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Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by WeirdAlien: 7:09pm On Jun 28
Nonsense
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by bdon12: 8:11pm On Jun 28
Iamblessed85:
If i hear that phrase “secure the children’s future” one more time, i may throw up. I will number my points as i donot have the patience to arrange my paragraphs sequentially.

1. This only becomes a thing when the wife is less successful and have chances of becoming the breadwinner abroad e.g doctors and nurses. The husbands sheepishly throws it all away to start from scratch. I have never seen a wife resign from a blue collar job to become a carton picker abroad. What is wrong with men? God forbid

2. There’s no evidence that kids born abroad are more successful.

3. A public university in Nigeria is better than an unknown university abroad. Afterall, it’s our own educational system that empowered the parents to be able to consider japa and land jobs abroad.

4. Kids born abroad are less likely to attend ivy league schools due to the cost. The high paying jobs would be taken by alumnis of ivy league schools and smart immigrants before abroad born kids that attended average unis.

5. The level of civilization abroad would become the baseline for the kids and they would take it for granted. Imagine if Shakespear were to somehow appear in this century. He would marvel at what the world has become. Here we are, we don’t even acknowledge some of the mind blowing inventions we have currently because it’s our baseline. It would be same for kids born abroad.


6. No evidence exists that you can’t get a high flyer job as a Nigerian schooled. For example, an ex PwC in Nigeria can also get a PwC or big 4 job abroad. I know someone who just got a job with Mckinsey in canada and he spend all his years schooling in Nigeria.


7. A dull kid in Nigeria would also be dull abroad. A kid with grace in Nigeria would also operate with same level of grace abroad

8. Japa to secure the future of the kids would place an unfair burden on the children in future. You would definitely hear some parents saying “ After all I sacrificed to bring you here” They will resent you for it and probably distance themselves from you.

9. If you are successfull, there’s high likelihood for your children to be regardless of their location. Afterall, they carry what you carry except you dilute their genes by choosing the wrong woman

10. 65% or more probability that your kids will undergoe a sex change or be initiated into homosexuality at school. Remember, it is legal for them to do this without your consent and you can get imprisoned if you try to interfere. The society will hail them as “brave”
U are really not well travelled n exposed.There is a reason d strong n rich send their families abroad.I hav travelled to over 15 countries n naija passport is a problem n very restrictive.i hav suffered frm having a nigeria passport only.u can hav d whole money in d world bt ur life can end in a second as a result of d dangerous environment we live.Also,are u aware that government abroad provide student loan to everyone....meaning ur kids hav a government to watch over dem wen u are not alive.dont be naive...japa is worth it

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Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by Mcslize: 11:12pm On Jun 28
The post looks like what is posted by a 20 years old adolescent.

Iambkesswd85
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by onumadu: 3:19am On Jun 29
The quality of school teachers, and the quality of food at school -IN PUBLIC SCHOOLS- are enough to make the difference in a child's mental development.
I would never forget the experiences I've had talking with my kids' PRIMARY SCHOOL teachers during school conferences (when parent sit down to discuss a child's academic progress with the teacher).
As a well educated man, I discuss IN DETAIL every aspect of my kids' academic development, and the teachers -ALL OF THEM - always competently provide all the information I needed.
I get the impression that these primary school teachers hold AT LEAST bachelors degrees.
One of them even has a masters degree!
I always look forward to those conferences.
Can you say same about Nigerian primary school teachers?
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by Iamblessed85: 3:53am On Jun 29
onumadu:
The quality of school teachers, and the quality of food at school -IN PUBLIC SCHOOLS- are enough to make the difference in a child's mental development.
I would never forget the experiences I've had talking with my kids' PRIMARY SCHOOL teachers during school conferences (when parent sit down to discuss a child's academic progress with the teacher).
As a well educated man, I discuss IN DETAIL every aspect of my kids' academic development, and the teachers -ALL OF THEM - always competently provide all the information I needed.
I get the impression that these primary school teachers hold AT LEAST bachelors degrees.
One of them even has a masters degree!
I always look forward to those conferences.
Can you say same about Nigerian primary school teachers?

And where did you get your education from?
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by onumadu: 2:20pm On Jun 29
Iamblessed85:


And where did you get your education from?

I got my first degree in Nigeria of course, but got my subsequent higher degrees abroad, and the experiences are simply incomparable!
Same course, TOTALLY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES.
In fact, I only became (or started to consider myself) an INTELLECT after studying abroad.
Most Nigerian university trained persons lack basic analytical reasoning, and that is why "educated" Nigerians lead us backwards, year after year.
You see the evidence even here in nairaland whereby only very few Nigerians here are able to question information and leave dogma behind to get to possible truths.
Our education system needs serious overhauling.
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by Ekaka14: 6:38pm On Jun 29
All these long grammar simply because you don't understand that to secure their children's future simply means to GIVE THEM BROADER OPTIONS IN LIFE abi?
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by Mcslize: 6:52pm On Jun 29
Kobicove:
That phrase "I'm relocating abroad so I can secure the future of my children" is just an excuse people use to justify the voluntary downgrade of their social status when they move abroad undecided

Kobicove is on the beat. Which brand of weed are you smoking bro? I want to recommend it for someone.
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by Aremu01(m): 6:17pm On Jul 25
Iamblessed85:
If i hear that phrase “secure the children’s future” one more time, i may throw up. I will number my points as i donot have the patience to arrange my paragraphs sequentially.

1. This only becomes a thing when the wife is less successful and have chances of becoming the breadwinner abroad e.g doctors and nurses. The husbands sheepishly throws it all away to start from scratch. I have never seen a wife resign from a blue collar job to become a carton picker abroad. What is wrong with men? God forbid

2. There’s no evidence that kids born abroad are more successful.

3. A public university in Nigeria is better than an unknown university abroad. Afterall, it’s our own educational system that empowered the parents to be able to consider japa and land jobs abroad.

4. Kids born abroad are less likely to attend ivy league schools due to the cost. The high paying jobs would be taken by alumnis of ivy league schools and smart immigrants before abroad born kids that attended average unis.

5. The level of civilization abroad would become the baseline for the kids and they would take it for granted. Imagine if Shakespear were to somehow appear in this century. He would marvel at what the world has become. Here we are, we don’t even acknowledge some of the mind blowing inventions we have currently because it’s our baseline. It would be same for kids born abroad.


6. No evidence exists that you can’t get a high flyer job as a Nigerian schooled. For example, an ex PwC in Nigeria can also get a PwC or big 4 job abroad. I know someone who just got a job with Mckinsey in canada and he spend all his years schooling in Nigeria.


7. A dull kid in Nigeria would also be dull abroad. A kid with grace in Nigeria would also operate with same level of grace abroad

8. Japa to secure the future of the kids would place an unfair burden on the children in future. You would definitely hear some parents saying “ After all I sacrificed to bring you here” They will resent you for it and probably distance themselves from you.

9. If you are successfull, there’s high likelihood for your children to be regardless of their location. Afterall, they carry what you carry except you dilute their genes by choosing the wrong woman

10. 65% or more probability that your kids will undergoe a sex change or be initiated into homosexuality at school. Remember, it is legal for them to do this without your consent and you can get imprisoned if you try to interfere. The society will hail them as “brave”

Op
Just say you don't have money to Japan
So you wrote thinking epistle to discourage others
Re: Reasons Why “japa To Secure The Kids Future” Is Senseless. by blackboy(m): 5:44am On Aug 17
Not senseless but the truth is nobody knows tomorrow. Don't do what will curse your generation. A cursed person can have money, juju, even Japa and the curse will catch him or her. Know God. Give your life to Jesus

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