Leemzyy:
I dont get ithow can you say ur girlfriend pretend to be good during relationship, is that even possible?

It's possible but almost all who pretend give out the red light though so sparingly but a clever dude who thinks with his head and not emotions could decifer.

FitCorper:
Nigerian men definition of wife material is a lady who knows how to be happy with suffer. Demand for money they call u a gold digger but they still expect sexual benefit from an unhappy lady. This my male gender too brutal. Anyway God bless Jagaban.

Which one is know how to be happy with suffer? Isn't she an adult? If she has money if her own will she suffer? You lack accountability as a human.

thesicilian:
The percentage of really happily men in Nigeria and even the whole world is not up to 1%.
Most people are just pretending

Starting from ur father and mother.

Pls update us about the bitter experience you witnessed in your upbringing as a result of toxic marriage between your father and your mum?

GOFRONT:


Commenter 11&16 above, their own case is entirely different. I mean how can a full grown Arse man handpick a harlot from a Motel or a Night Club who is a smoker, Shisha, drunkard and you choose to wife her??.......I think he got what he bargained for. So many men on the platform are on the same boat with him...

Look at Commenter 16, he brought a military lady upon himself as a wife, now she beat him as an okada man at every slightest provocation........when you say some food are forbidden, thats when some men would even want to try it out....

Yet this type of deranged men, will still never blame themselves but blame marriage, and by extension children coming out of such gutter relationships, would come online to use their total ugly & disorganised upbringing experiences to generalise all marriages.

Sapasenator:
I had a guy walkd into my office a long time ago, he had been an engineering manager in a top oil & gas company for over 15years and just lost his job due to the recession.

When he informed his wife about the job loss, she went and withdrew $150,000 from the joint and filed for divorce.

He was very angry and bitter when he was narrating the story.

What do you expect? When men pride themselves to women by their ability to give money to women and nothing more?

I sat my Ex and asked her sailent questions about finance, bringing in different scenarios of life at her to see what she will do at these different scenarios and the synopsis I got from her is that whatever money she makes whether it comes from me opening up businesses for her I should never think I will be a beneficiary of that money that it belongs to her only and not me regardless all expenses in the home will be borne by me and me alone. Then I inquire what if I lost my earning power? She then replied if you do how then will you take care of me? That was it I turned her instantly to nacking tool. She got the memo after two months and broke off.

Good a thing for me is that this discussion came after 3 months of dating, if I go the other way of men I will proceed with this girl because in the physical world she ranks 9/10 but life goes beyond beauties. A lot of men make this mistake of not knowing what is in the head of their ladies go into marriage and then gets shocked after that.

How will a man even keep all his physical assets in a woman's possession? That's fo*olishness

CJStarz:
If you wan marry a good wife,go Anambra.
Dem no dey use food play.
U go eat belleful.

Isn't it same Anambra ladies involved in baby factory issues , maltreatment of their house maid ? Or you are talking of another Anambra state in Europe?

Goodness isn't about state trib or religion it's individualistic.

idahme:


It's possible but almost all who pretend give out the red light though so sparingly but a clever dude who thinks with his head and not emotions could decifer.

But my daddy and mummy told me that faking and pretending is not good,is true right

idahme:



What do you expect? When men pride themselves to women by their ability to give money to women and nothing more?

I sat my Ex and asked her sailent questions about finance, bringing in different scenarios of life at her to see what she will do at these different scenarios and the synopsis I got from her is that whatever money she makes whether it comes from me opening up businesses for her I should never think I will be a beneficiary of that money that it belongs to her only and not me regardless all expenses in the home will be borne by me and me alone. Then I inquire what if I lost my earning power? She then replied if you do how then will you take care of me? That was it I turned her instantly to nacking tool. She got the memo after two months and broke off.

Good a thing for me is that this discussion came after 3 months of dating, if I go the other way of men I will proceed with this girl because in the physical world she ranks 9/10 but life goes beyond beauties. A lot of men make this mistake of not knowing what is in the head of their ladies go into marriage and then gets shocked after that.

How will a man even keep all his physical assets in a woman's possession? That's fo*olishness

Bros, I wan ask you genuinely.

Please why do our women think this way?

This matter don tire me. A swear!

Marriage is not a bed of roses.
Problems will arise
And we gonna resolve it
But we can't resolve it
We will separate waiting for final resolution or we divorce for us to our separate way.

Tnis is a free world - there is free entry and free exit

Leemzyy:
I dont get ithow can you say ur girlfriend pretend to be good during relationship, is that even possible?

women can pretend till eternity, so yes it's very possible.

D111:
I regret marrying my first wife because I really suffer, but this my second wife she treats me like king and I treats her like queen. I really love this woman, she has almost everything I want in a woman, to crown it all i met her as virgin at the age 28.Almighty Allah i thank you for this wonderful mercy,i will never misuse it

lol, e go red soon no worry.

dauntless15:
women can pretend till eternity, so yes it's very possible.

Owh i see,thanks

Karleb:



Bros, I wan ask you genuinely.

Please why do our women think this way?

This matter don tire me. A swear!

E tire me also, na the way man and papa bring them up. U will see parents telling their female children when you grow up you go bring rich man we go buy you car, carry u go America and build house for us and take us out of this poverty.

That same lady will be in same class as her boyfriend, both of them are unemployed but she has been thought from her childhood that entering a relationship means employment for the lady then she goes off to scout for job(employment) and the unsuspecting men who are supposed to live their life above the poverty if they have a supporting spouse the falls below the poverty line because they fell for a parasite.

The parents are the number one culprit of this attitude of adults behaving like they came to the world with zero responsibilities, what you grow up seeing and hearing in your home is what you will be doing growing up whether consciously or not. It's a pathetic situation we find ourselves, parents should do better.

idahme:

Isn't it same Anambra ladies involved in baby factory issues , maltreatment of their house maid ? Or you are talking of another Anambra state in Europe?

Goodness isn't about state trib or religion it's individualistic.

Kai,
See as you just dey blow big big grammar for my innocent comment 😂
Ok o
U don win

D111:
I regret marrying my first wife because I really suffer, but this my second wife she treats me like king and I treats her like queen. I really love this woman, she has almost everything I want in a woman, to crown it all i met her as virgin at the age 28.Almighty Allah i thank you for this wonderful mercy,i will never misuse it

Kai kaje ka auro tshohuwa ga yanmata kanana sweet sixteen? Haba kayi yawwa fa alaji

The okada guy who married a military woman meant to say he graduated from university of pooosie not unijos

idahme:



What do you expect? When men pride themselves to women by their ability to give money to women and nothing more?

I sat my Ex and asked her sailent questions about finance, bringing in different scenarios of life at her to see what she will do at these different scenarios and the synopsis I got from her is that whatever money she makes whether it comes from me opening up businesses for her I should never think I will be a beneficiary of that money that it belongs to her only and not me regardless all expenses in the home will be borne by me and me alone. Then I inquire what if I lost my earning power? She then replied if you do how then will you take care of me? That was it I turned her instantly to nacking tool. She got the memo after two months and broke off.

Good a thing for me is that this discussion came after 3 months of dating, if I go the other way of men I will proceed with this girl because in the physical world she ranks 9/10 but life goes beyond beauties. A lot of men make this mistake of not knowing what is in the head of their ladies go into marriage and then gets shocked after that.

How will a man even keep all his physical assets in a woman's possession? That's fo*olishness

You forget people change with time regardless of what they say today.

Sapasenator:


You forget people change with time regardless of what they say today.

I wasn't looking at what she says, I only wanted to confirm her actions in the past 3 months of dating with what exudes from her thought process and I was right. The reason why I brought up that deep thought discussion was because of her actions in the past three months, I didn't want to just take actions without confirmation from her through there thought.

I don't basically look at what people say alone, I justapose it with the actions they emit before coming to a conclusion. Doing this will predict that persons behavior to a large extent because the uncertainties has been taken into consideration.

idahme:



I wasn't looking at what she says, I only wanted to confirm her actions in the past 3 months of dating with what exudes from her thought process and I was right. The reason why I brought up that deep thought discussion was because of her actions in the past three months, I didn't want to just take actions without confirmation from her through there thought.

I don't basically look at what people say alone, I justapose it with the actions they emit before coming to a conclusion. Doing this will predict that persons behavior to a large extent because the uncertainties has been taken into consideration.

You make a good point.