Urhobo elders in the house I need your advice. Right from when I was little I have always been told by my mum how her dowry has not been paid because her mother in law was against her marriage to my dad so they got married at the registry . I want to know if there will be any implications if my dad receives my dowry, seeing the Urhobo has so many cultural taboos my dad has no knowledge of them has all is extended family lives in the uk and himself was born there .

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