Is lifelong marriage realistic or desirable, or should we rethink the concept of 'till death do us a part'?

It was supposed to be a good thing, but our religious, social and moral values have significantly changed over time . . .

Tsarbomba:
Is lifelong marriage realistic or desirable, or should we rethink the concept of 'till death do us a part'?

This is 2024, nothing like death do us part, cos people are divorcing everyday, committing adultery, sleeping with their numerous exes and committing paternity fraud, eating their cake and still keeping it....

The idea of death do us part has long been dumped both consciously and unconsciously as morality standards keeps dropping daily

......people just recite marriage vows for formality sake...

Tsarbomba:
Is lifelong marriage realistic or desirable, or should we rethink the concept of 'till death do us a part'?

Nobody is forcing anyone to stay in marriage. Abi you no hear say Yole Edoche and may no dey together again?

Has anybody been arrested for leaving there marriage? I don't think so.

We have a whole lot of married people who believe it's till death do them part, some happy some not so happy.

We also have a whole lot of people who are divorced as well, some happy and others not so happy.

Summarily there is more to life than marriage.

Marriage has LOST its meaning COMPLETELY!

NOBODY, especially men, should be getting married in the 21st century.

Just go with the flow and discharge IMMEDIATELY your partner starts acting up.

Let me tell you a quick story:

I was on Codedruns looking for something to complement my dinner.

I saw a fair girl with fine face and a yansh like Kilimanjaro. Clicked on her profile and confirmed she's real.

Clicked on the reviews on her profile just to see some feedbacks. One of the reviews was NEGATIVE from a guy who booked her from another state.

The guy booked a room and the girl travelled and lodged there. Apparently the guy was busy the day she arrived and could only make it to the hotel in the morning of the next day.

Met in the morning. Guy rushed in and rushed out.

Apparently what the guy was "busy" with was his wedding preparation. The morning he met up with her at the hotel was his WEDDING DAY.

And the reason for his negative review was that the lady left before he could RETURN in the evening to continue their romping session.



Girl replied to the review that the guy should NEVER contact him in his life.

Anyway, the point is an idiot went to Bleep a strange woman on the day he was supposed to get married to the "love of his life" and we have all heard of women who have goodbye sex with their exes before their wedding. With some of these resulting in pregnancies where the new husbands have to raise BASTARDS.

The point is getting married today is POINTLESS!

Marriage is a good institution but people don't really understand what it is, especially these days.

Most people make the mistake of thinking that there's one size (or standard) that fits all, and that is the problem.

Once you understand that each marriage is UNIQUE unto itself, then you have your EUREKA moment.

You design your marriage as you want or as it works for you. Don't ever listen to "advisers" outside of the marriage.

All the successful people I know have that type of marriage.

They usually find their COMPATIBLE "better half" and stick to them lifelong.

When you look at such couple, you may be offended by some of what they do, but then they are happily married and you are wrong. lol

Virgin hunters reduce their chance of finding that compatible mate significantly for statistically obvious reasons.

I'd say spend time looking for that woman, casting your net as wide as possible and, when you find her, marry her and begin your life.

BTW thank me later.