Like I said in my previous posts on how to detect an abusive relationship, that it is important you run for your life if you ever notice any of those traits if you cannot curb it.

You shouldn't think about marriage if you have continuously been abused in your relationship as the result will be unbearable.

Here are some effect of overlooking abuse in your relationship;

1. You stop believing in yourself:

One thing I love to tell people no matter the gender is to be independent in all ramifications of relationship.

This is because no one knows tomorrow, if in case you have relied solely on the ability of your partner to solve all issues how will you cope when that partner is far away or no more?

You have to be able to solve problems on your own and live life till you are certain that you are with the right partner.

When you are in a mentally abusive relationship, you will not even believe your own ability as you are being compelled to do things indirectly as you feel going against your partner can cause battle you cannot win. Hence you allow them rule over your sense of reasoning.

2. You lose your dignity

You lose your self worth when you allow yourself to be abused.

The truth is that abuse in a relationship, no matter how tiny it is, it will definitely reflect in your actions and relationship with others as you have stereotyped yourself in a particular way, and that is how you will unknowingly make people also see you.

Your dignity is as important as your life, if you cannot allow anyone to take your life I guess your dignity needs more of that protection too.

3. You lose your senses:

This is common when we talk of emotional abuse. You begin to grow several unclear thoughts on issues, in fact, to call your partner for guidance becomes more catastrophic because most times, they do the thinking for you as you have delegated that aspect of your life to them and an abuser will always make you feel less of yourself.

4. You lose your life:

Either emotional, mental or physical abuse, any abuse whatsoever can cause you your life.

You noticed someone in your relationship is raising hands against you with intention to cause you harm and you still insist love will change him/her, see, when the battery starts only you will bear the brunt when he/she cannot control it any longer.

If your life is not important to you why not help your parents, siblings, friends who cherish you to keep it.

The least that will happen to anyone that kills you is to be killed, but the fact remains that you are gone for life.

Prevention is better than cure.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/08/5-vital-reasons-why-you-must-reject.html