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What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Lurdd: 10:04am On Aug 05
Men in their 30's and 40's
women in their 30's and 40's

What advice will you give the younger ones in their
Early 20's or late 20's
Pls I want everyone to advise their gender on how to better their life in this their early stage of life.
I believe the younger ones are listening thanks
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by T0BY(m): 10:12am On Aug 05
• Avoid these three things:
Alcohol, womanizing and gluttony.

• Avoid drugs and weed.. any thing that will make you high. Just distance yourself from it. I wish I knew and heed to this info earlier.

• Acquire skill(s)

• Time is a precious commodity. So make good use of it. Infact, you can loose women and get them again but once you loose time, you can't recover it again.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by LordIsaac(m): 10:12am On Aug 05
Marrying from a rich home when you yourself is average or even poor will set you up for regrets. Marry your "equal" and build together.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by john1101(m): 10:13am On Aug 05
Lurdd:
Men in their 30's and 40's
women in their 30's and 40's

What advice will you give the younger ones in their
Early 20's or late 20's
Pls I want everyone to advise their gender on how to better their life in this their early stage of life.
I believe the younger ones are listening thanks

I don't personally like giving advice vice versa.

I'll say the younger ones should try and live to 30 years mark unfortunately not everyone one will. It not a given
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by muyico(m): 10:19am On Aug 05
trust no man except ur God only! put ur trust and faith in God! Jeremiah 17:5

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by pansophist(m): 10:45am On Aug 05
I have this friend that wanted to study in Latvia this year September, so he was preparing to apply last January, and gathering cash.

I repeatedly told him last year September when one euros was about 800 naira to change all his naira to euros. Due to procrastination and not making hay while the sun shine, he just didn't bother to change his naira.

He got an admission already. One euros is at least 1700naira now, his 10M is no longer enough to japa, and he regrets it bitterly. It's hard to feel sorry for him because I warned him, but he didn't listened.

My advice would be to understand the importance of time, and don't waste it. If you don't do things at the right moment, time will punish you. If you do it rightly, time will reward you.

For example, people that had the opportunity to japa ten years ago regrets it now, because it was easier then compare to now.

Or when your parents were still financially strong to cater for you, and you used it as an opportunity to be reactive, instead of proactivity, seeing it as an opportunity to be financially independent before they grow old and incapable.

If the only maths you learnt in school is how to benefit from time?compounding), you'll probably be successful or at least not fail. Time rewards everything, and punish everything. All depends on the path you take.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Sonnobax15(m): 11:14am On Aug 05
lipsrsealed
In as much as education is a MUST, also put it at the back of your mind that learning a SKILL must equally be a MUST too..

Don't do drugs...

Don't womanize

Las las,no carry family problem for head cuz family can be unfamiliar to our personal battles and struggles sometimes ..

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Starz825(m): 7:30pm On Aug 05
Be not faithless but believing in God and in yourself

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by FRANCISTOWN: 8:56pm On Aug 05
Lurdd:
Men in their 30's and 40's
women in their 30's and 40's

What advice will you give the younger ones in their
Early 20's or late 20's
Pls I want everyone to advise their gender on how to better their life in this their early stage of life.
I believe the younger ones are listening thanks
Whining go plenty for this life o. You gats dey with your reasoning 24/7

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Manculated: 9:00pm On Aug 05
Lurdd:
Men in their 30's and 40's
women in their 30's and 40's

What advice will you give the younger ones in their
Early 20's or late 20's
Pls I want everyone to advise their gender on how to better their life in this their early stage of life.
I believe the younger ones are listening thanks

My only precious advice for you is Never ever marry or give birth to kids until your finance is in good shape. if you are from poor or average home in Nigeria. I know most of you will not heed to this advice but e no concern me.

This Act is one of the major reason why there is massive and widespread poverty in Nigeria.

I see a lot of men and women who can't even feed or clothe themselves properly breeding kids like pigs. Smhh.

Nigeria is not a country to experience in one's lifetime most especially if you are poor.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Lurdd: 10:03pm On Aug 05
Manculated:


My only precious advice for you is Never ever marry or give birth to kids if you are from poor or average home in Nigeria. I know most of you will not heed to this advice but e no concern me.

This Act is one of the major reason why there is massive and widespread poverty in Nigeria.

I see a lot of men and women who can't even feed or clothe themselves properly breeding kids like pigs. Smhh.

Nigeria is not a country to experience in one's lifetime most especially if you are poor.

This is very true, thanks for the piece

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Knightred(m): 10:50pm On Aug 05
Lurdd:
Men in their 30's and 40's
women in their 30's and 40's

What advice will you give the younger ones in their
Early 20's or late 20's
Pls I want everyone to advise their gender on how to better their life in this their early stage of life.
I believe the younger ones are listening thanks
don't be a masturbating begger like mrcork mumsmiley
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Zaheertyler(m): 11:45pm On Aug 05
The world is yours

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by RealityKings: 1:42am On Aug 06
Knightred:
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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by ObalendeCMS: 5:49am On Aug 06
I have no advice for them.

They have two eyes for head & dem get two ears too.

Dem dey see the things wey dey happen; dem dey hear am too!

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by ibechris(m): 7:10am On Aug 06
ON MONEY: young people should save and invest well at their early age. Yes I did this when I was in my 20's and today I am okay and happy even when I am not yet done.
Lastly,avoid any man or woman who is a genuine liability.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by DonroxyII: 11:30am On Aug 06
Lurdd:
Men in their 30's and 40's
women in their 30's and 40's

What advice will you give the younger ones in their
Early 20's or late 20's
Pls I want everyone to advise their gender on how to better their life in this their early stage of life.
I believe the younger ones are listening thanks
Age 0-10 is Not Your Fault Whatever Happens to You .... Good or Bad !

Age 10-20yrs is Never Your Fault because You are Just Waking Up In Life ...

Age 20-30yrs is 50% Your Faults because Whatever Nonsense Happens to You From Childhood, 10years is Enough to Learn Life Lessons of Your First Previous 20years ...

Age 30-40years is 100% Your fault & If You ain't Wise at 40years to Create a Direction for Your Life, You are As Good as Dead, a Zombie, You are Dull Forever with nasty Consequences....... blaming Your Families/Friends Would Only Worsen You ...

Age 40-50years Ntor, On God, You Can Redeemed Your Stupidities Or Consolidate On Your Wealths of Life But I Know Your Mates are CEO/Ministers/Governor in a Business/Political Cabinets ...

If You are Born into Riches, Expand Your Family Empires of Wealths .... Don't Be a Wealth Wrecker !!

If You are Born into Poverty, Be the Pioneer of Wealth in Your Lineage...... All Rich Families Has Progenitor(The First Course of Wealths in The Lineage)

Whatever the Case, Never-Ever engage in Sorcery/Satanism, It's a in Irredeemable Loan to Your Soul & Consequences Far Outweighs the Benefits..... You Will Cry Later Because All Satanic Gifts Must End With Wickednesses against You:

....


Work-Smart-Hard...

Play-Smart-Hard ...

Then Fvck all Devils In The Ass grin

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by DonroxyII: 11:37am On Aug 06
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
In as much as education is a MUST, also put it at the back of your mind that learning a SKILL must equally be a MUST too..

Don't do drugs...

Don't womanize

Las las,no carry family problem for head cuz family can be unfamiliar to our personal battles and struggles sometimes ..
Can You Tell me the Difference between Education & Skills

Is Education not a means of Gaining Skills Wherever You are Educated

Every citadel of Learning is a School & a School is where you get Educated & Education is a means to Earn Skills which you shall use to Earn Wealths ....

Wetin una be for this Country sef !!

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Succezcard(m): 2:35pm On Aug 06
You could do everything right and still get It wrong in the end.
It takes the same amount of energy to doubt as it takes to believe.
You are free 2 be broke.
Sometimes, come out of the tunnel. There's no light at the end.
You could nearly make it. Try again, with a little something different. YOU Could make it still, and fall again. Arise.

SOME disappointments will break u dramatically.
Sometimes it takes an overwhelming breakdown to have undeniable breakthrough.
Speak positively of yourself to yourself, your universe is listening, acting in line.
You are someones secret fantasy. So hate yourself all you want, someone is secretly in love with u.

Start small. U may not know where it will have a success.
Know that there is GOD.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Succezcard(m): 2:42pm On Aug 06
Remain truthful, honest, loyal, Loving. Just becus u are these things dnt mn pple will be good 2 u.

More often dan not, pple wld repay u with evil in the end & still play victim.

Fight! Yes. Figh!! Else violent pple wld take wot belongs 2 u by force. KNOW THAT LIFE IS HARD. You are free 2 cry urself out wen it gets tough. Don't be a man, U'RE a HUMAN.

Somtyms, give up.
STOP.

BE KIND. SOMETIMES, SAY, 'NO'

Leave De comfort zone. But dnt be afraid 2 fall back & ask 4 help when u need some.

FAMILY IS EVERYTHING. But most tyms, help wldn't com 4rm them, or 4rm those u knw. Yet, NEVER 4GET FAMILY. B4 THEN, FIND UR FEET FIRST.
DNT LET A TASTE OF SUCCESS DECEIVE U INTO THINKING U HAVE ARRIVED. LET IT HUMBLE U.
LOVE URSELF FIRST. Only then, can u know how 2 love som1 else.
FEAR GOD.

Pple are busy. They dnt think abt u as much as u think they do. So fold ur sleeves.
Opportunities In life are not equal it could be unfair somtyms. That's y u may not like who love u & vice versa.
Peace!!!

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Everydaylove: 6:46pm On Aug 06
Never marry a girl from a broken home.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Savedday2: 7:18pm On Aug 06
Only use and dump 9ja girls. They are all ashawo. No good can ever come from marrying a 9ja girl. A word is enough for the wise!
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by capnies: 7:27pm On Aug 06
Most of the advise here is on Money and wealth but I tell you the reason you're alive today is an opportunity for you to inherit everlasting life, every other tehing is s secondary.
Develop yourself with eternity in view. God bless you
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Lurdd: 8:11pm On Aug 06
capnies:
Most of the advise here is on Money and wealth but I tell you the reason you're alive today is an opportunity for you to inherit everlasting life, every other tehing is s secondary.
Develop yourself with eternity in view. God bless you
You can save that for your children undecided
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Lurdd: 8:13pm On Aug 06
Succezcard:
Remain truthful, honest, loyal, Loving. Just becus u are these things dnt mn pple will be good 2 u.

More often dan not, pple wld repay u with evil in the end & still play victim.

Fight! Yes. Figh!! Else violent pple wld take wot belongs 2 u by force. KNOW THAT LIFE IS HARD. You are free 2 cry urself out wen it gets tough. Don't be a man, U'RE a HUMAN.

Somtyms, give up.
STOP.

BE KIND. SOMETIMES, SAY, 'NO'

Leave De comfort zone. But dnt be afraid 2 fall back & ask 4 help when u need some.

FAMILY IS EVERYTHING. But most tyms, help wldn't com 4rm them, or 4rm those u knw. Yet, NEVER 4GET FAMILY. B4 THEN, FIND UR FEET FIRST.
DNT LET A TASTE OF SUCCESS DECEIVE U INTO THINKING U HAVE ARRIVED. LET IT HUMBLE U.
LOVE URSELF FIRST. Only then, can u know how 2 love som1 else.
FEAR GOD.

Pple are busy. They dnt think abt u as much as u think they do. So fold ur sleeves.
Opportunities In life are not equal it could be unfair somtyms. That's y u may not like who love u & vice versa.
Peace!!!
Love yourself first, only then you can know how to love someone else, this is a good one thanks for the piece

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by Bignuell(m): 10:26pm On Aug 06
Your 20's are for taking risk
Cultivate the habit of saving
Until you find your purpose, edge, every late should be towards making you better financially and mentally

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by FitCorper: 3:27am On Aug 07
Succezcard:
Remain truthful, honest, loyal, Loving. Just becus u are these things dnt mn pple will be good 2 u.

More often dan not, pple wld repay u with evil in the end & still play victim.

Fight! Yes. Figh!! Else violent pple wld take wot belongs 2 u by force. KNOW THAT LIFE IS HARD. You are free 2 cry urself out wen it gets tough. Don't be a man, U'RE a HUMAN.

Somtyms, give up.
STOP.

BE KIND. SOMETIMES, SAY, 'NO'

Leave De comfort zone. But dnt be afraid 2 fall back & ask 4 help when u need some.

FAMILY IS EVERYTHING. But most tyms, help wldn't com 4rm them, or 4rm those u knw. Yet, NEVER 4GET FAMILY. B4 THEN, FIND UR FEET FIRST.
DNT LET A TASTE OF SUCCESS DECEIVE U INTO THINKING U HAVE ARRIVED. LET IT HUMBLE U.
LOVE URSELF FIRST. Only then, can u know how 2 love som1 else.
FEAR GOD.

Pple are busy. They dnt think abt u as much as u think they do. So fold ur sleeves.
Opportunities In life are not equal it could be unfair somtyms. That's y u may not like who love u & vice versa.
Peace!!!

I wish to like this post a 1000 times over.

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Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by FitCorper: 3:30am On Aug 07
As a man prioritize these 3 things or get 3 hobbies
1) To draw you closer to God
2) To keep you fit
3) To make you income.
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by virginboy1(m): 8:43am On Aug 12
Don'ts procastinate ...always start now.

No easy way to make it...there is always a process...follow it and get used to the hards


No body loves you more than you love yourself...so focus on making your life better
Re: What Advice Will You Give To The Younger Ones by virginboy1(m): 8:47am On Aug 12
ibechris:
ON MONEY: young people should save and invest well at their early age. Yes I did this when I was in my 20's and today I am okay and happy even when I am not yet done.
Lastly,avoid any man or woman who is a genuine liability.

What if you save and invest and everything turn bad..... Life can be very brutal you know

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