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Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by RealityKings: 10:46pm On Jun 29
RealityKings:
This could have been cause by not eating well enough. Eat Eba and other egusi
Then after eating, go and look for more women to be with. What you are feeling is because youve not had enough sex
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Feldie: 10:47pm On Jun 29
Do you smoke Marijuana? If yes throw it away. Marijuana has a way of making you uncontrollably emotional
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Oche211(m): 11:01pm On Jun 29
Forget everything you have written there, your ex was cheating on you. She just needed something to trigger a break up.

You messed up by going to beg her and doing all that. But it's fine, seems this is your first major heartbreak.

Follow these steps
1. Block her on all platforms, delete her photos and chats. Make conscious efforts to erase all her memories. Block her now. Facebook, WhatsApp, telegram, normal calls, just block her.

2. Don't enter into any relationship for now.

3. Work on yourself. From tomorrow, go and scout out a gym around your area, pay their subscription form and start right away. Exercise very well, build your body.

4. Eat healthy. Forget about her

5. Channel your energy to your work or hustle. Double your hustle, make money legitimately. You need to make money and gym your topmost priority.

6. If you are in a church, join a work force and be dedicated. Look for an NGO and serve as a volunteer. Channel your energy into something positive.

Do this for the remaining 6 months faithfully. Let's compare the result on December 31st, 2024.

Note: your ex may come back in the near future, make sure you don't take her back. She's lost to you for ever.

When you are ready, a new relationship will come. Your circles will Automatically change, you will meet cleaner, better babes to choose from.

Keep hustling and grinding

Peace.

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Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by efighter: 11:11pm On Jun 29
Ogun go soon kee the OP
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by jeromestarks: 11:57pm On Jun 29
ExDepressed:

I'm so hurt and feel like I lost a part of me. Kindly note I am a very comfortable guy and I owe a lot before you say I am jobless and not busy

I was going to marry this girl this year because we already dated for 4 years and looking at it now I wasted 4 years of my life.
You're mentally jobless. And there is no single sense in your head.

You dated her for four years but she moved on in two weeks and you think she hasn't been cheating on you? If she was supposed to spend that two weeks in hospital not under another man's peniis.
You think she met the pastor two weeks after she left you? NO! They have been fvcking and smiling while she was with you. Her mind was never with you but she stayed with you for four years because you're the only foolish man who is stupid enough to think she's loyal. If you marry that girl, you will train that pastor's children thinking they're yours.

At 33, you don't have sense. Oyinosh.
Why are you so stup.id?
Better accept the truth that you dodged a bullet and thank God for removing her from your life. Olori buruku.



Finally, don't struggle to keep who God has removed from your life.

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Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by jeromestarks: 12:12am On Jun 30
Oche211:
Forget everything you have written there, your ex was cheating on you. She just needed something to trigger a break up.

You messed up by going to beg her and doing all that. But it's fine, seems this is your first major heartbreak.

Follow these steps
1. Block her on all platforms, delete her photos and chats. Make conscious efforts to erase all her memories. Block her now. Facebook, WhatsApp, telegram, normal calls, just block her.

2. Don't enter into any relationship for now.

3. Work on yourself. From tomorrow, go and scout out a gym around your area, pay their subscription form and start right away. Exercise very well, build your body.

4. Eat healthy. Forget about her

5. Channel your energy to your work or hustle. Double your hustle, make money legitimately. You need to make money and gym your topmost priority.

6. If you are in a church, join a work force and be dedicated. Look for an NGO and serve as a volunteer. Channel your energy into something positive.

Do this for the remaining 6 months faithfully. Let's compare the result on December 31st, 2024.

Note: your ex may come back in the near future, make sure you don't take her back. She's lost to you for ever.

When you are ready, a new relationship will come. Your circles will Automatically change, you will meet cleaner, better babes to choose from.

Keep hustling and grinding

Peace.
He would be living in denial if he followed your advice.
You're a terrible advicer.
The best way to get rid of heart break is ACCEPTANCE.
He should accept what has happened and move on. Accept that she is gone. Accept that she never loved him (she moved on in Just two weeks - too bad).
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by iLoveYouToo(m): 4:07am On Jun 30
jeromestarks:

He would be living in denial if he followed your advice.
You're a terrible advicer.
The best way to get rid of heart break is ACCEPTANCE.
He should accept what has happened and move on. Accept that she is gone. Accept that she never loved him (she moved on in Just two weeks - too bad).

The advice given suggests acceptance and improvement - physical, mental and financial.

That’s the best advice.

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Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by willyo(m): 4:58am On Jun 30
ExDepressed:
I need genuine help. I don't know if I am under a spell.

Sincerely, I can help you. But not 100% certain
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Mrexcell(m): 5:35am On Jun 30
ExDepressed:

She still picks my calls to listen to all mu rubbish and insult me more. The worst part is I don't seem to get enough of the insults and call it a day for good. Despite knowing for real she has a new guy who also looks very realistic especially as he is a pastor.



You are just emotionally tied to her both spiritually and sexually u need to set urself free before it's too late some guys in same situation as u have gone to the extreme to hurt themselves and those around them.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Mrexcell(m): 5:43am On Jun 30
Unklekelvin:
Bro I can tell you for free that if that girl comes back to you, she won't be same girl you know before. You will be taken for granted, you will be under her control, you will get tired of her, you will act gentleman in the day and cry at night, she will boss you around and you will always be afraid to talk to her as a man when she goes wrong. Leave her alone, leave her alone, leave that girl alone. If she is yours she will definitely come back to you. If you continue begging her and she decides to come back just know that you have made the biggest mistake because the girl coming back won't be the same girl you know before. If she's to come back let her come back at her own decision. Delete her no if you don't have it off heart, avoid staying alone. Just do what makes you happy apart from being with girls. WAKE UP BRO.. YOU ARE THE MAN.. YOU GOT THIS.. ITS YOUR WORLD THAT YOU'D STOOP THAT LOW TO BEG A CERTAIN GIRL TO BE WITH YOU. WILL MY ANCESTORS BE PROUD OF SUCH A MAN.



The guy is probably suffering from very low self exteem many guys in his situation won't even bother about that his ex anymore they will just move on with their lives as if nothing happened and easily get a new girl who they can always mode to their taste.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by ExDepressed: 6:11am On Jun 30
willyo:


Sincerely, I can help you. But not 100% certain
Tell me please
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Jflex07(m): 6:50am On Jun 30
Such an idiot of a guy. Disgusting.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by galantjoe(m): 7:10am On Jun 30
You re a miserable simp. Is she your gods or without her you won't exist?

Nobody is irreplaceable or indispensable
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by ExDepressed: 7:51am On Jun 30
Talkisneeded:
You are not simp my bro,it's the power of sharing everything together for four years...
You don't expect everything to die and go away in six month, all the memories you took years to built..
You are Just being human and people react to breakup differently.. You'll wake up one day and realize she doesn't really matter that much again...
Chin up my bro, time heals everything...

I sell herbs
Thanks bro and I wish you more sales.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Tjra: 8:01am On Jun 30
galantjoe:
You re a miserable simp. Is she your gods or without her you won't exist?

Nobody is irreplaceable or indispensable
OP is a 33 years old grown ass man.


Chaii cry

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Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by OKOATA(m): 8:52am On Jun 30
Smoke some loud and you will forget your chubby girl in a week. It's that easy. The beautiful girls that you aren't into will start to make sense before you. I can't even date a fat elephant 🐘 sorry.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by clearcrystal: 9:56am On Jun 30
Brodaman
Let her go
With time, let's say six months, you will get over it
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by Kingri: 10:13am On Jun 30
She didn't care or love you from the beginning

.She was there just for your money ..Remember she move on just 2 weeks you broke up with her and now dating some other guy
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by ExDepressed: 12:55pm On Jun 30
OKOATA:
Smoke some loud and you will forget your chubby girl in a week. It's that easy. The beautiful girls that you aren't into will start to make sense before you. I can't even date a fat elephant 🐘 sorry.
grin
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by overseasnbeyond: 2:29pm On Jun 30
I got you, get orogbo (bitter cola) and some other things
ExDepressed:
I am 33 years old and I swear, I have failed the brotherhood and I pray I forgive myself and move on for good.

I have been in a messy breakup with my ex girlfriend of 4 years relationship that ended of which I orchestrated. After she demanded I pay part of her pressing need of over 200K, I declined to see how she will react because I suspected she could be rude if I didn't. She ended up doing exactly as I thought and later apologized. But my ego was so her that I still told her it was over between us for being rude to me and especially because in the next 3 days she didn't call me or text or whatever.

She didn't say anything after I told her is over, she then called after 3 days to ask of how I am, I became very rude to her and said silly things to her due to my pumping anger and ego. Ever since I have been the one trying everything on earth to get her back to my life. She moved on with a new guy after 2 weeks of our breakup.

I have knelt, traveled for 10 hours to see her and apologize, I have sent her even some money. Is 6 months but still my heart is still so disturbed and I keep crying.

I have met 5 girls since our breakup but my heart don't wanna love them and I prefer my ex to them. I even met a certified nurse and she's serious and even beautiful but I still see my real connection is to my ex.

Now if I call her she tell me to get out of her phone, that I talk too much, that I am stupid, that I am a horrible person God saved her from, that I am very stupid.

This girl has insulted me to stupor yet I still can't seem to get over her. I feel I am under a spell because really my ex is not even that beautiful physically but is very industrious and intelligent. And I used to feel she was a well mannered girl but since our breakup she has been sooo very bad in attitude. Yet I still long to have her back.

People I need deliverance. I have failed manhood and I am still failing. I had sex and everything with my ex and I don't know if that is what got me tied to her. In fact the whole sex wasn't good because she is too chubby and inexperienced and has bad skills. Yet she's still the woman I long for.

If I call her now she will be telling me how she's on a call with her man/boyfriend and how they discussed about my bad attitudes and how he is soo open to her on everything because he is a pastor of a mega church that he inherited from his late father. That he is even talking of marrying her in just 3 or 5 months of dating and that she is the one trying to make it next year.

I'm so hurt and feel like I lost a part of me. Kindly note I am a very comfortable guy and I owe a lot before you say I am jobless and not busy.

I was going to marry this girl this year because we already dated for 4 years and looking at it now I wasted 4 years of my life.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by willyo(m): 2:51pm On Jun 30
ExDepressed:

Tell me please

DM
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by ExDepressed: 3:20pm On Jun 30
willyo:


DM
Lol
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by willyo(m): 3:28pm On Jun 30
ExDepressed:

Lol

I mean it.
Re: I Have Failed Manhood And I Feel Like Dying by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:42pm On Jun 30
Men like you are a cur$e to womanhood. very soon y0u will start moving from woman to woman fathering different kids. Good enough you have the money for the ladies to gold dig. That lady would have returned to you, but when she looks back, she can't remember anything good enough to make her return, she still has a little feelings for you that's why she even picks your calls. Since you don't believe in love or a good woman, open your arms wide for the diggers of gold will meet you soon.
ExDepressed:

Could she come back even after having moved on with a new boyfriend in just 2 weeks after our breakup?

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