What's your take on this.
A married woman cheating on her husband, collecting money from the man and feeding the family including her husband. Paying bills and taking care of everyone. Since her husband has been jobless for a long time and her salary is not much.

Who is at fault?
What would you do as a husband once you discover?
Women, can you go through all these, knowing that when caught, the man and the society will still condem you?
What's your general take on this?

What is your own take?

- if the wife lies to hubby that she has a cleaning job (for example) while she goes to wh0re herself then thats blasphemy... and wrong on so many levels.
- if the husband and found out his wife is a two bit wh0re, what else can he do but divorce the olosho?
- there is no fault in being jobless and not being able to pay the bills, but there is certainly something really wrong if/when your wife is using her body to get money for these same bills (aka all along you didnt know you were married to an undercover olosho?)
- if the yeye husband knows his wife is wh0ring herself to pay the bills, and accepts it, then why should we care (if "he" doesnt care)? to each their own misery in life...

IMHO if a wife can do that, then that woman would even put the devil to shame.

For collecting money from her adultery lifestyle and use it to feed the man, the man's destiny is gone for good.
She might be the reason why the man is jobless in the first place,because if your wife wants to destroy you it will not cost her much but to collect money from her concubine and cook for the husband.

kelechi50:
For collecting money from her adultery lifestyle and use it to feed the man, the man's destiny is gone for good.
She might be the reason why the man is jobless in the first place,because if your wife wants to destroy you it will not cost her much but to collect money from her concubine and cook for the husband.

Even when the man have no knowledge?

Lazy men indirectly love a cheating wife who is footing all the bills. Shame on a woman who cheat to provide for her man. If you want to cheat, do it for yourself alone

That's still infidelity.. when the man eventually discovers, marriage is over.

flokii:
That's still infidelity.. when the man eventually discovers, marriage is over.

Exactly

This actually happened to a friend and the woman's family are blaming the guy.

Dainy1:
What's your take on this.
A married woman cheating on her husband, collecting money from the man and feeding the family including her husband. Paying bills and taking care of everyone. Since her husband has been jobless for a long time and her salary is not much.

Who is at fault?
What would you do as a husband once you discover?
Women, can you go through all these, knowing that when caught, the man and the society will still condem you?
What's your general take on this?

Since the man is so hopeless and useless that he can't even search for something to do to feed the family and no one is blaming the man

Then I don't have any issues with what the wife does gets money to feed her children

The jobless man knows how the wife has been getting the money to pay the bills, while he remains jobless and has conditioned his mind to be at home with it. If he has no issues with that, why should outsiders rack their brains over it?

kelechi50:
For collecting money from her adultery lifestyle and use it to feed the man, the man's destiny is gone for good.
She might be the reason why the man is jobless in the first place,because if your wife wants to destroy you it will not cost her much but to collect money from her concubine and cook for the husband.

And you don't think, because husband refused to gather his ass and work harder in other to put food on the table for his family that caused it in first place?

I learnt in some culture, this act can negatively affect the husband. How true?

Where I come from, owan,Edo state. It a big abomination and it capable of killing the man if some rituals are not done to appease the gods or the woman does if she doesn't confess

Dainy1:
What's your take on this. A married woman cheating on her husband, collecting money from the man and feeding the family including her husband. Paying bills and taking care of everyone. Since her husband has been jobless for a long time and her salary is not much.
Who is at fault? What would you do as a husband once you discover? Women, can you go through all these, knowing that when caught, the man and the society will still condem you? What's your general take on this?

Marriage no suppose be by force!

What I learnt from this story and the responses that followed is that a partner is free to cheat if his/her other half is jobless and not making financial input in the family.

So, why do jobless women still complain of their cheating husbands, yet society still sympathizes with her?