Beverlyjean:


But according to her father ...he said her husband was abusive towards her ... they also said her marriage failed....so how was her marriage ok according to u

I was at the house yesterday and the father didn't grant that interview. He is still as shocked as i

Beverlyjean:


He needs to come respond, cos they are already accusing him of being abusive and already accusing her of cheating .. why " failed marriage " as being the reason for her suicide is everywhere ... Rumours can destroy

Exactly. They are tarnishing his image as well. Funny thing only a Google search and his pics will be everywhere. He should come out and clear the air

OZIOGU1:


God can never punish me, but god will punish you, most of you are not wife material, you jump into marriage coz you have seen a man that can pay the bills, while in marriage you want to continue your hookup life outside.

one of the reason why most of you LovePeddler still remains single is because you want to take davido away from chioma, entitled fellow without single brain on how to make money and become financially independent, ode, many more women are on their way out of marriage and will remain side chicks to married men...my ex is working hard to be my side chick and all her application failed as i speak. and i place you in that category.

From your write up, it is very evident that you're an illiterate! Nairaland has equalized everyone that is why people with very low intelligence quotient can come here and rabble meaningless and out-of-point words. No need to engage further with a low-life like you..
You obviously have little to contribute and you lack comprehension...

Juzec:
Ignore the fool. The said lady is my close friend and has never been to South Africa all her life. I hate the way this lady is going about spreading lies that she knows nothing of. Really sad

Y call me a fool ... Dint u see where I said that's the story that's online and u are saying I am spreading lies.. then tell us what happend to her , u decide to keep quiet , instead of u to debunk it with the " real story" ... u are just telling us depression depression...what lead to it ?? Mrs she's my friend with no info...

Beverlyjean:



You call me a fool ... Dint u see where I said that's the story that's online and u are saying I am spreading lies.. then tell us what happend to her , u keep quiet , instead of u to debunk it with the " real story" ... u are just telling us depression depression...what lead to it ?? Mrs she's my friend with no info...

I'm sorry for calling you a fool. I lost it. If you care about the truth, you wouldn't be regurgitating unconfirmed stories that can be damaging all over the place. Why not wait for the facts before you spread the unconfirmed one.

immortalcrown:
The post that announced her death on the front page of this forum say ritual killing is suspected to have caused her death.

Many commenters on that thread assume she went for hookup.

Now on this thread, we are told she committed suicide. Anyways, may her soul rest in peace.

But let's talk about why a woman will commit suicide because of a failed marriage. Slay queens are the ones that commit suicide because of failed marriages. Only a woman that married for public validation and to brag and intimidate her romance rivals will commit suicide when the marriage fails her because she can't withstand mockery and ridicules from those she has tried to intimidate. Most of the women in this category are the type that posts nice family photos online as a coverup while dying in silence. They either marry good men but use bad characters to destroy the marriages or behave well in the marriages but suffer because they used gold digging mentality to choose the wrong men. Quote me anywhere.

A failed marriage causes bitterness and is very difficult to bear. But a woman who didn't go into marriage for the sake of peer pressure will not commit suicide if the marriage fails her. She will not post nice family pictures online as a coverup when she is suffering in the marriage. She will either cope in the marriage or leave the man. Quote me anywhere.

ADDED:
😂😂😂
Those attacking my comment cannot point out any falsehood or injustice in my comment. They are attacking me because they cannot withstand the bitter truth in my comment. They are not able to deny the claims in my comment. Haters of balanced judgement. Does my comment support marriage abuse? No. Does my comment trivialize marriage abuse? No. Does my comment condemn every woman? No. My comment describes good women and bad women. Does my comment present men as saints? No. So, why are they attacking me?😂

There is no bitter truth in your comment. The only truth I can deduce is that you are a shameless man. A man that finds excuses for men to abuse women is not worthy to be called a man. May your daughters feel this woman's pain, when that happens please keep this same idiotic energy.

OZIOGU1:


Exactly, and i am one of those with info here, but i will not say a word, check my previous comment on this thread, city college, Nurses estate, those who knows this area will confirm somethings, but we wait for her family to come up with more accusation then we throw first ballistic fact that will tear the internet down

Juzec... told u that u ain't the only one with info....

EchoEnigma:
There is no bitter truth in your comment. The only truth I can deduce is that you are a shameless man. A man that finds excuses for men to abuse women is not worthy to be called a man. May your daughters feel this woman's pain, when that happens please keep this same idiotic energy.

Point out any justification of abuse in my comment. Otherwise, you are the shameless one.

Explain how any sentence or paragraph in my comment justifies abuse.

Beverlyjean:


Juzec... told u that u ain't the only one with info....

This one is just chasing clout. It pains me to see all these dragging. I wished she was strong enough to overcome her depression. I'm sure the husband will reply. I pray when he does, you will still tag me. Cos they are dragging both parties now.

I wouldn't want to offend God and humanity especially her family who is mourning her death at the moment. Some ladies have chosen not to marry as a result of their bad character, so they do everything possible to make sure even those of their friends who are married do not settle down in their marriage by giving them bad advice that could lead to their separation from their men, but some of them wont use their wisdom to detect what is coming rather heed to their friends advice and loose on both side
Again, some of them marry the so called guys with swag which they prefer to walk with on the street instead of marrying the real man that will give them joy. The deed is already done, on her part i don't know who is wrong or right here but my advice is that let all learn and follow those who may accommodate us as husband and wife and stop running after material things or beauty/handsomeness.

The family of the lady just wants to heap the unfortunate incidence on the husband. She may have been having a challenging marriage but I doubt if She committed suicide because of that. Something else must have happened to her and the lady's family wants to use the opportunity to deal with the husband, whom they felt is not a responsible man.

Such news scare me tbh. May God help me, I'm getting married this Saturday 25th May, 2024. I pray my home will be filled with love and happiness. I solicit your prayers

A sad one indeed.
who could ever have told that such a beauty was passing through depression.
Live one day at a time and be thankful for who you are.

Your children should have been your priority and not some man who doesn't care anymore.

You should have lived for those children

Hmmm...it is well
glory be 2 God her husband name is not mentioned,plus they both come from benue,if not! If the husband name is igbo or yoruba, u would have seen the youths from both sides embarrassing n disgracing each other on this thread by now. Clique of unfortunate human beings.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace at the bossom of our lord.

They want to rope the husband in now.

Juzec:
What rubbish is this? She has never been to South Africa all her life. She came back to Nigeria on her own freely. Please stop smearing the name of the dead.

Were was she before coming back to Nigeria?

akojifred:
Were was she before coming back to Nigeria?

Abidjan

post=130074384:
See The Previous Thread - https://www.nairaland.com/8099812/margret-oyibo-atayi-found-dead



Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/5/nigerian-woman-allegedly-commits-suicide-over-failed-marriage-2.html

Sometimes suicide is the only way out.

TheWinterBird:
She went out at 3am to commit suicide? Or somebody killed her?

nobody is thinking towards this direction o.

lululovesblue:
I don't understand. She should have gone in broad daylight, maybe around 11am to a known location to do it? Maybe she should have stood in front of ShopRite around 12pm when people move about a lot. Would that be more plausible for you? Maybe because it's a cold morning, maybe that's why I find it hard to understand your point. Please explain.

There was no proper clarification in the post except the faulty claims by her father.

1. A woman went out at odd hour around 3am was declared missing for days, and no one were able to see her corp within the same area or nearby neighbourhood? Does it mean she travel so far away at that odd hour for people not to see her Corp until after days?

2. How did the father knows from a Corp of days that she actually commited a suicide?

3. By what way or manner did she committed the said suicide? Who were there or saw her when she went out.

There are some things we should always keep to ourselves. We are all going to die someday, so we should always respect the dead and pray for their eternal rest.

Juzec:
Your last line shows you don't really care about the truth. I would have told you what happened. But believe whatever you want to believe.

pls tell us what happened. It is important pls. May her soul rest in peace.

MrBrownJay1:
thats exactly what i said earlier about women being emotional beings, while a man would have jejely moved on with his life.

what else should a woman do but to divorce that abusive husband?! to think that she believed that death was the better solution than to walk away from that abusive marriage, kai...

men commit suicide 10times more than women, women endure more, so stop talking rubbish, life has never happened to u

Let us morn and bury the dead, the truth will be out in no distance time, sometimes i just feel NL can have more details of its members, this forum is a place people just come and spew rubbish without fact.

I dont comments most time here, infact i enjoy reading peoples banters , but if the need arises, i say it just exactly the way it is...

Let us wait and be patience, the truth with undiluted fact will be out.

PerfectStranger:
Are there even people enjoying a blissful marriage in this generation?

it’s very difficult to find, due to extreme irresponsibility , immorality of this generation, lack of love and many I’ll vices, we are reaping what we sow

Police need to work hard and be more competent! Reading the previous and this recent information points to several inconsistency

Family members are not coroners and once they assume a position it is highly likely they want the matter to rest or covering up.

Definitely. If you spend too much time online you start getting jaded and believing the world is bleaker than it really is. There are people in marriages filled with love and consideration, loyalty and peace. Don't believe everything the internet shoves in your face. I promise you, lots of people are doing fine. Just choose well and you can do fine too. This is why I make sure I don't spend too much time online. The world is much brighter than social media makes it appear. You'll be fine.

PerfectStranger:
Are there even people enjoying a blissful marriage in this generation?

Naija*Cover you are an illiterate blogger that will not wait to get the correct news before putting a stupid caption on your posts.

Where you not the one who wrote that she was killed by rituals?

Always excited and jumping up to deliver silly news with no concrete information.

Seun please do something about this.

immortalcrown:
The post that announced her death on the front page of this forum say ritual killing is suspected to have caused her death.

Many commenters on that thread assume she went for hookup.

Now on this thread, we are told she committed suicide. Anyways, may her soul rest in peace.

But let's talk about why a woman will commit suicide because of a failed marriage. Slay queens are the ones that commit suicide because of failed marriages. Only a woman that married for public validation and to brag and intimidate her romance rivals will commit suicide when the marriage fails her because she can't withstand mockery and ridicules from those she has tried to intimidate. Most of the women in this category are the type that posts nice family photos online as a coverup while dying in silence. They either marry good men but use bad characters to destroy the marriages or behave well in the marriages but suffer because they used gold digging mentality to choose the wrong men. Quote me anywhere.

A failed marriage causes bitterness and is very difficult to bear. But a woman who didn't go into marriage for the sake of peer pressure will not commit suicide if the marriage fails her. She will not post nice family pictures online as a coverup when she is suffering in the marriage. She will either cope in the marriage or leave the man. Quote me anywhere.

ADDED:
😂😂😂
Those attacking my comment cannot point out any falsehood or injustice in my comment. They are attacking me because they cannot withstand the bitter truth in my comment. They are not able to deny the claims in my comment. Haters of balanced judgement. Does my comment support marriage abuse? No. Does my comment trivialize marriage abuse? No. Does my comment condemn every woman? No. My comment describes good women and bad women. Does my comment present men as saints? No. Does my comment justify abuse in any form? No. So, why are they attacking me?😂

A comforting sweet lies is better than harsh bitter truth. While no one can confirm whether or not she was a victim or a participant in her ordeal. From age long awareness most people are willing participants in what causes their depression and what follows.

And the post says. She has gone to be with the Lord... Oh please!

The result of her action is hell must you end your life over a fail marriage.Peak yourself up from any situation you find yourself especially when you are a quality being .Never result to kill yourself because of disappointment it might even be a blessing.

Beverlyjean:


Exactly...reason y u wudnt say... cheating was involved as it seems tho unconfirmed ...but its like u wanna give reasons y it happened like that... but knowing that it will still not be accepted ...

how are u so sure cheating was involved? U said it happened in SA, her close friend say the lady has not been to SA. And u are still running mouth that cheating is involved

immortalcrown:
If you are not the mumu, point out any bad thing my comment supports. I am waiting.

You people should have empathy for others, be it woman or man, she's dead and we re in Nigeria where people commit crimes and go free because there will no proper investigation, even if she went for hook up and got killed or committed suicide as a Christian are you not supposed to be sad for her, almost all men re crafty and unforgiven but wont stop judging women who fell into their trap.

don't be be offended by my first quote I was sad about the news