W0t0w0toman:


Another smelly simp has spoken

You must have been feeding on a pile of dog shit,,
Invest in a woman who is not loyal to you at your own risk....
I said u should correct that because
Investing on a loyal woman is Also a risk because she may stop being loyal later on,,
On this case,, The woman was loyal to him before,

Love of your life waya you there.

What pained me in this story is for the mum to sell her only property.Damn, I feel like weeping!!

I will continue to say it.na mumu man dey carry wife go abroad.mumu

Kobicove:
The UK happened to him!

LOOOOOLZ.

You are a joke walahi.

It's his mum I pity when she finds out how her son who swindled her was also swindled....


All these Bible Verses... I hope they keep him strong and sane for the next season of his life.


How dare he convince his mum to sell her house when he does not have an asset of his own...

Biglittlelois:
Same old story, quick to post the part that shows he's a victim, but deliberately refuse to tell us what led to it.

You no dey ever condemn bad things

Na to dey twist am all the time

It's hypocritical and you know it

StUriah:
My experience as a married man has proven to me that a man must always be on top of his game.

You must earn higher, be more knowledgeable, be financially smarter & wiser than the person you called your wife.

She only respect & honour you because you're ahead of her, virtually in everything.

Young men, instead of you falling in love, use your bachelorhood to improve on yourselves, make more money, acquire properties, and buy yourselves peace of mind. Never trust on woman's love. It is treacherous.

Thank you sir. I've seen a lot in life. No one can deceive me.

Jeon:
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.


And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

Her boyfriend will still kill her ...

HajiaNotu:


Let them " feast" on the incomplete story to massage their ego...They need it sometimes..

I want to believe that No sane lady will do that to the hubby considering the sacrifice (s) he made...Are Nigerian ladies that bad OR It's the Media painting us bad?

I think the millions of men that have good wife's don't celebrate them enough, that's why whenever the few odd stories of misbehaving women break out, they go into a frenzy. Anyway, the world loves bad news so let them enjoy.

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

Do Koreans, Pakistan, Iraq and Afghanistan citizens write this your so called exam?
Proud slave

Biglittlelois:
Same old story, quick to post the part that shows he's a victim, but deliberately refuse to tell us what led to it.

if a woman was dealt this way
will u bother to ask "what led to it?"

una sef

StUriah:


"Most 9ja women marry a guy who proposes, not really the guy they wanted.

When they get the opportunity to be independent, the unloved hubby becomes irritating".

I give it to this quote. Oil dey your head.

Fact

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

.

There are other nationals in the UK that cannot speak a word of English let alone write it yet they are not subjected to writing IELTS

English is not our language rather it was imposed, he doesn’t have to please you with it, the white man is not crucified if he can’t speak your local language, so let him be and focus on the issue at hand.

Tenk u.

Mom007:


I think the millions of men that have good wife's don't celebrate them enough, that's why whenever the few odd stories of misbehaving women break out, they go into a frenzy. Anyway, the world loves bad news so let them enjoy.

Trueeeee.

descarado:

He converses with non binary
This place

emmaodet:


Na WA oo
Everyday on nairaland with new grammars.
Which one is parallel family again? I know that word is used when oppositions decide to run a parallel government from the sitting government after a biased election.

When a man has another 'family' unknown to his 'official' family.

Creamypie:
A simp has been dumped. Very foolish man

Make una dey calm down ...

10years Marriage, Two Children ... Sponsored his wife & Mothers of His Children to UK .

Abeg, what is SIMP in That
.

She is a Wicked Woman Simple ....

All this una redpiller Isonu no go calm down !

idahme:
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

Oga, you are an experienced man that has said it all.
My paddy, when he saw thing were going south, sold his suv, sold his shop, processed passport and US visa for his family and got it. He let his wife and first daughter go first. Sometime later the wife came and carried the remaining 2 kids. My guy stayed trying to run some new business his friend started, which flopped. Before you know, 2 years visa had expired. That was how this guy was stuck without his family. Meanwhile wife could not visit naija as she over stayed her visa. Few years later, story goes that her people allegedly came to serve him divorce papers. They were still in the process when failing health came in. This guy was all alone, no money, nothing. He called once or twice and I sent what I could. Actually I did not know it was that serious, not until I got the call he passed. He died all alone without his wife and kids. They could not even come for the burial.
Man Joe. (1969-2023) Rest in peace..

LexngtonSteele:


These breakfast stories are funny to hear as an outsider.

Devastating if you're the one experiencing it or paternity fraud.

Truth is, men can be wicked but our anger no dey last. We can shout but days or a week, we don move on.

But you see women ? They can bear grudges for years... the day she will pack from your house...

She will cook your favourite meal, fvck you your favourite style and you will return to find the house empty, surgically cleaned.

Happened to lots of men.

Even me, na so Beyonce leave me at face-me-i-face-you for Jay-Z in New York

I can relate! 🤣

nedekid:

Oga, you are an experienced man that has said it all.
My paddy, when he saw thing were going south, sold his suv, sold his shop, processed passport and US visa for his family and got it. He let his wife and first daughter go first. Sometime later the wife came and carried the remaining 2 kids. My guy stayed trying to run some new business his friend started, which flopped. Before you know, 2 years visa had expired. That was how this guy was stuck without his family. Meanwhile wife could not visit naija as she over stayed her visa. Few years later, story goes that her people allegedly came to serve him divorce papers. They were still in the process when failing health came in. This guy was all alone, no money, nothing. He called once or twice and I sent what I could. Actually I did not know it was that serious, not until I got the call he passed. He died all alone without his wife and kids. They could not even come for the burial.
Man Joe. (1969-2023) Rest in peace..

Chai, what a cruel world

nedekid:

Oga, you are an experienced man that has said it all.
My paddy, when he saw thing were going south, sold his suv, sold his shop, processed passport and US visa for his family and got it. He let his wife and first daughter go first. Sometime later the wife came and carried the remaining 2 kids. My guy stayed trying to run some new business his friend started, which flopped. Before you know, 2 years visa had expired. That was how this guy was stuck without his family. Meanwhile wife could not visit naija as she over stayed her visa. Few years later, story goes that her people allegedly came to serve him divorce papers. They were still in the process when failing health came in. This guy was all alone, no money, nothing. He called once or twice and I sent what I could. Actually I did not know it was that serious, not until I got the call he passed. He died all alone without his wife and kids. They could not even come for the burial.
Man Joe. (1969-2023) Rest in peace..

Tears dropped from my eyes it rarely does. This is emotional, men should always learn from others mistakes and not let themselves be the mistake. RIP to your beloved friend and brother.

idahme:


Tears dropped from my eyes it rarely does. This is emotional, men should always learn from others mistakes and not let themselves be the mistake. RIP to your beloved friend and brother.

Thanks bro..