https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6aX2Tlr3cg?si=2xs8SmeSqyZ7c9Rn

True statement of fact.
Any woman who feels she can't be obedient to any man should remain in her father's house till Post Menopause.

The guy says in the beginning that it is "a women to women talk". Is he a woman now? I stopped watching right there. These are the kind of dumbos who upload such videos and think they sound smart.

Onyiiobi7735:
True statement of fact.
Any woman who feels she can't be obedient to any man should remain in her father's house till Post Menopause.

But if you stand before a Caucasian woman, you go begin to dey stammer and can't repeat what you posted here.

Mindlog:


But if you stand before a Caucasian woman, you go begin to dey stammer and can't repeat what you posted here.

Ooooh! What mental home did you escape from?
From your ramblings, you must be one of those violent loonies who rant, and drool saliva and even bite and scratch.

Onyiiobi7735:

Ooooh! What mental home did you escape from?
From your ramblings, you must be one of those violent loonies who rant, and drool saliva and even bite and scratch.

I am trained and paid to listen to your type, then I filter and place you in the right cluster of personality disorders that fits your markers, then formulate treatment plans.

Mindlog:


I am trained and paid to listen to your type, then I filter and place you in the right cluster of personality disorders that fits your markers, then formulate treatment plans.

Oh! How sweet?
But don't you think you deserve a place among people with the disorders you mentioned?
I wasn't mentioning you and you started barking.
Who's the lunatic?

A lot of people have a twisted view of marriage and view it as a military dictatorship. I believe the husband is the head of the home, that's obvious. And the prime decisionmaker. But a marriage isn't all about "go and do this" "yes boss". It's supposed to be a loving partnership. Which means everyone's thoughts and feelings should be taken into account. As a man, it's good to hear your wife's point of view. Unless you went ahead to marry a duIIard you should be able to get some points from her. The decision-making remains on you, but still get her opinion. If your marriage is based on love this wouldn't be a problem. And a good woman will feel valued if she was listened to, even if her advice wasn't followed. Do you get?

When I marry, my husband's opinion will take precedence over anyone else. But if I'm always shouted down and viewed as insignificant, I'd start to feel stifled. And then that's how marriages become loveless. I'm always grateful my dad values my mom to ask for her point of view on stuff. And my mom will bring any issue she has to him to hear what he has to say. It makes everything flow so smoothly. I hope my marriage is like that. Actual love.

Onyiiobi7735:
Oh! How sweet?
But don't you think you deserve a place among people with the disorders you mentioned?
I wasn't mentioning you and you started barking.
Who's the lunatic?

I didn't slide into your DM, this is a public forum.....uncle no dey take lunatic, mental home etc to take yab me, na the soft work whey dey pay me hourly be that o!

Now, back to the koko of the matter....as a Black man, can you say that same thing to a Caucasian woman. na fellow Black women una go dey form messiah around!

Uncle whey e mouth dey shake for the video, dey this same UK where e no get mouth near British Caucasian women rather he would be obeying them to feel validated!

lululovesblue:
A lot of people have a twisted view of marriage and view it as a military dictatorship. I believe the husband is the head of the home, that's obvious. And the prime decisionmaker. But a marriage isn't all about "go and do this" "yes boss". It's supposed to be a loving partnership. Which means everyone's thoughts and feelings should be taken into account. As a man, it's good to hear your wife's point of view. Unless you went ahead to marry a duIIard you should be able to get some points from her. The decision-making remains on you, but still get her opinion. If your marriage is based on love this wouldn't be a problem. And a good woman will feel valued if she was listened to, even if her advice wasn't followed. Do you get?

When I marry, my husband's opinion will take precedence over anyone else. But if I'm always shouted down and viewed as insignificant, I'd start to feel stifled. And then that's how marriages become loveless. I'm always grateful my dad values my mom to ask for her point of view on stuff. And my mom will bring any issue she has to him to hear what he has to say. It makes everything flow so smoothly. I hope my marriage is like that. Actual love.

Straight and simple... Love is give and take.
I feel you baby girl

lululovesblue:
A lot of people have a twisted view of marriage and view it as a military dictatorship. I believe the husband is the head of the home, that's obvious. And the prime decisionmaker. But a marriage isn't all about "go and do this" "yes boss". It's supposed to be a loving partnership. Which means everyone's thoughts and feelings should be taken into account. As a man, it's good to hear your wife's point of view. Unless you went ahead to marry a duIIard you should be able to get some points from her. The decision-making remains on you, but still get her opinion. If your marriage is based on love this wouldn't be a problem. And a good woman will feel valued if she was listened to, even if her advice wasn't followed. Do you get?

When I marry, my husband's opinion will take precedence over anyone else. But if I'm always shouted down and viewed as insignificant, I'd start to feel stifled. And then that's how marriages become loveless. I'm always grateful my dad values my mom to ask for her point of view on stuff. And my mom will bring any issue she has to him to hear what he has to say. It makes everything flow so smoothly. I hope my marriage is like that. Actual love.

How do I like this post a million times? You spoke my mind👍

Telling you what to do, and controlling you are two different things ..
A woman can tell her husband what to do, a man also can tell his wife...
But to control, to lord over, to ascertain unnecessary dominance over someone or me, is a no no to a man... I won't agree to such person...
I am a person before I became a wife...
Me sef be somebody..

Mindlog:


I didn't slide into your DM, this is a public forum.....uncle no dey take lunatic, mental home etc to take yab me, na the soft work whey dey pay me hourly be that o!

Now, back to the koko of the matter....as a Black man, can you say that same thing to a Caucasian woman. na fellow Black women una go dey form messiah around!

Uncle whey e mouth dey shake for the video, dey this same UK where e no get mouth near British Caucasian women rather he would be obeying them to feel validated!

Mindlog:


I didn't slide into your DM, this is a public forum.....uncle no dey take lunatic, mental home etc to take yab me, na the soft work whey dey pay me hourly be that o!

Now, back to the koko of the matter....as a Black man, can you say that same thing to a Caucasian woman. na fellow Black women una go dey form messiah around!

Uncle whey e mouth dey shake for the video, dey this same UK where e no get mouth near British Caucasian women rather he would be obeying them to feel validated!

You sound really intelligent.