Alright. So this married man has been disturbing her to get down with him. The thing is, she doesn't know how to tell the man no or how to discourage him. She doesn't know how to turn him down in order not to come off as rude, and also because of the money the man gives her.

Please, how best do you think she can do this. As a lady, how do you put off a married man who wants to get down with you, without sounding rude? And also without affecting the friendship you have with such person. She said she wants to do it in such a way that the man will not be offended. And also she doesn't want the issue to affect his financial gestures towards her.

Your opinions will be appreciated.

Thanks.

You are here claiming that she does not want to be rude. But if a young guy whose appearance does not appeal to her repeatedly asks her out like this married man does, she will limitlessly be rude towards him.

You are here claiming that she does not know how to turn him down. Who thought her how she turned other men down? Or has she never turned any man down?

Based on the part I bolded in your post, your caption should be, "She wants to eat her cake and have it but does not know how to go about it ".

She is a definition of gold digger. She likes spending his money but does not want to sleep with him. Only a silly lady does that. It would have been a different case if she does not know the reason behind his financial gesture towards her. If he had not made his intention known, she can assume that he is just being nice. In this case, he has, according to you, repeatedly made his intention known to her but she consciously chooses to live in denial.

A straightforward lady will reject gifts from a man who has indicated sexual interest in her if she does not want a sexual relationship with him. Any lady who continues to be interested in a man's money while rejecting his romance proposal is a two-edged sword 🗡️.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Alright. So this married man has been disturbing her to get down with him. The thing is, she doesn't know how to tell the man no or how to discourage him. She doesn't know how to turn him down in order not to come off as rude, and also because of the money the man gives her.

Please, how best do you think she can do this. As a lady, how do you put off a married man who wants to get down with you, without sounding rude? And also without affecting the friendship you have with such person. She said she wants to do it in such a way that the man will not be offended. And also she doesn't want the issue to affect his financial gestures towards her.

Your opinions will be appreciated.

Thanks.

In my place they say you don't smell the food you are not pleased to eat. Just tell him you are not interested and not ready for any relationship with a married person.
If you don't mind being the second wife or third, you can be tolerating him.


If you allow him to be seeing you, you will eventually fall for him.

It is impossible. There is no way to turn him down and not offend him while still collecting his money.
It is simply not possible

She doesn't want to get intimate with the man but can't dissociate from his money

Madam nah one you go choose

There are more useless girls in Nigeria than the whole population of Ghana and South Africa joined together.