Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

coward u dont have any hiv hiv is not that easy to contract i swear to almighty God u did not contract any hiv but maybe some bacteria from ur explanation u didnt contract anything u are just afraid

Op wan kill himself for nothing, because your disease is showing resistance to treatment you now have HIV after test says is negative, na this fear go kill you not HIV

abba190:
coward u dont have any hiv hiv is not that easy to contract i swear to almighty God u did not contract any hiv but maybe some bacteria from ur explanation u didnt contract anything u are just afraid

OP, were you informed the lady you had sex with is positive?

Don't because of the fear of imaginary HIV give yourself HBP

Thanks for your response. Her status unknown

Wawelexy:
OP, were you informed the lady you had sex with is positive?

Don't because of the fear of imaginary HIV give yourself HBP

ronet2:
Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. 🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

hahahaha I can bet 100k you don’t have HIV. I was like you for 6 years of my life. I go knack one babewith cd. E no burst ooo
Few days later I sick.

U could have just save ursef this psychological torturing by getting ur PEP within 72hrs of that exposure.....

had a condom burst but didn't realize until I finished, damn I nearly breakdown... Couldn't sleep all night, went to the general hospital the next morning, and got the PEP (its free of charge) sharperly after getting tested (-) ....its better to swallow pills for 30 days than to swallow it for the rest of ur life...


My bet: you re NOT ( + )

abba190:
coward u dont have any hiv hiv is not that easy to contract i swear to almighty God u did not contract any hiv but maybe some bacteria from ur explanation u didnt contract anything u are just afraid

Doctor Abba

abba190:
coward u dont have any hiv hiv is not that easy to contract i swear to almighty God u did not contract any hiv but maybe some bacteria from ur explanation u didnt contract anything u are just afraid

Simple comment and you are swearing to God Almighty. This swearing will eventually land you in trouble