Mobahd:
I am happy to hear this ...now I can be fuckin you raw with no anxiety over unwanted pregnancy

Ewww! bad guys everywhere

aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

It sounds like you had a rough childhood, your choice is respected but runners away from things like this is weak and easy.

Leemzyy:
Hmmm go marry and stop spoiling people's daughter

Sometime in 2023, you created a thread.... You want children and but don't want to be married.. not up to a year later.. you don't want children?.

Please come out plain, what happened in your life that changed your mindset?.

Abeg, no commess. It's your choice.

Maybe, it's ur choice but a child is still not bad

aisha1314:


I don't give a shit what society expects. You should live life your way and not give a damn what anyone thinks, as long as you don't hurt anyone.
It's good to be a non conformist.

RealityKings is a known criminal begggar on nairaland wit no future ambitsion.his mother die.so why on earth are u waisting time on person with no hope in life insted of hooookin up wit me so we can mate together....madam do u have taste at all or u desparate to toast beggar like
R ealityKings?


((((no oofencse)

But you like to fvck.

aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

Me too!

I can't bear my child(ren) go through the stress of these current dispensation of things.

I just can't; anxiety go just kill me.

Learn how nature's work and procure a generation for yourself

Me too, ain't going down that road. My issue is every girl I have met wants to have kids. 🤦‍♂️
I love your perception of reality

Anny69:
It's okay. My first reaction to a pregnant woman is disgust because I think about why a woman would do that to herself. Later I calm down because it's her choice. It's just a big no for me. Pregnancy, motherhood. ❌

I like the idea of zero procreation, a rare thing to hear it from a melanin girl.
Earth is already a wasteland, it is cruel to bring an innocent soul here…

aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

I hope you won't mind me coming to suck your breasts from time to time

aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

Hello.

First things first: spitting at people is nasty. You might not want to do that, lest you end up spitting at someone who "keeps it real" by replying with a fist to your face. Very nasty thing, bruises and contusions

Secondly, if you're really serious about not wanting kids (I won't ask how old you are or what your motivations are, I'll leave someone else to engage you on that), you'll have to change your environment.

Because wanting to be child-free in Nigerian society is akin to trying to scale Mt. Everest with no guide sherpa, carrying your own luggage and no supplemental oxygen. To understand that analogy, 70% of climbers who choose to do that, DIE.

There's only been one lady I know, who tried in her marriage, to remain child-free in Nigeria. I think she held out for 9 yrs.

Everyone else who made the commitment (and it is a serious commitment) to be child-free (not because of their age or how cool it is to say stuff like that when you're young or whatever reasons) all did one thing:

They relocated to an environment where being child-free is acceptable.

So you better start looking at IELTS and TOEFL and whatever exam they use to japa, if you're serious.

But to remain in Nigerian society and want to fight and argue for your right to be child-free, well, may as well book that ticket to climb Mt. Everest.

May you survive past Base Camp

aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

Stay by your principles and values. U owe no man explanation.

Onegai:


Hello.

First things first: spitting at people is nasty. You might not want to do that, lest you end up spitting at someone who "keeps it real" by replying with a fist to your face. Very nasty thing, bruises and contusions

Secondly, if you're really serious about not wanting kids (I won't ask how old you are or what your motivations are, I'll leave someone else to engage you on that), you'll have to change your environment.

Because wanting to be child-free in Nigerian society is akin to trying to scale Mt. Everest with no guide sherpa, carrying your own luggage and no supplemental oxygen. To understand that analogy, 70% of climbers who choose to do that, DIE.

There's only been one lady I know, who tried in her marriage, to remain child-free in Nigeria. I think she held out for 9 yrs.

Everyone else who made the commitment (and it is a serious commitment) to be child-free (not because of their age or how cool it is to say stuff like that when you're young or whatever reasons) all did one thing:

They relocated to an environment where being child-free is acceptable.

So you better start looking at IELTS and TOEFL and whatever exam they use to japa, if you're serious.

But to remain in Nigerian society and want to fight and argue for your right to be child-free, well, may as well book that ticket to climb Mt. Everest.

May you survive past Base Camp

No, I'm not relocating to shit. I don't need to relocate to do what I want with my life. It's my life, my choice as long as I harm nobody.
If anyone questions me I simply yell at them to shut the Bleep up, go to hell and Bleep the devil. In other words, to mind their business. I owe nobody an explanation for my actions. I may not necessarily spit but I simply put them in their place which is out of my life.
You don't need to relocate to do what you want. You just need to learn to not give a Bleep what anyone thinks or says about you. And, though I'm not even yet 21 yet, I ran out of bleeps to give years ago. I don't need to relocate I just don't give a shit what anyone thinks or says about me. And that's enough to survive anywhere.

Leemzyy:
Hmmm go marry and stop spoiling people's daughter

I actually like influencing and mobilizing people against social norms that are outdated and stupid.

TheBreastSucker:


I hope you won't mind me coming to suck your breasts from time to time

Whatever

aisha1314:


Whatever

Which state do you live in so we can arrange how to meet?

aisha1314:
Is it ok that I regularly tell people I don't ever want children because pregnancy and motherhood disgust me to the core?
Can I spit at people who judge me?

We the same my dear... l'm an anti-natalist to the core!!!

Xodus101:



I like the idea of zero procreation, a rare thing to hear it from a melanin girl.
Earth is already a wasteland, it is cruel to bring an innocent soul here…

Right? The world has gone mad.