The man you choose to marry will either make or break you!

Just in case you didn’t know, the man you choose to marry will either make or break you. He will either make you better or bitter. He will either make you happier or more miserable. He will either make the rest of your life here on earth a taste of heaven or a living hell.

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I believe that after you are saved, the next most important decision you will have to make in your life has to do with the kind of man you choose to marry.

If you submit your talents, skills, beauty, glory, achievements, anointing or future to a “pig,” you will eventually end up in the mud, because that’s where a “pig” belongs.

But if, on the other hand, you submit you gifts, skills, beauty, glory, achievements, anointing or future to a “king,” you will eventually end up in a palace, because that’s where a “king” belongs.

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Little wonder so many married women have found themselves in the “mud” in their marriage today, when they could have been in the “palace” in their marriage enjoying life with their husband (even during challenging times).

If only they had made the right choice…

Never let that happen to you, my sister.

But then again, the choice is entirely yours because like I told you the other day, God has given you the freedom to choose whoever you want to spend the rest of your life with as your husband.

So, you’ve got to be very careful who you choose as your future husband.

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This is exactly why I believe you need to learn how to choose the right man for you. It is not every man that comes your way that is right for you, even if he is tall, dark, handsome, nice, religious, and rich.

Please, I beg of you. 🙏 Don't let the fact your biological clock is ticking or some of your well-meaning friends and family members to pressurize you to marry that man that you and I know is not good for you.

If you marry him, it will only end in unnecessary tears, pains, and regrets!

You don't want that for yourself, do you?

Why should you even want that when the help you need in order to get found by your desired future husband, who is good for you, is finally here? 🤷‍♂️

I hope say you no go fall my hand sha.

Thanks for reading.

Till I come your way again soon by God's grace with another interesting, life-changing post, I wish you the very best as you intentionally take the right steps in order to get found by your desired future husband!

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If you are interested in learning more about this topic, feel free to read my new, life-changing ebook titled, "LADY, IT'S YOUR TURN TO GET MARRIED: How To Make Your Future Husband Find You, Connect With You, And Get Married To You, Within Just 8 Months" today. Send me a simple message on WhatsApp that reads "From Nairaland" on 08149985435 now. And I will continue the chat with you as fast as I can.

In the meantime, this is my heart-felt prayer for you...

May you marry well!

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Your friend,
Ayo Akinlade
(AY The Bridge)
Relationship Consultant & Author