I recently encountered a post on this platform discussing how a lady declined a gentleman’s proposal in a rather impolite manner. It highlights the need for educating Nigerian women on how to gracefully turn down a proposal, even if they are highly educated or not. Unfortunately, some graduates still exhibit behavior that lacks civility when rejecting such advances

As a lady, politely declining a gentleman’s proposal involves expressing your feelings with kindness and respect. Here are some ways to do so:

Be Honest and Direct: Thank the person for their interest and express your feelings honestly. For example:
“Thank you for your kind words and proposal. However, I don’t feel the same way.”
“I appreciate your feelings, but I don’t see us as more than friends.”

Express Gratitude: (Especially those that have been funding your budget) Acknowledge the effort and courage it took for them to express their feelings:
“I’m flattered by your proposal, and I appreciate your sincerity.”

Avoid Blaming or Criticizing: Refrain from negative comments or blame:
“It’s not about you; it’s just that I don’t feel a romantic connection.”

Use Gentle Language: Choose words that soften the rejection:
“I’m sorry, but I don’t think we’re a good match.”

“I value our friendship, and I’d like to keep it that way.”
Remember, it’s essential to be kind and considerate while being honest. Everyone deserves respect, regardless of the situation.

For a guy to have a complete erection and morale to go down on his knees to propose to a Banny,it simply means they have got a "thing", together.............So as a sensible banny,why can't she just accept his proposal publicly just to save the idiot from public shame and later tell him NO in private?

Well,I don't really have time to blame such bannies for continuously turning down the proposal of such weaklings...I only blame our National assembly that hasn't declared a state of emergency on such type of men who have kept on constituting public nuisance

This post is funny.

Women are brutally ruthless when punishing a weak man.

It's only a weak man who knees in front of a woman to propose.

I don't understand. What exactly is the idea behind the kneeling?

I wonder who introduce that

RealityKings:
I don't understand. What exactly is the idea behind the kneeling?

RealityKings:
I don't understand. What exactly is the idea behind the kneeling?

They want to copy the whites .. The idiots calls it being romantic.. You go carry money go buy ring,come kneel ,begging a problem to come into your life.. Is that not high level of stupidity? The lady should be the one rolling on the ground,begging to be taken serious by you.. I know with time all of these white man settings will change..

BigYash:
They want to copy the whites .. The idiots calls it being romantic.. You go carry money go buy ring,come kneel ,begging a problem to come into your life.. Is that not high level of stupidity? The lady should be the one rolling on the ground,begging to be taken serious by you.. I know with time all of these white man settings will change..

Chai what a wicked world