Nsiehi:


He walked away from the 'bad woman', why did he abandon his own child? Was his child bad as well?

Fearurcreeator:

Small pikin ...

Emeskhalifa:
Eyyaaa he believed the side of the story his mom told him

Women are so manipulative

shortgun:

A manipulative woman will use a man's child to blackmail him.
A wise man will know this and avoid the snare to save his soul

Gerrard59:


While I do agree with some aspects of your post, I am curious, in a nutshell, sir, what is the benefit of marriage to men in today's world?

I ask because the bulk of the finances to maintain a family for a pretty long time is dependent on then. So, what is that "catch" to be a married man? Like, if I start a business, I aim to make money in the long run while providing value to customers. What is that "profit" of marriage to a man?

shortgun:
A very foolish boy who's clearly exhibiting traits of foolishness and disrespect that comes with being raised by a single mother.
By the time he gets to the age of his father he will understand that men don't walk away from good women.

Fearurcreeator:

I tell you ... Him eye go clear later, the mumu never mature

Thundafireseun:
Trust me , the only reason why this fooooooolish boy walked away from his dad is because the father came back empty handed….

Money is ticker than Blood

Emeskhalifa:


When he becomes of age, he will understand

shortgun:
A very foolish boy who's clearly exhibiting traits of foolishness and disrespect that comes with being raised by a single mother.
By the time he gets to the age of his father he will understand that men don't walk away from good women.

Localgrandpa:


I'm not arguing. I'm just saying from my own perspective. I be pikin no mean say I no go get my own opinion.

shortgun:

A manipulative woman will use a man's child to blackmail him.
A wise man will know this and avoid the snare to save his soul

shortgun:
A very foolish boy who's clearly exhibiting traits of foolishness and disrespect that comes with being raised by a single mother.
By the time he gets to the age of his father he will understand that men don't walk away from good women.

Fearurcreeator:

Men go dey live with I be man ... Woman go dey torture am with bad bad words ... Till he dies ... The woman go come dey cry like she no dey do am anything...

Localgrandpa:


I don't think there is an excuse for being a deadbeat father. Thats my opinion though

cococandy:
Did the kid torture him with bad words too?

AreaFada2:

My brother, marriage is actually supposed to be a wonderful thing. It is the oldest institution still in existence.

Hakimi has shown how to hide your money from gold diggers.

The Chinese will one day create a machine to carry a baby for 9 months.

Everything will soon fall in place and water will find its level.

Men just have to weigh things carefully. Expect nothing and expect anything. Do paternity on all kids.

shortgun:
A very foolish boy who's clearly exhibiting traits of foolishness and disrespect that comes with being raised by a single mother.
By the time he gets to the age of his father he will understand that men don't walk away from good women.

donbenie:
Being near the child involves interaction with the toxicity that's the woman,many men will walk away..
The child is collateral damage and the man should have stayed gone..

Gistmedia10:
A Nigerian man's attempt to reconnect with his family after years of abandonment was met with a fierce rebuke from his son, who was just 2 years old when he left.

In a viral video, the son can be heard shouting "Abeg get out! Get out!!" as he and his mother walk away from the estranged father, who was seen laughing off the rejection.




Was the boy justified in rejecting his father after being abandoned for so long?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0jlL071A_A

Gistmedia10:
A Nigerian man's attempt to reconnect with his family after years of abandonment was met with a fierce rebuke from his son, who was just 2 years old when he left.

In a viral video, the son can be heard shouting "Abeg get out! Get out!!" as he and his mother walk away from the estranged father, who was seen laughing off the rejection.

The thing is if the man happens to he a wealthy man, am very sure it is same boy that would look for every means to connect to him without minding what transpired in the past. The cultural assimilating is even a no no for me. I boy who could disrespect his father like that is a no no.



Was the boy justified in rejecting his father after being abandoned for so long?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0jlL071A_A

cococandy:


Yes many men would rather walk away from their kids because they can’t get along with the women and they’re okay sacrificing their children as collateral damage. Now they’re wondering why the kids hate them.

Many women don’t mind enduring the toxicity that the men are, as long as it means they can be around to care for the small helpless children and that’s the difference. The women can sacrifice comfort to be there for the kids but the men can’t.

The kids know it too. That’s why they hate y’all (generalization obviously). The funny thing is the mom and dad don’t have to be in a relationship to care for the kids. They can arrange custody and provision for their kids while trying as much as possible to stay out of each other’s way. Most of you need the maturity to get to that mental level.

donbenie:
Twist it how you like..
Women are the primary care givers when it comes to underage children..
Whether or not she's with the man, she's the one with access to the child..
So, you claim is ab initio on a faulty premise.
Placing all kinds of hoops and pitfalls on the man's ability to access the children ,is a woman's weapon of choice..
A man can only take so much bull,shit ,before he realises that nothing is worth his mental health..

cococandy:

Sounds like a bunch of silly excuses.
Masking irresponsibility as protecting mental health

Then If you wanna go, stay gone.

Jeon:
Good one child, good one. U just show up when food don reach to harvest. Imagine how he felt all those years just because of one fool that doesn't know his role.

Well, hope he will not embark on the same path as his dad.

Localgrandpa:


From a good mother.! What about the child? Even if doesn't want to have anything to do with the woman. What about the child?

shortgun:
A very foolish boy who's clearly exhibiting traits of foolishness and disrespect that comes with being raised by a single mother.
By the time he gets to the age of his father he will understand that men don't walk away from good women.

Localgrandpa:


From a good mother.! What about the child? Even if doesn't want to have anything to do with the woman. What about the child?