Recently, I visited a Wealthy Man to discuss Business ideas with him.🙂

The Man is one of those Very disciplined men, with highly moral standards.
Does NOT like Pple speaking Pidgin English, using Slangs, Listening to Wizkid, Burnaboy songs, wearing Rugged jeans or Dressing anyhow.😒

The discussion with him went well.

But Later on, his two sons came in and their discussion SHOCKED me.
They were well Dressed but their discussion, It was about how to Get Sexy Babes, Take Tramadol to Fucck, Bribe Lecturers in their University, FUPRE in Warri,etc. 😯😒

I Just wondered: How come this Responsible Man's children turn out to be so? 🤔

*Is THE FATHER A PRETENDER?
*Is it PEER INFLUENCE?
*DID THE FATHER NOT do ENOUGH in Bringing them up Morally?
*Is it SPIRITUAL INFLUENCE from his enemies?

WHAT EXACTLY, MAKES SOME RESPONSIBLE PARENTS PRODUCE BAD CHILDREN?

Nplfmod.
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Until Joseph met his slavers, he was a lost and dead man to them. There is something called trade off. Use one to appease the adversary and call the rest good.

Is peer pressure na. That's why you do your best as a parent and continue praying, advising visiting, encouraging them as well so that one somebody from no where will not destroy all your efforts

chiommy123:
Is peer pressure na. That's why you do your best as a parent and continue praying, advising visiting, encouraging them as well so that one somebody from no where will not destroy all your efforts

So does it mean that RESPONSIBLE Parents whose Children Later became Wayward,
they didn't give their Children Good Advice?🤔

VinnyBaba:


So does it mean that RESPONSIBLE Parents whose Children Later became Wayward,
they didn't give their Children Good Advice?🤔

no not really, most of the times, parents of rich kids never used iron hand in training their kids.. since those kids were born with a silver spoon, they were given lot of freedom and leeway to do what they want... they have everything they need without working or suffering... now this is where the problem comes...

since they haven't experienced the other side of life, they get too relaxed, get spoilt and invariably enter a stage that will be too difficult for their parents to control... this is why they end up as gangsters, drug addicts and the likes... children, at that tender age, are like women... give them too much freedom and watch them destroy themselves...

if you're a rich parent, you'll need to train your child the way of the trenches, the way of the streets... you'll need to engage them in activities that will open their eyes into the way of the world... that way, they will truly understand the reality of life and also make them realise that life is not a bed of roses... but most rich parents don't do this.... they do everything and provide everything the child will ever need, the child then end up growing up bad because he has never suffered for anything or know what it's like to go through pain... here, changing environment or adapting to situations would be like a suicide mission for them which is not supposed to be assuming they went through that training when growing up...

Nplfmod.
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You can’t outrightly blame parents for the outcome of their children.
The turnout of every human is 10% parental teaching, 20% environmental influence and 70% personal decisions.

There are people without parental influence who turned out well in life morally, financially and otherwise because they know what they want in life and sticked to it…
You can teach/train a human all you want but at the end of the day, it all comes down to the personal decisions they make for themselves while going through life.

Cladez:
You can’t outrightly blame parents for the outcome of their children.
The turnout of every human is 10% parental teaching, 20% environmental influence and 70% personal decisions.

There are people without parental influence who turned out well in life morally, financially and otherwise because they know what they want in life and sticked to it…
You can teach/train a human all you want but at the end of the day, it all comes down to the personal decisions they make for themselves while going through life.

Wrong! Add bad luck. It doesn't really matter the kind of upbringing a person receives while growing up. If life wants to 4ck you up, it will! 😔

You are not part of the family and you don’t know what happens inside the family. The man could be a pretender to outsiders but inside he is not a man with good morals. Don’t Judge a book by it’s cover.