madridguy:
Mr man go and take 2nd wife. If your wife is a medical practitioner or military personnel, you don't need any soothsayer to tell you before you get another wife.

FreeSpirited:
I have never in my life fancy the idea of woman engaging in sophisticated or demanding job...that expose her to Hot men ordering her around as boss...
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If my wife don pass teacher, trader, fashion designer, or even jobless....she don dey do pass wetin God send am........
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jamesversion:


How come you claim the Military is highly regulated and yet she is likely to cheat in a highly regulated institution. Is that not contradictory?

Wisdomclass1:
I encouraged her to join the army after graduation from the University.

Ever since we got married i have never cheated on my wife, bt we constantly move around a lot due to her transfers. It seems she doesn't like staying in ona place for up to four years. Sometimes we don't see each other up to a month except on video calls and our am the one taking care of our child and taking him to my office.

I have talked to her about it. Let's just settle down in one location first. We have our own house, but i cant remember the last time we went there to stay. It always matter of assignment and transfer.

I trust her, but is it always like this with men that marry military officers ?

How do you cope ?

Yankee101:
Military life is transfer life
Ask her to request a more stable posting due to marriage

Wisdomclass1:
I encouraged her to join the army after graduation from the University.

Ever since we got married i have never cheated on my wife, bt we constantly move around a lot due to her transfers. It seems she doesn't like staying in ona place for up to four years. Sometimes we don't see each other up to a month except on video calls and our am the one taking care of our child and taking him to my office.

I have talked to her about it. Let's just settle down in one location first. We have our own house, but i cant remember the last time we went there to stay. It always matter of assignment and transfer.

I trust her, but is it always like this with men that marry military officers ?

How do you cope ?

Namaster:
Encouraging your wife or GF to join the Military is like serving up your pet dog to a RAVENOUS Lion. Just consider them LOST to you.

The Military, even a shambolic one like the Nigerian Military, is a HIGHLY structured and regulated institution.

Superiors are PLENTIFUL and NEVER to be questioned. Testosterone fly everywhere like knockouts on New Year's Eve.

Your wife is exposed to these ALL the time.

Plus, women CANNOT control themselves around authoritative men. Especially if it's clear that he's above them. The Military is filled with them.

Imagine her being deployed for 3 months where EVERYDAY she's surrounded by a certain commander barking orders at HUNDREDS of men. And they obey him. Then she gets back home to you and you're asking her things like "what should we eat this night?".



Your wife is the wife of an Army man now. Spare yourself the needless heartache, show a little backbone and get a DIVORCE.

Her attraction to you is DEAD!

Every Military person thinks he/she is ABOVE every civilian person. That includes your wife. And women can NEVER be attracted to a man they consider beneath them.

I bet even when she's around, you RARELY get to Bleep her.

sacajawea:
Captain? She had been in the Military for over 13/14 Years?

Khyrvxjzy:


what do you expect when you marry a soldier.
since you are not complaining about men ego as she seams shes the bread winner(no or yes).
use sense follow me

if you cant take it as you missing your wife divorce now....
but you said you trust her, bro if you can do the above i mention, stay with her you are going to enjoy her in the future i know what i am talking about..... i know what i am talking about....
don't mind those people saying divorce, this are people that have never achieve anything in life and learn to advice yourself

ire o

Wisdomclass1:
lol, no... there are ways to do these promotion mata

Wisdomclass1:
bread winner ?
I make more than times 20 of her monthly allowance in a month.

It just the luv i av for her though. We are both trying to build a better career.

After her retirement, i know d benefits will be massive.

Even as she works now, she has placed almost her entire life to seeing our marriage work.

I take care of the baby most times, bt she doesn't hesitate to come home whenever she got time. We have free medical care and subsidized apartment whenever we travel for her posting.

I want her to prosper in her career and I will never allow her to retire early or leave her career because of me.


According to her, sooner we will be getting armed(army) security when we travel inter state.

Also, she is very disciplined to others outside, but submissive to me. Army gals are the best.

I can't go into details on how her position helped many of my friends. Even me especially.

MASTAkiLLAh:
This is the worst place to bring this sort of marital issues to (or any marital issues for that matter) . They'll fill your head with negative thoughts and make you doubt your wife's fidelity and it's mostly the chronic singles who have the worst things to say just so you'll be sad like them.
My brother, your wife is in the military and transfers are a hazard of her profession, you'll just have to bear with her since she seems to be enjoying the job but if you have any doubts then talk to her one on one when next she's around but never bring marital matters to social media because many people in the name of cruise and fun will and have brought down many good relationships/marriages

madridguy:
Mr man go and take 2nd wife. If your wife is a medical practitioner or military personnel, you don't need any soothsayer to tell you before you get another wife.

Namaster:
Encouraging your wife or GF to join the Military is like serving up your pet dog to a RAVENOUS Lion. Just consider them LOST to you.

The Military, even a shambolic one like the Nigerian Military, is a HIGHLY structured and regulated institution.

Superiors are PLENTIFUL and NEVER to be questioned. Testosterone fly everywhere like knockouts on New Year's Eve.

Your wife is exposed to these ALL the time.

Plus, women CANNOT control themselves around authoritative men. Especially if it's clear that he's above them. The Military is filled with them.

Imagine her being deployed for 3 months where EVERYDAY she's surrounded by a certain commander barking orders at HUNDREDS of men. And they obey him. Then she gets back home to you and you're asking her things like "what should we eat this night?".



Your wife is the wife of an Army man now. Spare yourself the needless heartache, show a little backbone and get a DIVORCE.

Her attraction to you is DEAD!

Every Military person thinks he/she is ABOVE every civilian person. That includes your wife. And women can NEVER be attracted to a man they consider beneath them.

I bet even when she's around, you RARELY get to Bleep her.

Wisdomclass1:
I encouraged her to join the army after graduation from the University.

Ever since we got married i have never cheated on my wife, bt we constantly move around a lot due to her transfers. It seems she doesn't like staying in ona place for up to four years. Sometimes we don't see each other up to a month except on video calls and our am the one taking care of our child and taking him to my office.

I have talked to her about it. Let's just settle down in one location first. We have our own house, but i cant remember the last time we went there to stay. It always matter of assignment and transfer.

I trust her, but is it always like this with men that marry military officers ?

How do you cope ?

Zubeezanga:
Even me wey b young senior officer if i won marry i go avoid uniform lol