Good evening all.
Please I need advice for a friend. My friend works in the corporate sector (Financial). She earns a decent salary and is happily married but her boss(a man) is the main problem here.

What can she do in a situation where her boss wants everyone to see her as a bad fellow?
Could it be because;
1. she got pregnant, and went on mat leave and maternity shift too? Why are some male bosses cruel? and this is someone who has a wife at home.
2. She puts herself first in anything she does at work. Can we say my friend is selfish here? Hmm
3. She goes to the hospital to treat herself whenever she's sick. Ever since she resumed her mat leave she overstayed the stipulated time the bank gave her for the other three months and this is just because she does her work properly and just to ensure that the team moves forward. Recently she fell heal and went to the hospital for treatment only for her boss to start calling her a lazy lady and at the same time comparing her strength to others. Hm, the evil men do...
4. She and her husband are both in the system and they earn quite a decent salary together.
5. Could it be that he and other colleagues are jealous?

Anytime my friend makes any single mistake, he'll start telling everyone, even those in other branches. He always threatens her with her appraisal anytime this girl needs to give her opinion about what she feels is not right.


This same boss is someone who calls himself a supervisor, he gossips about others with his subordinates (those he supervises).

Just because my friend is an introvert, she isn't a gossip, she's very quiet and reserved. I just feel he's trying to cheat this girl.


Please what can she do?
Quitting her job is a no-no. No boss can frustrate her to quit her job. Where was he when she was burning candles to pass training school exams?

Please advise us she's overly frustrated.

contact the supervisor, let him come and give us HIS SIDE of the story...

Let her give the boss her kpekus to nack and she will be alright if not it will end in sack for her

@Thermidehby ..... U have not said much really about what the boss did apart from gossips
..why is she listening to his gossips....?? money loss for vault?? She should do her job and go home

One thing is common with work places that are usually short staffed.... Anyone that calls in sick regular is like the black sheep of the team because it will make others work more

.....those fvnny supervisors always trying to make it look like they are not putting their best or not being considerate when they go to the hospital for any small thing.......

.u will hear something like...nobody is fine ooo" we are all managing and using drugs and trying to be at work"

Madam, it's nothing personal.....it's just their way of trying to make staffs do more....

Again...She should do her job....and go home.
. If she sick and cannot work for real......she should go to the hospital with proof.......

But the thing is... if she's falling sick and going to the hospital every time for everything... leaving the team hanging....no one will like her...not just her boss...even her team members that have to do her job when she's not around...

U nor dey work for 3 months ....maybe plus annual leave....making 4 months...plus closing earlier than every body for another 3 months... yet u still dey fall sick dey go hospital every time, dey miss work....yet u want make ur supervisor they pamper u..because he has a wife or mother at home.....(i dont know why u women like to play this card, ......sounds like cheap blackmail to me)