Guy, I was mad 😡💢

eddynaira125:
Even you get problem, instead of looking for psychologists and legal professionals to handle the issue, u Dey reason walay matter, let me inform you , no be u be first person to enter prison because of pvssy matter, take note

muyico:
visit NOA office

chatinent:


I noticed.

Because if you are not, you would have noticed that the major problem in Nigeria is food not sex.

budaatum:
Whatever anyone says, you, Alphamentips, are a very kind and considerate man, and you are definitely not the pig that many are.

Please bear this in mind when you read the responses you receive here.

mosicola:
Even those that have STDs will blame it on rape. I have never seen a lady that had sex willingly. It is always "I was raped

Sonnobax15:

And you believed her?

Well, nothing concern me...Na who get food dey reason erection matters right now for this country..

Na now I wan take put food for my table tomorrow be my major problem now.....

Alphamentips:
So my babe, 20yr old confined in me that she was raped when she was 18 by her mom's apprentice's husband whom she went to stay with in other to help her baby-sit her kids for a few weeks

How did I find out?

My GF always complains of pain during sex even when adequate lubrication is applied and how sex has always been unenjoyable & painful for her.

And me, I be person wey done date lots of babes right from my UNI school days so Ive experienced such issues especially with girls who have vaginismus.

One of my barnies then in UNI got so tight and rigid anytime sex is being initiated to the extent that penetration was impossible in bed.

It got so bad I had to ask her why she's so tight and impenetrable. That was when she told me to check up on the condition - vaginismus.

She also told me she was raped as a teen.

Fast-forward ⏩ to my days after UNI.... I also met and dated a gorgeous single mom 23y/o babe and sex was hurtful for her.

In fact, you can feel her body and legs literally shaking like she's having a tremor right b4 penetration. I thought it was because its been almost a year she had sex last but then she always complained about pains during sex.

Along the line of our discussion she opened up to me that she was raped too while in school. And since then sex has always been painful for her especially when a rubber is used.

After my encounter with these 2 women who were rape victims it was easy for me to spot the response to trauma in my current GF.

Before she opened up to me, I didn't just ask her if she's been raped b4.. no!

I asked her out of curiosity how her first sexual experience was? She didn't want to continue the discourse but I pushed her on a bit and that was when she spilled the beans 😔

I asked her if she told her Mumsy about it and she replied in negation. She couldn't tell anyone as most rape victims do.

She was in shock I guess.
And she felt no one would believe her as she followed the man to the hotel... You know... That moment when you blame yourself for not seeing the signs of an impeding danger ⚡

She felt her parents won't support her and she was scared the man's marriage would fall apart.

Guy, I was mad 😡💢
I mean, this is a babe I'm planning on seeing her parents if things go well btw us... now I have to deal with the consequences of another man's crime and uncontrolled libido ..

The man is in Lagos. Works in Mandillas and he took advantage of her.

I feel like taking up the case but I'm confused about it. I don't think she has healed 1 bit from the trauma as she shows signs of PTSD during sex.

If na when I still dey street we for waylay the man do am strong thing o... But I have left that lifestyle.

Pls how do we go about this guys?
Like, I feel like she's damaged product and I don't even know if this case will fly if we report it 2 years after it happened?

Advice needed pls 🙏

Alphamentips:
So my babe, 20yr old confined in me that she was raped when she was 18 by her mom's apprentice's husband whom she went to stay with in other to help her baby-sit her kids for a few weeks

How did I find out?

My GF always complains of pain during sex even when adequate lubrication is applied and how sex has always been unenjoyable & painful for her.

And me, I be person wey done date lots of babes right from my UNI school days so Ive experienced such issues especially with girls who have vaginismus.

One of my barnies then in UNI got so tight and rigid anytime sex is being initiated to the extent that penetration was impossible in bed.

It got so bad I had to ask her why she's so tight and impenetrable. That was when she told me to check up on the condition - vaginismus.

She also told me she was raped as a teen.

Fast-forward ⏩ to my days after UNI.... I also met and dated a gorgeous single mom 23y/o babe and sex was hurtful for her.

In fact, you can feel her body and legs literally shaking like she's having a tremor right b4 penetration. I thought it was because its been almost a year she had sex last but then she always complained about pains during sex.

Along the line of our discussion she opened up to me that she was raped too while in school. And since then sex has always been painful for her especially when a rubber is used.

After my encounter with these 2 women who were rape victims it was easy for me to spot the response to trauma in my current GF.

Before she opened up to me, I didn't just ask her if she's been raped b4.. no!

I asked her out of curiosity how her first sexual experience was? She didn't want to continue the discourse but I pushed her on a bit and that was when she spilled the beans 😔

I asked her if she told her Mumsy about it and she replied in negation. She couldn't tell anyone as most rape victims do.

She was in shock I guess.
And she felt no one would believe her as she followed the man to the hotel... You know... That moment when you blame yourself for not seeing the signs of an impeding danger ⚡

She felt her parents won't support her and she was scared the man's marriage would fall apart.

Guy, I was mad 😡💢
I mean, this is a babe I'm planning on seeing her parents if things go well btw us... now I have to deal with the consequences of another man's crime and uncontrolled libido ..

The man is in Lagos. Works in Mandillas and he took advantage of her.

I feel like taking up the case but I'm confused about it. I don't think she has healed 1 bit from the trauma as she shows signs of PTSD during sex.

If na when I still dey street we for waylay the man do am strong thing o... But I have left that lifestyle.

Pls how do we go about this guys?
Like, I feel like she's damaged product and I don't even know if this case will fly if we report it 2 years after it happened?

Advice needed pls 🙏

Alphamentips:
So my babe, 20yr old confined in me that she was raped when she was 18 by her mom's apprentice's husband whom she went to stay with in other to help her baby-sit her kids for a few weeks

How did I find out?

My GF always complains of pain during sex even when adequate lubrication is applied and how sex has always been unenjoyable & painful for her.

And me, I be person wey done date lots of babes right from my UNI school days so Ive experienced such issues especially with girls who have vaginismus.

One of my barnies then in UNI got so tight and rigid anytime sex is being initiated to the extent that penetration was impossible in bed.

It got so bad I had to ask her why she's so tight and impenetrable. That was when she told me to check up on the condition - vaginismus.

She also told me she was raped as a teen.

Fast-forward ⏩ to my days after UNI.... I also met and dated a gorgeous single mom 23y/o babe and sex was hurtful for her.

In fact, you can feel her body and legs literally shaking like she's having a tremor right b4 penetration. I thought it was because its been almost a year she had sex last but then she always complained about pains during sex.

Along the line of our discussion she opened up to me that she was raped too while in school. And since then sex has always been painful for her especially when a rubber is used.

After my encounter with these 2 women who were rape victims it was easy for me to spot the response to trauma in my current GF.

Before she opened up to me, I didn't just ask her if she's been raped b4.. no!

I asked her out of curiosity how her first sexual experience was? She didn't want to continue the discourse but I pushed her on a bit and that was when she spilled the beans 😔

I asked her if she told her Mumsy about it and she replied in negation. She couldn't tell anyone as most rape victims do.

She was in shock I guess.
And she felt no one would believe her as she followed the man to the hotel... You know... That moment when you blame yourself for not seeing the signs of an impeding danger ⚡

She felt her parents won't support her and she was scared the man's marriage would fall apart.

Guy, I was mad 😡💢
I mean, this is a babe I'm planning on seeing her parents if things go well btw us... now I have to deal with the consequences of another man's crime and uncontrolled libido ..

The man is in Lagos. Works in Mandillas and he took advantage of her.

I feel like taking up the case but I'm confused about it. I don't think she has healed 1 bit from the trauma as she shows signs of PTSD during sex.

If na when I still dey street we for waylay the man do am strong thing o... But I have left that lifestyle.

Pls how do we go about this guys?
Like, I feel like she's damaged product and I don't even know if this case will fly if we report it 2 years after it happened?

Advice needed pls 🙏

MrCork:



Ol..so u found out she was rape bucuzz her puccci was tight...corrrrrect??
Ok bro..best thing to do: if u take action, he will deny it & try to calm she sleeps around so..u can either take him out quietly or let it go. Empower the babe & re-assure her & it will make her better. However, u must make sure for the time been, u are gentle wit her puccccci. It needs care & atention now!!!!((((THANK ME LATER)))))

Alphamentips:


On the contrary, I didn't find out because she's tight. It opens up properly and we take time to make sure she accommodates me well b4 thrusting gently. If you took time to read with comprehension you would not have missed out on the part where I mentioned her response during coitus.... Which is something I've noticed earlier with my former GFs.

I guess you're trying to be funny or something but it comes across as being insensitive and not having the emotional intelligence to tell when to make a joke especially in cases like this.

I would appreciate it if you didn't contribute to the thread as your contribution is covered in mockery which you may presume to be sarcastic

emekalovepets:
I used to have a fwb who I didn't know had a fiance until more than a year after we started having sex

She told her guy same story as yours and they were doing no sex till marriage. They will be doing prayer meeting and all. Yet, she was still coming to me for sex.

She's telling you all these feel-good lies to massage your ego. Religious sisters don't like sharing their true sexual history, but as an OG, we know as e dey go.

MrCork:


Brother i am sensitive when it comes to

Tozocalamity:
Dat man no try at all. Anyway . U can take her to see a therapist for counseling so that her healing can begin

Alphamentips:


Did you fall on your head as a baby? or is comprehension a problem for you

mosicola:
Even those that have STDs will blame it on rape. I have never seen a lady that had sex willingly. It is always "I was raped

emekalovepets:
I used to have a fwb who I didn't know had a fiance until more than a year after we started having sex

She told her guy same story as yours and they were doing no sex till marriage. They will be doing prayer meeting and all. Yet, she was still coming to me for sex.

She's telling you all these feel-good lies to massage your ego. Religious sisters don't like sharing their true sexual history, but as an OG, we know as e dey go.

Alphamentips:


Thanks a lot for the warm words. I don't get bothered about comments from anonymous users here.

I'm kinda concerned this issue may lead to her sex starving me if we ever get into this long term.

It feels like I'll be ignoring a vital part of our relationship if I downplay this issue and go into this cos I love sex a lot... ngl

Zonefree:
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So, she followed a married man to the hotel? What was she expecting? Evangelism?