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What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by seunoladele: 5:23pm On Aug 19
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS LOSING INTEREST IN LOVE MAKING!

Several things can make a man weak sexually and lose interest altogether in rolling in sheets with his wife!

From unpaid bills, to depression, to lose of job/business to mid-life crises to inferiority complex to low self esteem to rejection and chief of all, a controlling, domineering, disrespectful, unattractive wife!

If your husband is no longer showing interest in making you happy in the bedroom and you are burning, almost burning to de@th, here are few things you can do to get him up, hot and passionate for you like never before!

1. Understand that he is going through a trying period and needs your understanding and compassion.

2. Always, regularly, reaffirm his manhood.

3. Admire him always, daily.

4. Encourage him as often as you can and let him know he is a genius at what he does and new doors of opportunities will open to him.

5. Respect him UNCONDITIONALLY.

6. Stop using his past mistakes, weaknesses, flaws, failures and short comings against him.

7. Support him financially and any other area he needs help.

8. Initiate love making. Don't wait for him to ask. You may wait forever.

9. Seduce him regularly. Be sparkling clean daily. Be touchable, cuddle able, feminine, soft, attractive and irresistible.

10. Plan your love making sessions. Get a sex time table. Inform him so you can both look into it together, plan together and prepare your mind towards the next session. Also read my love making book with your husband: S€X...SWEET S€X! It will boost your libido and make each love making session end in roof breaking orgasm!

11. Do not make jest of his weaknesses.

12. Never correct him public.

Public humiliation can crash a man's libido to the point of no return! Men don't take disrespect, insult and social embarrassment with levity!

You will not lose your husband to another woman who knows how to take care of him in Jesus name!

Men are turned on by women who are kind.

Be kind and your bedroom life will be hot forever!

© Seun Oladele, 2024.
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Oluromantic: 7:38pm On Aug 19
That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

And you think all this things you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of a girl way younger than a man that she looks up to? How many sense women get let alone those with younger age

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by onumadu: 1:52am On Aug 20
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later. cool

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by eazzzy1(m): 3:29am On Aug 20
Call Daudathesexyguy 😂😂

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Cibel59(f): 3:39am On Aug 20
Okay undecided

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by FRANCISTOWN: 5:37am On Aug 20
Oluromantic:
That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

You think all this thing you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of someone who believes the man is to do the caring by his age compared to hers. How many sense women get let alone those with younger age
Age has nothing to do with the IQ level of an individual. Many older women are stupid.
At least, there are many grown people who deprive themselves of sleep to watch BBNaija.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by FRANCISTOWN: 5:41am On Aug 20
onumadu:
One thing is missing conspicuously from your list.

What is missing?
GOOD FOOD. (home meal well made)
Good food is what signals to a married man that he is "home", and that "home" can be anywhere if the wife is slacking in that department.
Most married men are responsible (which is why they married in the first place).
Understand this first.
Such men hate eating outside.
After he's had a great MEAL you prepared, he would be available for other things (including your seductions) .
Most married men are captured by other women outside using just food.
After eating there, other things become possible.
This is why most responsible men HARDLY eat outside, particularly foods cooked by women who they suspect is eying them.
Take this advice and thank me later. cool
It's either you are a married man or you are naturally wise. Most of the times, food comes before cheating and some women know this tactics and they are putting it to good use.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Shinjawestern: 7:50am On Aug 20
Oluromantic:
That's why I support men marrying older or slightly older women. Although women will always be women but there are significant differences.

You think all this thing you listed aren't too cumbersome for the comprehension of someone who believes the man is to do the caring by his age compared to hers. How many sense women get let alone those with younger age

Rubbish ..

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by chigoziri2403(m): 8:32am On Aug 20
How will you have erection in this austerity times

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Klington: 11:02am On Aug 20
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by maxiuc(m): 11:02am On Aug 20
grin
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Reality3080: 11:03am On Aug 20
The economy is really not smiling n much load is a man so the last thing a struggling man will think about at this stage is sex

Come to think about it
House rent
School bills for kids
Home maintenance
Feeding
Fuel for house n car(s)
Family ( most especially parents of both sides)
His siblings who need little support

I never even talk about how himself wan get savings n how e wan flex

Omo things are hard

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Jamiubond009(m): 11:03am On Aug 20
If he's tired of the kuntus,forget it.Men get tired of doking one kpekus.Variety is the spice of life

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Nwaikpe: 11:03am On Aug 20
Get born again. Sex is sin.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Jamiubond009(m): 11:03am On Aug 20
Men are polygamous so one kpekus is not enough

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Jamiubond009(m): 11:03am On Aug 20
Bring your hot friend for a three-sum.Thank me later

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by EmmyDJourno: 11:03am On Aug 20
Even with all this advise, who no get sense, no go still get sense😅
Women are more brilliant/smart, very few are intelligent/wise and the wise ones enjoy their man silently😆
It’s the unwise ones you see on podcasts and social media capping all day😁

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by francissmithz: 11:03am On Aug 20
This one just come advertise her wares grin

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by emmanuel596(m): 11:04am On Aug 20
Dress well
Smell good
Exercise and stop carry big bellies like a pregnant Hippo 🦛
Spice up your sex and romance life with new and different adventures
Respect him (very important)
Learn to not nag at him after he's had a stressful day at work.
Contribute financially to the running of the house.

Give him peace ✌️

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by ObalendeCMS: 11:04am On Aug 20
Madam, rest small!

Abeg.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Amuluonyenaego: 11:04am On Aug 20
Just invite another guy or pretend to be in another relationship, we the guys are too jealous.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by id4sho(m): 11:04am On Aug 20
Mouth gig 👄

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by LtChisom: 11:05am On Aug 20
Yy
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by KiNg0G: 11:05am On Aug 20
I can't imagine marrying and sexing one pucsy all my life...as a chronic womanizer

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by BABANGBALI: 11:05am On Aug 20
Prick wey don tire and no fit stand to salute again, nothing fit make am stand. Not even kayamata

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Mitsurugi(m): 11:05am On Aug 20
grin Organize a menage a trois. Royal 3 somethings. Bring Felicia that your very fine friend with big nyash

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by chukwuibuipob: 11:06am On Aug 20
sad
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by Hemanwel(m): 11:06am On Aug 20
It's a good thing that this kind of threads are created for the married to refresh their marital responsibilities, so as to keep the fire burning in their love lives.

However, as a man, father, and a husband, these are my personal experiences in marriage:

- We need to regularly appreciate our wives.
- Your wife should be your best friend.
- Do the house chores together.
- Understand your wife's weakness and make her see it rather as strength.
- Be in constant communication with your wife, even while at work.
- Be romantic. Initiate seductive conversations. Be playful with her.
- In times of argument, do it with love. If you notice she's still angry, cuddle her and laugh it off.
- Always make your wife feel special. Buy her gifts. Take her out, even after birthing 5 children.
- For your marriage to work, the onus lies on the man/husband. What you put in is what you get.

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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Is Losing Interest In Love Making... by 1b8m: 11:07am On Aug 20
Give him money all the time. Thank me later

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