When you mention Sex, people see it as a sacrilege and see anybody who is discussing it openly as a dirty person.

Funny enough, some people believe you're not holy if you are having sexual intercourse despite that it is with your wife.

Leaving this major topic not discussed, especially when our religious scholars didn't talk about it, has caused more harm than good.

I am also one of the religious scholars. So, let me help you save your marriage. Before I nail my point, Let's briefly look at this real-life story.

A man who had courted his wife for two years eventually turned the wife into a punching bag and subjected her to all forms of maltreatment even after giving birth to children.

After much counseling, he opened up that the wife doesn't know how to “knack” as he presented.
He loved her because she was good at church service and very devoted.

Being a relationship counselor, I have heard of a related case that they were both religious beings but the husband wanted another style of sex. The wife saw it as unholy. Anything aside from missionary is unholy.

That led to lots of problems until proper counseling took place.

What is my point exactly, sexual intercourse should be discussed between husband and wife, and make sure they work towards making it perfect for both to enjoy.

If your wife doesn't know how to make love, teach her and vice versa.

Switch between sexual positions do any style, and place in your room or parlor. The only thing my religion forbids as a Muslim is anus sex.

Having sexual intercourse with your spouse is even an act of worship in Islam.

You're rewarded for it because if you do it with someone else's, you'll be dealt with.
It's among the greatest sins in Islam.

MouthAction is allowed in as much as you're not putting your mouth in each other's private part It is called: a microphone or Plate.

Hence, romance your spouse, kiss, etc.
Do doggy, do anything with your wife aside from the ones prohibited and in as much as it is your wife.

You can see each other's unclothedness. You're one but make sure no eyes see you guys and don't ever discuss with your friends how sexually active your partner is.

No home is perfect and it's also a big sin!
Any scholar that sees this topic as impure should comment with facts.

Save your marriage!

Signature: Aweda Olawale Kudus.