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Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? / Una Wey Una Mama No Born Plenty Pikin No Know Wetin God Do For Una. / My mother and her plenty pastors. (2) (3) (4)

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Adewale1603(m): 10:40pm On Apr 20
MrPOTUS:



The problem with Nigerians (since we're here) is lacking of strategic spacing of their kids. Dey give birth like pigs.

Like d ones I saw yesterday, a mother and her children, 4 or 5 kids or so and the highest age isn't up to 10 years. You go think say na 7 days dem take senior themselves. All of them just small.


Birth spacing should be at least 4 to 5 yrs between siblings, so when you're having your third or last child, d older siblings will be a bit mature and less stress to you.
birth spacing doesn't apply in naija, can only work in early marriages. Most ladies getting married at the age of 35, 40, or late 40s, some 50s. which birth spacing she wan do again, until menopause will click in.

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by wolebest: 10:40pm On Apr 20
meedoLock:
Happy weekend frnd grin
So, you are to holistically consider your mental state and imagine all the physical and mental stress having kids would make you go through. Most especially, women of this world. tongue

I'm also expecting a first child, and I do feel for our mothers/women, they in most cases go through this children rough play torture alone, while men goes to the street of course to fend for their families.



Wonder years............

I love to experience this again.......those cute things can make one laugh and wonder.

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by GetCofOProperty: 10:41pm On Apr 20
Lol grin
Caaz:
I have 2 .... whenever I m not around them my heart keeps pounding.

Having and caring for kids is a big flex.
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by sunsweet33: 10:42pm On Apr 20
MrPOTUS:



The problem with Nigerians (since we're here) is lacking of strategic spacing of their kids. Dey give birth like pigs.

Like d ones I saw yesterday, a mother and her children, 4 or 5 kids or so and the highest age isn't up to 10 years. You go think say na 7 days dem take senior themselves. All of them just small.


Birth spacing should be at least 4 to 5 yrs between siblings, so when you're having your third or last child, d older siblings will be a bit mature and less stress to you.

Hahaha grin but when they’re all small like that is cute though. Lol
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by purples25(f): 10:43pm On Apr 20
BigYash:
One stubborn one can still do it.. It depends on the parent.. Thats what you get when you over pamper them.. You think they are small at that age,but they know much already too.. Until dem carry ur pistol blow ur teeth,you no go get sense

I don't think they actually know anything at 0 to 2 years. Maybe three years but before then... Well, some people start discipline right from the start. Even when most parents feel the kids don't understand.
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Larrydollarz(m): 10:43pm On Apr 20
Toddlers are so annoying eh!

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by meedoLock(m): 10:45pm On Apr 20
Michelle55:
Mine is already driving me bonkers and she hasn't gotten to that age yet, once she's awake trust me no more sleeping for you. I'm already contemplating running away for a week perhaps she will calm down. My phone screen is gone and changing it is one heck of money thanks to my madam who decided to use it as gum scratcher.

🤣🤣🤣
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by sunsweet33: 10:45pm On Apr 20
RichDad1:
Normal levels

😆😆😆 I did this on the walls as a baby, my parents didn’t remove it. It’s still there!
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by meedoLock(m): 10:47pm On Apr 20
Arabk25:
Some people are desperately looking for this trouble
Its well
On my kneels everyday for my big sist 15yrs now but it will happen one day I know

Heeyaa. Good news soon bro. embarassed

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by NairalandGOAT1: 10:49pm On Apr 20
meedoLock:
Happy weekend frnd grin
So, you are to holistically consider your mental state and imagine all the physical and mental stress having kids would make you go through. Most especially, women of this world. tongue

I'm also expecting a first child, and I do feel for our mothers/women, they in most cases go through this children rough play torture alone, while men goes to the street of course to fend for their families.

Op you said you are expecting your first child, so tell us will you like to change your mind after seeing those pictures

And by the way, I saw my children's photo among the ones you posted, who gave you the permission to do that?
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by NOETHNICITY(m): 10:49pm On Apr 20
I want to have lots of kids

Minimum of 6

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by meedoLock(m): 10:51pm On Apr 20
NOETHNICITY:
I want to have lots of kids

Minimum of 6

Na baba u be oh! 🙄

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by NairalandGOAT1: 10:52pm On Apr 20
Caaz:
I have 2 .... whenever I m not around them my heart keeps pounding.

Having and caring for kids is a big flex.

If by flex you mean full time job, then you are 10001% correct 💯
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Chivik93(m): 10:57pm On Apr 20
I want to have plenty kids and plenty money
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Callosobruchus(m): 10:58pm On Apr 20
What a coincidence!I'm at the family house right now,one of my sisters is here with her 3 kids (four kids perhaps, but the eldest who is a 14 year old kid has gone back to a boarding school),the rug is extremely wet on one portion at the main parlour,the tile in their rooms have always been sticky with soda eventhough the maid mops it up every once in a while.Cups,plates, spoons scattered everywhere.Just three kids O!But I can't say the same about my eldest sister and her six kids some years back when they were younger;if you do anyhow you go collect.She's raising her kids the same way mum raised us;how can I believe that at the moment I can admonish my old mum that possessed that white cable for koboko wey if you do anyhow you go see anyhow.Wow! Time...

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Taiwojon(m): 11:00pm On Apr 20
It Is not yours to decide whether they want plenty or not

More so
Na God dey give pikin
And children are heritage from God.

The God who provide the children will sustain them

Anyway
Jesus is calling you today
Repent from your sins and believe the gospel

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Blackdisciple(m): 11:00pm On Apr 20
Kids are kid
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by kay29000(m): 11:02pm On Apr 20
Caaz:

I have already decided to have just 2 kids even before I married.

I nor de like do pass myself.
The two now eeh,the way they fight eeh...

I m dealing with a brainy headache as I m typing,e nor easy.

Lol! This reminds me of my nieces...always playing together, but always fighting too. The last fight scared me...it was like Game of Thrones fight...I was just hearing pot cover sound and stick sound cheesy

I had to run inside to settle the fight.

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by joachimnkenchor(m): 11:03pm On Apr 20
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Follow that link and make some money for yourself n kids
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Barteze: 11:06pm On Apr 20
These are the fun of having kids around in fact the more the merrier. You might not know it at the time but let them leave home for two days and you'll start missing them the house will become boring.

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Dpaulie(m): 11:08pm On Apr 20
E nor easy
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by twilliamx(m): 11:13pm On Apr 20
Greatest memory
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by DaddyGngeess(m): 11:23pm On Apr 20
They will outgrown all this some day now, is their time now
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by twilliamx(m): 11:29pm On Apr 20
I have 3kids and am intending to adopt 2 more.
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by GUNITGuy: 11:35pm On Apr 20
I like kids ....
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by Coronavirus1: 11:36pm On Apr 20
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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by jaxxy(m): 11:37pm On Apr 20
As a child I did similar stuffs. These should help u develop and improve ur parenting skills not discourage u.
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by faceland: 11:44pm On Apr 20
Get a safe environment. At this age, they should be outside playing hard so their bones and immune system is strong.

Locking them indoors equals damaged properties
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by MVLOX(m): 11:49pm On Apr 20
This pictures came too late...... I don born 4 already grin cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:51pm On Apr 20
"silence is golden but when you have young kids, silence is suspicious"..... BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAH very fucking true!
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by MrPresident1: 11:56pm On Apr 20
Stupid premise
Idiotic conclusions

The world is underpopulated. The world needs more people

The earth will be cleared of the people who have turned God's creation into hell, whonhave inverted everyting
Re: See These And Decide If You Still Want To Have Plenty Kids by ravensckar(m): 12:14am On Apr 21
Raising children can be hard but I think disciplining them early in life helps to curb their excesses. Children always believe they can get away with any misdeed because of the love their parents have for them and their 'cuteness factor'. Any parent that falls for it will find himself/herself being manipulated by his/her child. angry angry

When my daughter was about 2 years old, she had a nasty attitude of hitting her head on the wall whenever she was angry or was denied of something. Sometimes, she'll destroy anything on sight just to prove her point. Her mum will try to indulge her by giving her whatever she requested. That only made her become worse. By the time I swung into action, that 'evil spirit' left her and she turned a new leaf. Me wey no get time for rubbish. cheesy cheesy

It always surprises everyone how my children can be so calm and well behaved. They rarely damage anything in the house talk less of injuring themselves or other children. When people ask me what's the strategy, I say it's prayer. But deep down, it's strategic discipline. cheesy cheesy cheesy

Yes, they sometimes play rough but it's not anything major. Their rough plays could be messing up the house by throwing clothes & shoes all around, tearing their books in the name of making paper arts, writing jargons on different pages or watching cartoons and acting it out. Occasionally, they ride their bicycles or use their tabs.

Raising children can be hard but I think having great parenting skills help a lot. With their mum, they can do & undo. They always stress her to the point where she'll shout and yell. But with me, they are always on their best behaviour. cheesy cheesy

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