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My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223: 10:59pm On Jun 12 |
Hi everyone.I am livinf with Igbo.man whom I have 2 kids with.We live abroad.He has work me not coz noone to take care of our kids.He is extremely agresive.Only pays the bils and food for us and the rest money al goes to his siblings and mother in Nigeria.I feel so helples.He is so commanding stingy wicked to me.He most times treat me as slave in house |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by forever1225: 11:07pm On Jun 12 |
Balkony11223:what do you want? 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by longetivity(m): 11:20pm On Jun 12 |
I thought women get power over there, abi u dey lie
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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223: 11:33pm On Jun 12 |
longetivity:i wish i lye but i dont |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Sonnobax15(m): 11:35pm On Jun 12 |
![]() Any word wey come out of banny mouth,I dey first of all add small salt to am just to taste am whether e get small truth for inside or na pure lies ![]() 5 Likes
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Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by longetivity(m): 11:35pm On Jun 12 |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by PerfectStranger(m): 12:13am On Jun 13 |
longetivity:Her lies isn't actually a lie. She's a truthful liar ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Franklyspeakin: 12:38am On Jun 13 |
it's obvious you are not even educated. go and get a job and start fending for yourself. seems you can't even look after yourself hence your inability to leave him |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 12:46am On Jun 13 |
Franklyspeakin:And what will happen when she leaves him?? She will be a single mother. A single mother with two children. You have a topic on this PDF. No one wants single mothers and divorced women for a serious relationship or marriage. Occasional casual sex is all they can get. And you advise her that? |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 12:50am On Jun 13 |
Balkony11223:What do you mean he treats you like a slave in the house? In what situations does he become aggressive? You wrote it yourself. He works. He pays the bills for his family, you and the children. He pays for food. I guess he also pays for clothes and shoes. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Franklyspeakin: 1:04am On Jun 13 |
is it better he kills her. beatings never end well. it's a slippery slope. her priority at this stage is her kids. it's already a toxic home. Men stop beating your wives. if you are tired divorce. go to prisons and see people languishing there because she died during or after the beating. separate and live in peace. and if your a wife beater, STOP!!!!! it is better to be alive and be worried of finding another man. Than to be dead and your kids are helpless or being molested as your hubby is in jail. stop acting. goran3310: 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Hollybratt(m): 7:06am On Jun 13 |
Wife beaters association of Nigeria you no go rest |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223: 9:49am On Jun 13 |
goran3310:no he doesnt pay clothes and shoes.My family does that |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 11:07am On Jun 13 |
Balkony11223:What!!?! Is he normal? Write in which situations he becomes aggressive? How does that happen? Do you object to him first and then he reacts aggressively? Does he drink? What it is? |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 11:10am On Jun 13 |
Franklyspeakin:The easiest way is to get a divorce and ruin your life and the lives of your children. Take it easy. Let's see first if the situation can be improved. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223: 11:18am On Jun 13 |
goran3310:he smokes...I dont do nothung wrong to him before he becomes agresive.He doesnt pay no clothes for my kids and shoes and he is reciving money for them from government.I think he doesnt like me and kids.The only family he cares is the one in Nigeria and i am so tired of him.I am tired of being abused beaten and not giving notjing |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Hollybratt(m): 11:22am On Jun 13 |
Balkony11223:My advice for you is to report to his family, tell them your plan, if you are ready for divorce let them know. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by stunnert(m): 11:23am On Jun 13 |
You're a foool for having more than one child for a man who hasn't married you. What if he decides to break off the unhealthy relationship you took have going on . What happens to you then ? After two flat tires |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223: 11:33am On Jun 13 |
stunnert:wel then at least i wil have my peace and i wil see how to take m y life back.Staying with him doesnt benefit me or my kids at all.Kids are not good to be staying in abusive envjroment and where they are not provided with basic needs |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Balkony11223: 11:34am On Jun 13 |
Hollybratt:if i report to them maybe they wil even be happy coz then they wil be sending them even more money |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 11:51am On Jun 13 |
Balkony11223:Well, what does he say when he is aggressive?? Why is he aggressive? |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 12:06pm On Jun 13 |
stunnert:Cohabitation and marriage have the same value in court. |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 12:09pm On Jun 13 |
Balkony11223:So you never talked to him about that problem? Have you ever had a calm and rational conversation with your husband about problems in your relationship? |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Autobot05: 12:11pm On Jun 13 |
Balkony11223: lol |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Franklyspeakin: 2:14pm On Jun 13 |
I have a family friend who died in the name of lets make it work. the family was too distraught. and decided to drop the case against the silly man so he can be out hustling to fend for his family. he has 3 kids. the kids don't even like their dad. na we dey try calm them down. it can be a very messy situation. goran3310: |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by goran3310(m): 2:30pm On Jun 13 |
Franklyspeakin: ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Doesnt Provide For Our Kids And He Beat Me by Teeyoo(m): 7:21pm On Jun 16 |
Balkony11223: Let me tell you the simple truth. If he's the only one there, it would have been better. He's the only one working and the bills are much. His take home may not be much and after deducting the deductibles, the remaining won't be much for him to manage for the rest of the month, hence, he will act nasty |
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