Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,198,671 members, 7,968,940 topics. Date: Monday, 07 October 2024 at 03:35 PM

Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." (544 Views)

What's That One Thing That Your Ex Was So Good At? / Any Lady That Belongs To Any Of These Groups Should Consider Polygamy (opinion) / +18 Sexy Black Lady Moans So Good (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by Sarcasmonly: 9:07pm On Aug 17
Don't get me wrong, polygamy has its advantages. One of them is helping those women who don't want to wait for their own man share with other women. After all, there are all manner of sharing already going on out there.....

But hey... if you are considering going marrying a polygamous man...here are a few things you should consider.....

1.Polygamy can be a breeding ground for jealousy & Unnecessary competition.
There is no need to sugarcoat it, humans are jealous creatures, not to mention territorial. Many women in polygamous settings are only doing an "excellent job" concealing how they truly feel about the idea of sharing their man. Nobody, whether man or woman totally loves or enjoys the idea of sharing their sacred space with a third-party. Therefore, polygamy can easily breed jealousy, not just among the wives in the marriage, but children as well, especially when the children of one wife is doing better than the children of other wives. Altogether, you don’t need me to tell you how sinister the emotion called jealousy can sometimes be...


https://www.buzzcruize.com.ng/relationship/polygamy-the-other-side/

1 Like

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by tanigororo: 11:10pm On Aug 17
Sarcasmonly:
Don't get me wrong, polygamy has its advantages. One of them is helping those women who don't want to wait for their own man share with other women. After all, there are all manner of sharing already going on out there.....

But hey... if you are considering going marrying a polygamous man...here are a few things you should consider.....

1.Polygamy can be a breeding ground for jealousy & Unnecessary competition.
There is no need to sugarcoat it, humans are jealous creatures, not to mention territorial. Many women in polygamous settings are only doing an "excellent job" concealing how they truly feel about the idea of sharing their man. Nobody, whether man or woman totally loves or enjoys the idea of sharing their sacred space with a third-party. Therefore, polygamy can easily breed jealousy, not just among the wives in the marriage, but children as well, especially when the children of one wife is doing better than the children of other wives. Altogether, you don’t need me to tell you how sinister the emotion called jealousy can sometimes be...


https://www.buzzcruize.com.ng/relationship/polygamy-the-other-side/
Are you in any polygamous relationship?
Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by Sarcasmonly: 12:53pm On Aug 18
tanigororo:

Are you in any polygamous relationship?

Something like that, but not really sir

1 Like

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by tanigororo: 2:17pm On Aug 18
Sarcasmonly:


Something like that, but not really sir
Yes or No?
If you are not in it, you are not an authority about it.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 2:21pm On Aug 18
There is nothing wrong with polygamy, a man should not tie himself to only one toto for the rest of his life grin

1 Like

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by Sarcasmonly: 2:52pm On Aug 18
tanigororo:

Yes or No?
If you are not in it, you are not an authority about it.

Lol..your are funny sir..while experience can make you have good knowledge....there is also something call research sir which makes people knowledgeable and even become an authority on anything

U don't have to be a prostitute to know the pros & cons of prostitution....

U don't have to have a disease to know about it...

There are many researchers of subjects and topics that don't necessarily have personal experience of what they are experts on..

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by tanigororo: 4:10pm On Aug 18
Sarcasmonly:


Lol..your are funny sir..while experience can make you have good knowledge....there is also something call research sir which makes people knowledgeable and even become an authority on anything

U don't have to be a prostitute to know the pros & cons of prostitution....

U don't have to have a disease to know about it...

There are many researchers of subjects and topics that don't necessarily have personal experience of what they are experts on..



Is it based on those so called experts studies or experience?
Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by Sarcasmonly: 5:16pm On Aug 18
tanigororo:

Is it based on those so called experts studies or experience?


both ofcourse....



And by the way.......experts become experts or authorities by reserching numerous experiences, and even other possibilities based on other closely related human behaviour....
.so it is very possible for experts to be more knowledgeable than does speaking from only experience because experience can be very limited

1 Like

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by tanigororo: 6:13pm On Aug 18
Sarcasmonly:



both ofcourse....



And by the way.......experts become experts or authorities by reserching numerous experiences, and even other possibilities based on other closely related human behaviour....
.so it is very possible for experts to be more knowledgeable than does speaking from only experience because experience can be very limited

Do You agreed Research and Researchers can be biased, most especially social researches.
Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by Sarcasmonly: 7:28pm On Aug 18
tanigororo:

Do You agreed Research and Researchers can be biased, most especially social researches.

Of course.... Researchers can be biased for many reasons..especially when they are paid to provide research data aimed at pushing an agenda or to socially engineer the minds of people.....just as u have mentioned social researchers.....still ..u vannot hide evidence for long...

If u falsify or exaggerate data in order to push a narrative....existing realities will catch up with you
Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by tanigororo: 8:33pm On Aug 18
Sarcasmonly:


Of course.... Researchers can be biased for many reasons..especially when they are paid to provide research data aimed at pushing an agenda or to socially engineer the minds of people.....just as u have mentioned social researchers.....still ..u vannot hide evidence for long...

If u falsify or exaggerate data in order to push a narrative....existing realities will catch up with you
This is all I need to confirm from you, that possibility is enough not to rely on research and researchers posing as expert.

1 Like 2 Shares

Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by Sarcasmonly: 8:58pm On Aug 18
tanigororo:

This is all I need to confirm from you, that possibility is enough not to rely on research and researchers posing as expert.

Lol...u are funny sir.....u used drugs, phones, take ur child to school, and make so many decision which is an outcome research, but u here trying to be invalidate the usefulness of research............u are free to rely on whatever u want though sir.....opinion is free

By the way.. Information based on personal experience is more biased than research conducted by different people..which are also validated by third party ..
Re: Polygamy : "The Not So Good Side." by tanigororo: 9:48pm On Aug 18
Sarcasmonly:


Lol...u are funny sir.....u used drugs, phones, take ur child to school, and make so many decision which is an outcome research, but u here trying to be invalidate the usefulness of research............u are free to rely on whatever u want though sir.....opinion is free

You Just Agreed that Researchers and Research can be biased, why going back on your words. I am only pointing out facts that, it's not reliable and should not be used as a concluded opinion.

By the way.. Information based on personal experience is more biased than research conducted by different people..which are also validated by third party...
Was The Research not based on possible biased personal experience, couple with possible biasenes of researcher and the research itself. Which you agreed to yourself
Like You Said it's biased

(1) (Reply)

Any Suggestions On How To Deal With Loneliness? / Where Do You Prefer Your Woman Or Man To B Perfect??? / Can A Man Really Survive Without A Woman?

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 25
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.