Angelfrost:
What exactly is the essence of this write-up??!

To encourage young ladies and girls that Prostitution is not so bad?!!

Its to blame men for prostîtution..according to one idíot up there...

Kelechi009:


Going by these 3 stated reasons, can we also affirm that other African countries have this problem (Internet enabled devices, Access to global trends and Increased poverty)?. We aren't the only poor African country in the continent and also not the poorest, nor the only ones with bad presidents.

In my opinion, Nigerians, especially Southern Nigerians, are among the top three most ambitious/money driven Africans. This ambitiousness if wrongly harnessed can lead to a mishap of things. That's the reason other Africans don't indulge in some of the things we do.

Regarding poverty, the lady in context did not even try to setup a SPA business or any other related businesses that could generate steady income later on, even after given a blank cheque by the Senator. She insisted on just continuing with her sex trade

It's almost like free money, which is very addictive. It's similar to cybercrime. Easy money is hard to let go. The reason she isn't going into business now is the same reason most traders dread manufacturing because it entails more work and resources than their current buying and selling. Managing herself is easier than an enterprise with employees and the need to pay taxes and source for clients.

Oga Kelechi, this is business. See it the way it's.

advanceDNA:


Its to blame men for prostîtution..according to one idíot up there...

Cry more

Gerrard59:

Heartbreaking💔

shaybebaby:
Economics of the sex, love the write up @Ger.rard59.

Really boils down to supply and demand. If the demand isn't there, well like any business, it'll cease to exist.

Sex, just like marriage, is largely connected to biology and economics. I can't say which comes first, but both concepts are involved. Nigerians just like dodging the truth even when the facts are in front of them. We've renowned brostitutes on this forum mock sex workers as if those sex workers wouldn't cease to exist if the brostitutes tame their lascivious desires.

That’s why it’s ridiculous and mathematically impossible for them expect faithfulness from women.

The math does not math. If every (or most) men get to fulfill their sexual fantasies, then there’s absolutely no way they get to have women who are solely theirs. It’s just a matter of numbers and the numbers are saying “dude what you’re expecting can’t happen”!

Gerrard59:
As I have stated countless times on here (https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria), men are the patrons of these girls. So, before you begin to type kini kon up and down, remember it is men like you who have preek as you do that pay these girls money.

Nigerian men like to fvck, and would spend any amount to fulfil their sexual desires. Apparently, it is not just Nigerian men in Nigeria, but even in the abroad especially the Texas area where their wives have accepted their behaviours as our men fill the clubs and lounges paying hard dollars to baddies and sex workers. Even at that, it is still not a black man's thing, but everywhere as Chinese men spend a lot on escorts in Singapore, Macau and Philippines. In Thailand, Western men aka oyibo fill there for sexual rendezvous. It is a global phenomenon - the average man likes to fvck. It is nature, not nuture. Testosterone is a hormone, not a m.oron.





Research on testosterone: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.

cc: nlfmod; Seun; Mukina2

Gerrard59:
The 24-year-old sex worker in this #NairaLife left home at 18 in search of a better life. She’s achieved that goal. Now as her family’s breadwinner, her new focus is building an even better future for her siblings

If you want to know how powerful the STDs these ladies get infected with at times, try and visit this alagbo ladies.. Most of them have infections that have no cure!

oluwaseyi0:


Demand vs supply

Most men want more than they are naturally entitled to which is sex with their wives so they are willing to pay for the extra

Bedding females irrespective of species requires some effort from male like toasting, caring, putting up appearances just like we can see in cases of bird singing and dancing for their females just for sex

The real reason is the insatiable demand for sex by men, it doesn't matter if man marries the most brilliant, sexy and caring woman he will still want to taste outside and this call girls are ready to fill in the gap, you can't really blame them

[b]Most men will do same if there's insane demand for what's between their leg[/b]s unfortunately most penis worth next to nothing in the marketplace and alternate penis substitution are freely, endlessly and readily available, same can't be said of pussy

You can say life no balance but it is what it is
It's nature

God bress Oga Oluwaseyi for his profound honesty. Is there anything different from what I've been preaching for donkey years?!

Mikespecialone:


Na lie , e nor scatter

oh sorry....e for just Slack!!

luskysylver:
Only if family understands what some of us first child passed though to make life easier for them. But funny enough they may not understand. As a first child with 5 younger ones to look at for, i have to borrow, work extra time, deny myself some good things just to pay school fees, feed them. If you are lucky enough they appreciate, if u are not they will use you at the peak of their career as a no body.

I sincerely appreciate the lady on her courage towards this part, even though i know, she knows that its not the best way to go, but circumstances and grace of God has kept her to this point and i would encourage her to quiet and begin to manage her life with the money she has saved up and reduce her cost of living. Send the younger ones to affordable university( it must not be private). She will eventually get a good husband if she wants and make her own home

Its time to stop. It has been grace keeping you all these while. Think about these things and work on them. Once again you are well appreciate and i understand the level of sacrifice you have put in. I am a first child i know what my salary is passing through.

Its time to quiet.

You have very kind words....

OvertheTop:


oh sorry....e for just Slack!!

E no matta , as long as money dey pile up

mmsen:


If she went to Unilag or Unical then there's a 80% chance that she was doing runs.

The unical part, you are 100 percent right. The babe would have made me believe she was decent, the day i saw her what's app, chats. I was shocked. This is someone that gives a church girl vibes.

A guy was already disturbing her, why she hasn't come over, and she sent him nude, to relax him.

Obviously from my place, it's his place she would be visiting.

With all these stuff and write up here and there, sin is sin. Fornication, any sex outside marriage is a sin. It doesn't matter what the devil used to lure you into sexual sin. You will end up mortgage your destiny on the altar of sex thinking you're on track.
It is not a sin to have election or to have sexual urge as man or woman, but it is a sin to follow the direction of the urge. I Cor 6: 18; Flee fornication, for every sin a man committed is without his body, but he that committed sexual sin against his own body.
If actually all the story here is true and not just an attention seeker, God is only giving the lady time to repent. That's why she is still alive by now. But remember, no sinner shall go unpunished.

Gerrard59:


Cry more

Lol...I must have struck a nerve for u to rush at at comment not even directed to ur mentions..
....this is fvnny......

We know men like u that ur girlfriend/Wife monitors ur chat on nairaland..... This "captain save a skirt" u are doing is not only pathetic, but the women u are also trying to impress deep down knows u are yarning a truckload of baloney

advanceDNA:


Its to blame men for prostîtution..according to one idíot up there...

Forget about blame. . . Prostitution is the oldest trade and nothing can EVER delete it from this world.

NOTHING.

EVER.

Then what's the moral lesson

I read to the end. Better to quit on time

i understand very well she she is passing through. Though its time to quit. Grace has really been sufficient for her.

Kelechi009:


Hmm her past is her past

Absolutely and she should tell him of her past.
Same with a rich business man today who started as a criminal and cultist - he also must tell his intending wife of his past before marriage.
It goes both ways.

axglide:
Repent and Give your Life to Christ Jesus Today.

God loves both the one getting hooked up and the one hooking up.

STFU !!!! I know money is not the most important thing in this life, but trust me on this It is way ahead of whatever crap might be in second place.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Yes I know. I was only replying the dude that said girls from rich homes do hookup also

You no suppose dey mind some people.

PulaPower:
Concocted lies..

Very demonic lies from the pit of hell. She wants to lure other naive girls to gallop into the trade. Hook-up girls that are always restless begging for men to come get them for a night for 5k or less, shebi na she be the only available girl in the society, women are i short supply so every man keep going for her only and she keeps making such padded amount of money on a daily basis. Na so we dey hear.

Where her pishur na 😏

Gerrard59:



In my opinion, Nigerians, especially Southern Nigerians, are among the top three most ambitious/money driven Africans. This ambitiousness if wrongly harnessed can lead to a mishap of things. That's the reason other Africans don't indulge in some of the things we do.



It's almost like free money, which is very addictive. It's similar to cybercrime. Easy money is hard to let go. The reason she isn't going into business now is the same reason most traders dread manufacturing because it entails more work and resources than their current buying and selling. Managing herself is easier than an enterprise with employees and the need to pay taxes and source for clients.

Oga Kelechi, this is business. See it the way it's.

she wrote that when she was with the senator..she was still having one night stand.. she was enjoying the sex we all love so much and getting paid too.. people are ranting she should do business that pays but she doesn't love lol .. u go explain tire..

kkins25:
Make man hustle, so his daughters won't be dehumanize by Arab men. 😭😭😭..

Imagine doing hook up to sustain the whole family. The psychological pressure, having to endure BS for sake of family, at the same time knowing your family may not even appreciate your efforts or even look down on you if they become aware of your job.

Doing all that so other people can live better lives would be daunting.. No wonder they end up taking drugs and wasting away.. Not an easy job at all..
😭😭😭

She will then raise man, who'd pick up misogynist ideas from his sorounding, and belittle the sacrifices women like his mother make.. The easiest way to collect money from rich people is to sell sex. In other words wealth re-distrubution..

You are naive to think having money stop prostitute children from engaging in prostitution. Some do it as a passion(sex slave they only stop when there is no demand for them and then graduates to sugar mummies) while others do it as a result of greed and not been contented with what they work out as legitimate income. Though having money for the family can help turn a little percentage off the Prostitution trade.

If I ask you if you were born with a silver spoon, your answer will probably be no , did not been born with silver spoon a reason to go into armed robbery?

These girls don't ever want responsibilities and accountability that is why they do what they do , it's that bad. Men have also fueled this greed of ladies in our society to an extent almost all ladies now behave like a prostitute (equating giving money in return with sex else they say you don't love them . It's a scary situation in Nigeria.

luskysylver:
Only if family understands what some of us first child passed though to make life easier for them. But funny enough they may not understand. As a first child with 5 younger ones to look at for, i have to borrow, work extra time, deny myself some good things just to pay school fees, feed them. If you are lucky enough they appreciate, if u are not they will use you at the peak of their career as a no body.

I sincerely appreciate the lady on her courage towards this part, even though i know, she knows that its not the best way to go, but circumstances and grace of God has kept her to this point and i would encourage her to quiet and begin to manage her life with the money she has saved up and reduce her cost of living. Send the younger ones to affordable university( it must not be private). She will eventually get a good husband if she wants and make her own home.

Its time to stop. It has been grace keeping you all these while. Think about these things and work on them. Once again you are well appreciate and i understand the level of sacrifice you have put in. I am a first child i know what my salary is passing through.

Its time to quiet.

I swear being a first child is not easy,in my own case I have 5 jnr ones,it's been from paying this to paying that,fixing the mess of my jnr bro,trying to provide for every one in other to keep the love nd bond going

60% of what I make every month goes to family,may God help us that 're first born

Gerrard59:


He wants to beat someone yet he camped a similar person in his house for a week. These are the Nigerian men I write about: sanctimonious, hypocritical, liars yet sex driven. His counterparts in the yukay are crying daily because of no sex in the midst of women wearing short skirts and shorts.

you know them well

Kelechi009:

Based on your conclusion, I'd expect the other countries to have similar problems but with the look of things online, I doubt it..

They do have similar “problems”

Ashawo Dey Your Eye. Your parents had a great job that's enough to take care of the family. You just wanted more. you can't be 24 and your parents are retired. if your parents are retired then you and your siblings are grown to some extent. if you had followed the steps they laid down for you, you could also be doing well by now and also supporting them financially too

sirblend:
She will also spend huge amount to treat infections monthly.

Unfortunately she didn't mention she ever did that. The story would have been balanced if there was at least an occasion when she had to treat an STI or STD.

$20k to be brutalised! Wow. I thank god for my life, my faith and my family. Contentment is a blessing. Everyone is an innocent little child and then life comes to kill that child and create a monster in its place. 🥲