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| Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Meektunz: 3:20pm On May 11 |
For few days now I've been uploading about the situation I'm in after my wife confessed that i'm not the father of our first child. She is yet to leave my house because I've not been myself yet, the whole has left me down and depressed and also sick, but i've asked her to leave my house and everybody in her family has been calling to beg. Some of her siblings are calling to plead with me to allow the children finish this term in school before sending them away, while some are calling to plead with me to allow them stay and forgive, stating that I should consider my relationship with the child. Guess what? My wife is acting normal as if nothing happened, gisting ND going about her life normal while I'm left depressed and almost died. I've become the shadow of myself right now, I've lost significant weight, lost appetite and couldn't eat since last week. Nobody in my family is aware of anything happening right now because i abandoned my whole family since i married her because they Adviced me not to marry her but I insisted, that is what caused the end of my relationship with my family for the past 7 years. Please guys, I need help on how to be strong and continue my life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Seunpapa65: 3:25pm On May 11 |
Omo u got what you deserved you ditched your family over a hoe I want to curse you but no need you are already getting what you deserved My papa use to say this mmiri nwata kworo onweya adigi atu ya oyi 18 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by CountinBlessins(m): 3:27pm On May 11 |
Meektunz: Serves you right  You reap what you sow. You treated your family badly and she has done same to you. Infact as it stands you are childless. Better kick her out and find one ss3.studemt and start having children fast because no matter what , those kids are not yours 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Serves you right 👍 9 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Thugnificent(m): 3:29pm On May 11 |
CountinBlessins:Pls can you assist me with 1k to feed sir? |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by dkidd: 3:35pm On May 11 |
Now u know women... U dey see how she dey act like say nothing dey sup? Na so e go be when she finally kills u and the real father of her kids go dey ur house dey pound her day and night even before Dem bury u 6 feet... And guess who the loser is? Ur punk ass lol. Save urself and what's left of ur future now and ditch that bitcxh and the innocent bastard child. U should have a best friend in ur family. Talk ooo before u go like earth worm without any level... 15 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by muyico(m): 3:42pm On May 11 |
okay! thy lord will c u tru! 1 Like |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by tochez24(m): 3:43pm On May 11 |
Meektunz: You meet a woman and you suddenly chose her over your family you have known for all your life⚠️ You ACTUALLY deserve this situation you're in right now!!! 🚶🏾♂️🚶🏾♂️ 10 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by tochez24(m): 3:47pm On May 11 |
dkidd: Most men are just weaklings⚠️ I wish i can visit the person that called women a weaker vessel with a good slap😏😏 When you listen to some so called MEN, you will be shameful on their behalf i tell you... 6 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by ceragon123: 4:11pm On May 11 |
CountinBlessins: That ss3 student part is very important. He should take note |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by worldclass68(m): 4:15pm On May 11 |
She made you abandoned your own fams and have hers calling u and pleading on her behalf while she even acts as if nothing happens....and here u re like walking dead.... My bro....u re completely finished!! 9 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by dkidd: 4:29pm On May 11 |
tochez24:Lol they say it's love... I say fvck ur love and give me respect. They label me a toxic narcissistic I really don't give a fvck... Rather that than a dead loser. Those men will learn the hardest way 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by EmperorCaesar(m): 4:33pm On May 11 |
Cutting off your family members just cause of one woman is one of the surest way to die early Even if u aren't in good terms with you family, your woman shouldn't know cause if she does, she believes she can do anything to u and still go away with it In fact, most times, the presence of your family members is enough to make her sit tight always 8 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Originalsly: 4:43pm On May 11 |
Why was your family against her? ... and why were you for her? 2 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by imagrg(m): 4:44pm On May 11 |
Two suggested options for you: Forgive her and let other men with bigger preeks and stronger minds fvck her on your behalf and make children for you if you know your preek malfunctions like I believe your brain does. Or.. My candid advise for you is that you divorce her, that's if you were legally married to her, and relocate to another place/house. And if you feel emotionally attached to the child and probably your wife, you can be sending them some stipends monthly for sustenance. You could even get free fvcks sometimes from your whoring wife without emotional commitment. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Bliztzer: 4:56pm On May 11 |
Meektunz: When a woman is genuinely sorry you will know. The way I am seeing things, it seems the woman already has plan B and ready to move on. Man up and move on too, stop wallowing in self pity and guilt. We all are prone to make mistakes, therefore I can never judge for your shortcomings. U no kill any body, your wife betray you so. Me I no be preacher of marry another woman but if this one wey dey hand no good e beta make person avoid serpent wey ready to strike you at any given point. The reason why u be man is because you take preasure and still have your thinking faculty intact. No let one woman weak you. What if the child dies or anything else happen wey no good, you go die with am or then? Stand up and recalculate ur strategies. Lastly, try beg ur family for forgiveness. No shame o 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Meektunz: 4:56pm On May 11 |
imagrg:honestly bro, I wish I've got the funds to move to another house. You've really spoken well brother.... |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Meektunz: 4:59pm On May 11 |
Originalsly:honestly I don't know why, not as if they know her somewhere nor did she offend them... I just don't know. 1 Like |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by tochez24(m): 5:05pm On May 11 |
dkidd: Certainly⚠️⚠️ Most MEN think women are soft, innocent and deserves to be pampered 😁 While with women, it's war (kill or be killed)... These women are not joking at all!!!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by jamesversion: 5:16pm On May 11 |
Meektunz: Serves you right.  Suffer in your silence alone. If you have achieved greatness, you wouldn't have considered your family. I wish she brings home more bastards to you.  2 Likes |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Originalsly: 7:02pm On May 11 |
Meektunz: You never asked? ... how can you pull away from your family and not know why? They had to be a reason ... tribe or religion ... or they did what you most likely didn't do ... run a background check on her.... did you? She is not at all bothered should tell you she has no feelings for you .... not concerned. Instead of brooding over this .... try to learn from it .... reflect on the entire relationship.....see signs you've ignored ....the mistakes you've made ... this will help you in a future relationship. Forget about making up .... cut your losses .... gather yourself together as a man ... reconcile with your family .... move on. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by alpharoyalty: 8:26pm On May 11 |
Meektunz: Stupid weak men disgust me. #Spit 1 Like |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Dpharisee: 8:50pm On May 11 |
Mr Simparudeen, even if you want to send her away please keep your children. they are a product of your marriage to her. Get your family involved and apologise to them for the way and manner you treated them because of her. Don't let her go with your child even though he is not biologically yours since you married her except if you don't want the child |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by flokii: 9:17pm On May 11 |
You deserve all that is happening to you honestly.. I'm sure you're the type that gnore their parents when they see a flashy chick they lust over. Now that the pangbe of a woman has ruined your life, shey your eyes don clear?. 1 Like |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by id4sho(m): 9:43pm On May 11 |
Meektunz:We've told you earlier, involve your family, her mind go touch ground |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by AcadaWriter: 10:17pm On May 11 |
okay! thy lord will c u tru! |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by 1000Capacity: 10:31pm On May 11 |
What you need now is to ensure you open up to your close friends. They will be able to sow alot of bitterness in your heart that'll motivate you to act. Disloyalty and deciet are two evil factors you should never tolerate. |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by 1Sharon(f): 11:23pm On May 11 |
Attention seeker. I see where this is going. You go soon drop account number. 1 Like |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:50pm On May 11 |
Meektunz:you better don't kill yourself, go look for a 17years old girl, let her born for you and move On, nothing woman will do to hurt me like this |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Womanizer(m): 7:30am On Jun 01 |
1Sharon: Are you the one in that pic on your profile page? Your lips look kissable |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by FreeSpirited: 7:51am On Jun 01 |
Meektunz:Unfortunately, I have no dime of pity for men who fell for paternity fraud..no pity . They are either stvpid... especially in ur own case who would reject a whole family cos of a pssssy.. nonsense . They are can be so simpy that simpiness needs to teach them a lesson... . Some of them have money and believe it's , money that can bring loyalty from women...mumu men... . Some overhype beauty..this is most common among Igbo men...lol..mumu . So carry ur cross..I don't care... . And some it's the reward of their past wickedness against good women |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by Obaaderemi2: 2:40pm On Jun 01 |
You are real dindinrin. What's she still doing in your house? Listen to yourself: her family begged me to allow the children finish this term.... BLA BLA bla. You are agonizing and losing weight while she is still not concerned, gisting and eating and sleeping soundly. You know why? She has put you on a scale and knows you are light. She knows you can't do jack. That's why she even has the bravery to confess to you. If you talk too much she will let you fvck once in a while and you will keep quiet again. If you no run na she go kill you. |
| Re: Update After Finding Out About The Paternity Of My First Child by imagrg(m): 6:20am On Jun 02 |
And you are still patronising her toto? |
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