him with proof of legal marital documents and demand settlement.

The rest can be thrown out of the house and nothing would happen.

So court marriage is the best? But men don't like court marriage

EreluRoz:
So court marriage is the best? But men don't like court marriage

Says who? Men even prefer it now to traditional and church cos it's much cheaper and faster. With 50k you can run a court marriage here in Lagos at the registry.

Also, court marriage is recognized all over the world. If you want to travel out of Nigeria today as a married woman, which document do you think you'll present to the embassy? Your court marriage certificate.

Nazgul:

Says who? Men even prefer it now to traditional and church cos it's much cheaper and faster. With 50k you can run a court marriage here in Lagos at the registry.

Also, court marriage is recognized all over the world. If you want to travel out of Nigeria today as a married woman, which document do you think you'll present to the embassy? Your court marriage certificate.

Which do you prefer as a man

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EreluRoz:
Which do you prefer as a man

Traditional and court. Doing church is like repeating traditional twice.

Nazgul:

Traditional and court. Doing church is like repeating traditional twice.

Church and traditional doesn't relate in any way. Church means dedicating your marriage to God. I would choose church and traditional over court

EreluRoz:
Church and traditional doesn't relate in any way. Church means dedicating your marriage to God. I would choose church and traditional over court

Church marriage isn't biblical.

Traditional marriage is biblical. God instructed prospective suitors to go to the girl's father and pay the dowry. That's the biblical practice. Read your Bible from Genesis to revelation. God never instructed anyone to organize a marriage ceremony in the temple, synagogue or church.

The missionaries that came to Africa came with white wedding cos that's their own traditional marriage over there.

There's nothing wrong in doing your traditional marriage, then you go to the church with your spouse for thanksgiving. And the pastor would bless your union. Rather than doing your own traditional marriage and that of the white man. What kind of slave mentality is that?

Nazgul:

Church marriage isn't biblical.

Traditional marriage is biblical. God instructed prospective suitors to go to the girl's father and pay the dowry. That's the biblical practice. Read your Bible from Genesis to revelation. God never instructed anyone to organize a marriage ceremony in the temple, synagogue or church.

The missionaries that came to Africa came with white wedding cos that's their own traditional marriage over there.

There's nothing wrong in doing your traditional marriage, then you go to the church with your spouse for thanksgiving. And the pastor would bless your union. Rather than doing your own traditional marriage and that of the white man. What kind of slave mentality is that?

Well, as long as the marriage is dedicated to God that's okay.

EreluRoz:
Well, as long as the marriage is dedicated to God that's okay.

Lol. You clearly haven't been to white wedding receptions of recent. Dedicated to which God?

A place where they play all kinds of circular musics, MCs makes all kinds of silly jokes, the bride's girls on asoebi openly negotiate hook up prices with guests.The goal of it is basically to show off and not to glorify God... I'd rather go with my wife to the church after my traditional marriage for Thanksgiving, kneel down on the altar and receive my blessings from the pastor than waste my time on that nonsense and deceive myself that I'm dedicating my marriage to God.

Real LEGAL WIFE.

Thats wifey #3. Court stamped that. The rest are just societal and cultural.

Legally, means backed by court.

Nazgul:

Lol. You clearly haven't been to white wedding receptions of recent. Dedicated to which God?

A place where they play all kinds of circular musics, MCs makes all kinds of silly jokes, the bride's girls on asoebi openly negotiate hook up prices with guests.The goal of it is basically to show off and not to glorify God... I'd rather go with my wife to the church after my traditional marriage for Thanksgiving, kneel down on the altar and receive my blessings from the pastor than waste my time on that nonsense and deceive myself that I'm dedicating my marriage to God.

😂 😂 😂
U harsh. 😂

Seunpapa65:
What is the answer to this
A
B
C

whoever offer him pucccci first......dats the wife sir!!!(((REAL TALK))))

Nazgul:

Lol. You clearly haven't been to white wedding receptions of recent. Dedicated to which God?

A place where they play all kinds of circular musics, MCs makes all kinds of silly jokes, the bride's girls on asoebi openly negotiate hook up prices with guests.The goal of it is basically to show off and not to glorify God... I'd rather go with my wife to the church after my traditional marriage for Thanksgiving, kneel down on the altar and receive my blessings from the pastor than waste my time on that nonsense and deceive myself that I'm dedicating my marriage to God.

Women majorly decides how her marriage will be, so you have little say in it. Don't drag with a woman on how her wedding is going to be, let her have her way if she's insisting on a particular thing. Whatever type of wedding she wants, grant her wishes.

EreluRoz:
Women majorly decides how her marriage will be, so you have little say in it. Don't drag with a woman on how her wedding is going to be, let her have her way if she's insisting on a particular thing. Whatever type of wedding she wants, grant her wishes.

If she's the one deciding and enforcing it, she must be ready to invest in it. If I tell you that what I want is traditional and court marriage, and you're insisting you must do white, rent a big hall, invite MCs, DJs...etc. I don't have any problem with that. Just keep your money down for it. Cos what my money is for is traditional and court. If you're ready to pay for the white wedding, no wahala, we'll do it. You don't have a say in a business you didn't invest in. You can't sit down and dictate to a man on how he must marry you. If you want additional flavors outside his budget, be ready to contribute towards it. That's what marriage is all about.

Haven't you heard the saying "He who pays the piper decides the tune he plays"?

Nazgul:

If she's the one deciding and enforcing it, she must be ready to invest in it. If I tell you that what I want is traditional and court marriage, and you're insisting you must do white, rent a big hall, invite MCs, DJs...etc. I don't have any problem with that. Just keep your money down for it. Cos what my money is for is traditional and court. If you're ready to pay for the white wedding, no wahala, we'll do it. You don't have a say in a business you didn't invest in. You can't sit down and dictate to a man on how he must marry you. If you want additional flavors outside his budget, be ready to contribute towards it. That's what marriage is all about.

Haven't you heard the saying "He who pays the piper decides the tune he plays"?

Anyways that's how you guys form hard online and outside but you won't even know when you will be manipulated to grant her wishes 😆😆😆

EreluRoz:
Anyways that's how you guys form hard online and outside but you won't even know when you will be manipulated to grant her wishes 😆😆😆

Then you don't know me. I'm the one who would use good sex, petting and love to manipulate her into doing my bidding. Once you subdue a woman, she'll do anything you want her to do.

Nazgul:

Then you don't know me. I'm the one who would use good sex, petting and love to manipulate her into doing my bidding. Once you subdue a woman, she'll do anything you want her to do.

😂😂😂 you can't win a woman in the manipulative game. Well she may just decide to follow your lead sha. Lol

EreluRoz:
😂😂😂 you can't win a woman in the manipulative game. Well she may just decide to follow your lead sha. Lol

You can't always, but you can always manipulate her to happily do your bidding with joy sef. It's like you don't know what great sex does to a lady.

Nazgul:

You can't always, but you can always manipulate her to happily do your bidding with joy sef. It's like you don't know what great sex does to a lady.

What does great sex do to a lady? What makes you think you are a great sex giver?

EreluRoz:
What does great sex do to a lady? What makes you think you are a great sex giver?

Women tend to bond with men who make them feel good. It's an open secret everyone knows. Even girls openly say they want a guy who's good in bed.

As for your second paragraph, I don't brag about sex.

Nazgul:

Women tend to bond with men who make them feel good. It's an open secret everyone knows. Even girls openly say they want a guy who's good in bed.

As for your second paragraph, I don't brag about sex.

That a guy makes a lady feels good in bed doesn't stop her from reasoning well, remember there's also post orgasm clarity 😆

😆

EreluRoz:
That a guy makes a lady feels good in bed doesn't stop her from reasoning well, remember there's also post orgasm clarity 😆

😆

It would if she's genuinely in love with him and they've both agreed to spend the rest of their lives together.

Na 3rd wife law recognize as a legally married wife...

They are all wives, thats the koko

Nazgul:

C is the legal wife cos she's the only one with a legal backing, binding her to the man. If he sends her parking, she can sue him with proof of legal marital documents and demand settlement.

The rest can be thrown out of the house and nothing would happen.

I knew that's where the op is headed with the question...

But In truth traditional and church marriages are recognized and legal by law.

All the wives are legal as long as it's in a setting where polygamy isn't against the law!