The age of 20 to 30 years in men is the most challenging of years or life time in a man.

As he ages, he is knocked all sides with intimidation and lots of challenges.

He jets out of the University stuck with much insecurities about what life could offer.

NYSC at some points might pose as though it's the way out but 80% would still fall back to reality.

This is an age he pulled out for a wedding reception, the lucky ones at his age gets to throw money all over the place and he's yet intimated on how to go about it.

His wears are not always what he wishes to put on but life could be so hard that he might not have any choice.

He is rejected by many ladies because he literally has little or nothing to offer a cosy lifestyle or go out on common dates.

Who wants to come and suffer for the second time with a guy who had been drenched by rain and hit by sun with literally his flesh stuck in his bones and looking quite dry like what I can't describe.

Every car that passes by reminds him of how much he's not a man and how much he needs to offer to get to such level.

He looses lots of friends who had started with him because he can't maintain the lifestyle they've all pulled into before him.

Who wants to keep taking free things and free rides? Men hate free things, they wish to own theirs, that's how they are weird.

His nights are full of dreams about what he feels life should be.

He wake up only wishing and keep hoping when the sun would get to shine on him too so he could stop living in fantasy.

For some, their parents keep picking on them why they aren't productive, it's really not their fault but they can't help it.

His kid sister just got impregnated because he couldn't stand in the gap to buy her pads regularly.

He could literally see his family apparently trying to depend on him.

For all they care, the family spent a lot to get him out of school so he must start nursing the courage to bring something home.

If he dares to pick a girl friend, he might end up with heart break.

Then a few are pushed to go into cyber crime and any form of dirty business because they can't stand the intimidation.

This is what an average Nigerian man wakes up to see why yee all flaunt your butts all over the media.

Dear men....

Don't give up, your decisions in this trying time would determine your future from 30 up ward.

Make sane decisions.

Make good choices.

Stay away from alcohol and drugs.

Above all...be patient. It'll take a little while but soon gotta come to pass.

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