I've been unable to love anyone for years but finally met someone I'm so in love with and want to settle down but no money, I earn close to 100k a month but that's not enough to start a family judging with the responsibilities I have and she's leaving. She has limited time to stay in my location cos she's done with school and have to go back home which is really far from where I am. Please any advise would be welcomed cos if I lose her I might end up marrying someone I might get tired of

my advice...abort the mission, marriage is a scam....I made this comment before I read even if I read my advice will still be the same no mattet what

Oga, always remember that you're a man and your biological clock isnt ticking like hers . If she wants to go then let her go ...bikonu. You won't die. In fact, it will let you focus to making money and eventually land you with someone who isn't loving you on the premise of financial gains

libertyfather:
my advice...abort the mission, marriage is a scam....I made this comment before I read even if I read my advice will still be the same no mattet what

This is the smartest advice I've heard all year long

Jashub:
Oga, always remember that you're a man and your biological clock isnt ticking like hers . If she wants to go then let her go ...bikonu. You won't die. In fact, it will let you focus to making money and eventually land you with someone who isn't loving you on the premise of financial gains

I understand you but she's not with me cos of any promises, I just know how hard it is for me to love someone genuinely and I finally found one I'm comfortable with and she's a good person.

Emma4321:
I understand you but she's not with me cos of any promises, I just know how hard it is for me to love someone genuinely and I finally found one I'm comfortable with and she's a good person.

I said premise not promise oga, and by the way, just tell her the situation and let her decided if he's willing to marry you in that state or not .

Jashub:
I said premise not promise oga, and by the way, just tell her the situation and let her decided if he's willing to marry you in that state or not .

thanks for this

In all you do, make sure you do not get her pregnant

Better avoid getting married to a jennyclay type...

Oga let her go , she may turn out to be ur worst nightmare. Just hustle and make money , u will always find someone ur heart loves when you are made

Emma4321:
I've been unable to love anyone for years but finally met someone I'm so in love with and want to settle down but no money, I earn close to 100k a month but that's not enough to start a family judging with the responsibilities I have and she's leaving. She has limited time to stay in my location cos she's done with school and have to go back home which is really far from where I am. Please any advise would be welcomed cos if I lose her I might end up marrying someone I might get tired of

Another Mumu Man let loose.

duduade:
In all you do, make sure you do not get her pregnant

I no mumu like that

Do the opposite and she will stick by you.

duduade:
In all you do, make sure you do not get her pregnant

How can you marry someone as you earn such an amount...

Gone are those days that one would think love could suffice. Nowadays money suffice for all. Imagine now bringing children into this economy... If it's just one child.. better at least you plan ahead... But Nigerians have a way of reproducing like mice esp those that are way below the earning capacity

duduade:
How can you marry someone as you earn such an amount...

Gone are those days that one would think love could suffice. Nowadays money suffice for all. Imagine now bringing children into this economy... If it's just one child.. better at least you plan ahead... But Nigerians have a way of reproducing like mice esp those that are way below the earning capacity

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