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What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Enemyofpeace: 12:48am On May 27
1. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you are or dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you are ever complaining, negative, bitter, cold; he will keep off

2. CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS
Sex starts in the mind. When a man is mentally strained, his penis will struggle to erect. Worry and desire don't mix

3. CHECK YOUR HYGIENE
Your husband might want to do stuff to your body but if you don't keep clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just penetration

4. CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN
A husband who is addicted to porn or masturbation will rarely make sexual advances on you, you will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don't judge him; support him to break the habit

5. CHECK YOUR TONE
The wife's tone can easily turn off a man. A wife's tone can even make a husband keep coming home late, not because he is cheating but because her tone is unwelcoming. Does your husband enjoy your company or do you expect him to love your presence even when you are harsh to him? If he won't enjoy your presence, he won't desire you

6. CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES
Many wives turn down the husband's advances then expect he will easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. Men get tired too. The more you poor cold water on his advances, the more you push him away

7. CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM
If you are ever praising your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favourite celebrity or another woman's husband whilst you belittle him; you will bruise his ego. Men make love with their ego. Bruise his ego and you will discourage his fire for you

8. CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
If you disrespect him or talk down at him in front of others or the children, he will let you be. A man who feels respected and admired gets turned on easily

9. CHECK HIS FINANCIAL ISSUES
Find out if he is going through financial challenges or fears, this hinders a man's libido. Financial comfort leads to more sexual hunger. Show him you understand his effort

10. CHECK IF THERE IS A MAN YOU ARE ENTERTAINING
If you are chatting with or flirting with another man, you will easily kill your husband's desire. Men don't like to share or to know the wife is turning on another man. Show him you are faithful and he comes first

11. CHECK YOUR EXCUSES
If you keep lying that you are sick, on your periods or tired to avoid your husband, he will soon find out and switch off. Once he switches off, it will be difficult to get his hunger for you back. Don't make excuses. Be honest, be real

12. CHECK YOUR FALSE ACCUSATIONS
Nothing hurts and turns off a man like being faithful yet the wife accuses him of cheating. Stop jumping into conclusions based on your fears and insecurities

13. CHECK IF YOU SOUND LIKE A BROKEN RECORD
If he tries to resolve issues with you but you keep bringing them up, he will be put off. He will see you and think "Here we go again", making him turn the bedroom to nothing more than the place he sleeps but finds no peace. Men make love when there is peace

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️
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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Hermaphrodite2: 1:11am On May 27
Call me if the post reach front page
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:22am On May 27
COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR HUSBAND/WIFE should be the #1 thing to do, rather than all the above assumptions as to what is wrong...

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Double0h7(f): 1:51am On May 27
Have sex with someone else. No need to complicate life. 🙄

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Marvyx(m): 2:46am On May 27
Double0h7:
Have sex with someone else. No need to complicate life. 🙄

And go back to your father's house, no need to complicate life.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Double0h7(f): 2:49am On May 27
Marvyx:


And go back to your father's house, no need to complicate life.

That’s your poverty that you’re projecting on to the world 🤭

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Marvyx(m): 2:50am On May 27
Double0h7:


That’s your poverty that you’re projecting on to the world 🤭
Whatever makes you sleep at night.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Double0h7(f): 2:52am On May 27
Marvyx:

Whatever makes you sleep at night.


I sleep well! Can you say the say?
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by 4KNGOAT: 3:52am On May 27
Enemyofpeace:
1. CHECK YOUR A

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Why all these troubles when you can actually fok someone else

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 3:57am On May 27
Enemyofpeace:
1. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you are or dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you are ever complaining, negative, bitter, cold; he will keep off

2. CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS
Sex starts in the mind. When a man is mentally strained, his penis will struggle to erect. Worry and desire don't mix

3. CHECK YOUR HYGIENE
Your husband might want to do stuff to your body but if you don't keep clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just penetration

4. CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN
A husband who is addicted to porn or masturbation will rarely make sexual advances on you, you will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don't judge him; support him to break the habit

5. CHECK YOUR TONE
The wife's tone can easily turn off a man. A wife's tone can even make a husband keep coming home late, not because he is cheating but because her tone is unwelcoming. Does your husband enjoy your company or do you expect him to love your presence even when you are harsh to him? If he won't enjoy your presence, he won't desire you

6. CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES
Many wives turn down the husband's advances then expect he will easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. Men get tired too. The more you poor cold water on his advances, the more you push him away

7. CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM
If you are ever praising your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favourite celebrity or another woman's husband whilst you belittle him; you will bruise his ego. Men make love with their ego. Bruise his ego and you will discourage his fire for you

8. CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
If you disrespect him or talk down at him in front of others or the children, he will let you be. A man who feels respected and admired gets turned on easily

9. CHECK HIS FINANCIAL ISSUES
Find out if he is going through financial challenges or fears, this hinders a man's libido. Financial comfort leads to more sexual hunger. Show him you understand his effort

10. CHECK IF THERE IS A MAN YOU ARE ENTERTAINING
If you are chatting with or flirting with another man, you will easily kill your husband's desire. Men don't like to share or to know the wife is turning on another man. Show him you are faithful and he comes first

11. CHECK YOUR EXCUSES
If you keep lying that you are sick, on your periods or tired to avoid your husband, he will soon find out and switch off. Once he switches off, it will be difficult to get his hunger for you back. Don't make excuses. Be honest, be real

12. CHECK YOUR FALSE ACCUSATIONS
Nothing hurts and turns off a man like being faithful yet the wife accuses him of cheating. Stop jumping into conclusions based on your fears and insecurities

13. CHECK IF YOU SOUND LIKE A BROKEN RECORD
If he tries to resolve issues with you but you keep bringing them up, he will be put off. He will see you and think "Here we go again", making him turn the bedroom to nothing more than the place he sleeps but finds no peace. Men make love when there is peace

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️
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this post is superb and very educative, we need it on front page please

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by tanigororo: 7:29am On May 27
Tooh
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by idahme(m): 7:46am On May 27
Double0h7:


That’s your poverty that you’re projecting on to the world 🤭


Sending you back to your father's house means he is projecting poverty? Wonders shall never end. Meaning there is no hope for you in your father's house but you want to hawk kpekus like gala in your husband's house grin

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by louken(m): 8:05am On May 27
There are valid points here

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by KingLennon(m): 8:45am On May 27
Sex works with the mind. A man who is not in his right frame of mind can't do it sad. A woman's behavior can turn you off completely...

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by APOPTOSIS: 9:28am On May 27
Enemyofpeace:
1. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you are or dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you are ever complaining, negative, bitter, cold; he will keep off

2. CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS
Sex starts in the mind. When a man is mentally strained, his penis will struggle to erect. Worry and desire don't mix

3. CHECK YOUR HYGIENE
Your husband might want to do stuff to your body but if you don't keep clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just penetration

4. CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN
A husband who is addicted to porn or masturbation will rarely make sexual advances on you, you will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don't judge him; support him to break the habit

5. CHECK YOUR TONE
The wife's tone can easily turn off a man. A wife's tone can even make a husband keep coming home late, not because he is cheating but because her tone is unwelcoming. Does your husband enjoy your company or do you expect him to love your presence even when you are harsh to him? If he won't enjoy your presence, he won't desire you

6. CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES
Many wives turn down the husband's advances then expect he will easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. Men get tired too. The more you poor cold water on his advances, the more you push him away

7. CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM
If you are ever praising your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favourite celebrity or another woman's husband whilst you belittle him; you will bruise his ego. Men make love with their ego. Bruise his ego and you will discourage his fire for you

8. CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
If you disrespect him or talk down at him in front of others or the children, he will let you be. A man who feels respected and admired gets turned on easily

9. CHECK HIS FINANCIAL ISSUES
Find out if he is going through financial challenges or fears, this hinders a man's libido. Financial comfort leads to more sexual hunger. Show him you understand his effort

10. CHECK IF THERE IS A MAN YOU ARE ENTERTAINING
If you are chatting with or flirting with another man, you will easily kill your husband's desire. Men don't like to share or to know the wife is turning on another man. Show him you are faithful and he comes first

11. CHECK YOUR EXCUSES
If you keep lying that you are sick, on your periods or tired to avoid your husband, he will soon find out and switch off. Once he switches off, it will be difficult to get his hunger for you back. Don't make excuses. Be honest, be real

12. CHECK YOUR FALSE ACCUSATIONS
Nothing hurts and turns off a man like being faithful yet the wife accuses him of cheating. Stop jumping into conclusions based on your fears and insecurities

13. CHECK IF YOU SOUND LIKE A BROKEN RECORD
If he tries to resolve issues with you but you keep bringing them up, he will be put off. He will see you and think "Here we go again", making him turn the bedroom to nothing more than the place he sleeps but finds no peace. Men make love when there is peace

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️
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Concise and Complete.
Nothing was missed!.
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by okoroemeka(m): 11:03am On May 27
Enemyofpeace:
1. CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE
No matter how sexy you are or dress, if you have a bad attitude, your husband will struggle to desire you. If you are ever complaining, negative, bitter, cold; he will keep off

2. CHECK HIS STRESS LEVELS
Sex starts in the mind. When a man is mentally strained, his penis will struggle to erect. Worry and desire don't mix

3. CHECK YOUR HYGIENE
Your husband might want to do stuff to your body but if you don't keep clean or take showers, he might find it difficult to do more than just penetration

4. CHECK HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH PORN
A husband who is addicted to porn or masturbation will rarely make sexual advances on you, you will be in competition with the fantasies in his mind and on his phone, not to mention his hand. If he is addicted, don't judge him; support him to break the habit

5. CHECK YOUR TONE
The wife's tone can easily turn off a man. A wife's tone can even make a husband keep coming home late, not because he is cheating but because her tone is unwelcoming. Does your husband enjoy your company or do you expect him to love your presence even when you are harsh to him? If he won't enjoy your presence, he won't desire you

6. CHECK YOUR PAST RESPONSE TO HIS ADVANCES
Many wives turn down the husband's advances then expect he will easily come back when she eventually wants pleasure. Men get tired too. The more you poor cold water on his advances, the more you push him away

7. CHECK IF YOU PRAISE ANOTHER MAN MORE THAN HIM
If you are ever praising your pastor, ex, father, brother, boss, favourite celebrity or another woman's husband whilst you belittle him; you will bruise his ego. Men make love with their ego. Bruise his ego and you will discourage his fire for you

8. CHECK HOW YOU TREAT HIM IN PUBLIC AND PRIVATE
If you disrespect him or talk down at him in front of others or the children, he will let you be. A man who feels respected and admired gets turned on easily

9. CHECK HIS FINANCIAL ISSUES
Find out if he is going through financial challenges or fears, this hinders a man's libido. Financial comfort leads to more sexual hunger. Show him you understand his effort

10. CHECK IF THERE IS A MAN YOU ARE ENTERTAINING
If you are chatting with or flirting with another man, you will easily kill your husband's desire. Men don't like to share or to know the wife is turning on another man. Show him you are faithful and he comes first

11. CHECK YOUR EXCUSES
If you keep lying that you are sick, on your periods or tired to avoid your husband, he will soon find out and switch off. Once he switches off, it will be difficult to get his hunger for you back. Don't make excuses. Be honest, be real

12. CHECK YOUR FALSE ACCUSATIONS
Nothing hurts and turns off a man like being faithful yet the wife accuses him of cheating. Stop jumping into conclusions based on your fears and insecurities

13. CHECK IF YOU SOUND LIKE A BROKEN RECORD
If he tries to resolve issues with you but you keep bringing them up, he will be put off. He will see you and think "Here we go again", making him turn the bedroom to nothing more than the place he sleeps but finds no peace. Men make love when there is peace

# Remember Love is Natural ❣️
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just leave him alone men are going through a lot in Nigeria these days

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by 1Sharon(f): 12:44pm On May 27
Go to another man, what your husband won't do, another man will.

This is how men ruin their marraiges. When their wives cheat, they'll start shouting about paternity fraud.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex With You by Dlewisi: 5:10pm On May 27
Very valid points raised here.... A wise woman will keep these in mind as a guide.

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