jorion:


You no dey hear word until woman trap you.

Leave am Na ,,, Dem say who don see where Madman for kill person , if he see Mechanic suddenly, he go run

BrutusOj:
I can say you are still learning about Nigerian ladies sha, she came to your house on first date, you didn't do the needful with her instead you started talking about relationship afresh?

Babe don already assume her duty as your babe na, she wanted more of you in your room not gentle man talk of relationship. Nowadays, you don't ask ladies out formally, from the first romantic move you take towards them, it has started.

Going straightforward most times spoil everything for those ladies who have dated very badt sharp guys

@ the bolded. Abeg oh, ask ladies out formally.

This is how you people enter trouble unknowingly.

rock86:

I couldn't quote you on travels, please you advised against British Heart foundation that they're expensive, which one do you advise.

@justwise can you just please unban me? Its unfair to ban me for reporting bullies

Can you explain better. I can not comprehend what you are saying. I stand by my words by British heart foundation about their second hand goods. Their products is like as if you are buying new things from M and S products.

Because chasing women is waste of time.

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

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What you got to do now is that you got to grow and get sense. The guy try self. If I ask you out, you no gree... I go just Waka jeje...

This is like persisting to carry yout bills. Who does that in the recent age.
I still do persist though but on one condition and that is if the person is a Virgin.
Else you only have one opportunity with me after which I move on to the next girl

Just keep on tending your vegetables. U go learn..

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

#Copied

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

#Copied

You are lucky he even asked you twice. It's people like you that will form but u don't have anything to offer a man.
Next thing now u will start billing him and when he. Complain you will say "shabi am on my own you came to chase me.,

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

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Subsidy us gone, that's why 😂

He should keep begging you ontop of the money he will still spend

balaclava:
Why I go dey chase who I wan help?

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

#Copied

I'm still always baffled by the way you Ladies think. Wtf are you surprised at?

The money wey you dey use buy fuel 5years ago na him you dey use buy am now

immortalcrown:
If I were in his shoes, I would not have asked you out more than twice.

Who go help you no go stress you. Who stress you fit no help you. Someone may give you tough time before accepting to date you but will end up being very bad for you. Someone may quickly accept to date you and will turn out to be your treasure.

Forming hard-to-get or being quick to accept a relationship proposal doesn't define you, since you have already spent time with him and have known him to an extent.

Forming hard-to-get or being quick to accept a relationship proposal is debatable when the proposal is coming from a stranger. You have been close to him enough to know if he can be good for you or not.

Before he asked you out, you had already conducted the study that should precede a romantic relationship and concluded that he is good for you. So, why the shakara? This is the same stupidity some ladies display when a man they have dated for long proposes marriage to them. Some ladies that have been craving for the marriage proposal and have directly or indirectly asked for it will reject the proposal on the mere ground that he didn't propose in a romantic way.

You try sef.

I only ask once.

Imagine him having to face the embarrassment of being rejected again for the second time.
Not to talk of the third time..

For me I no go ask pass twice.. once I don propose you no gree the second one na to try my luck.. why I go wan stress myself when I know say na you go enjoy am pass me

GreatOchuks:

As dem never lay allegations for your head about Sexual assault or rape , then you sleep cell , them bail you , you return to meet suspension from work and you begin go Court to defend charges , you no go Calm down take No as No .

Once she says No affirmatively,, even if I don off boxers, I de chucking Odogwu back , wear my clothes , open the door , begin press phone .

No give Village people chance o

Go and highlight the part of my posts above that made you type all this epistle.

Why do some of you find it so difficult to comprehend? Return to the post of the Op I quoted and see the statement from the lady I bolded. She said, she offered herself to the guy on a plater of Gold and he fumbled. I made my own inference from that statement, I never said in any of my posts, that guys should keep making sexual advances when a lady say NO to their first moves.

Una too watch oyibo movies and read celebrities news too much wey don enter una brain. Do you want to tell me now that you asked all the ladies you had sexual affairs with to consent verbally or written before you did? Like you asked them, babe, can we have sex? Babe can we kiss? Babe, can I touch your boobs? Even if you propose to a lady in the presence of the whole Nigerians and she says yes, you can still be accused of rape if she wants to deal with you. So, what's the point here?

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

#Copied

Continue picking your leaves and cooking firewood....lol

Confused woman being

essentialone:
There's this guy who started working at my workplace in February last year. Of all the ladies that were there, he chose to make only me his friend. We got along well. He asked a lot of questions, and I gave him detailed responses, I was indirectly orienting him. Within a few weeks, he was already receiving accolades from our boss for working hard and being diligent.

All the ladies started throwing themselves at him, but he didn't really mind anyone. He kept only me as his friend, and it made me happy and proud.

About two months later, he invited me for dinner at a restaurant around the airport residential area. I went, and after we had spoken for long, he made it known to me that he admired me and would love for us to start a relationship.

I was already in l0ve with him before he made that proposal but I didn't want him to feel like I was yearning for him or I already wanted it like the other ladies so I turned down his proposal at that moment. He didn't talk much, he just said it was fine and then we went home.
Days later, he got me a flower and some perfumes and added a note that he wanted me to reconsider his proposal. That was where I fell completely in love with him but I wanted to play hard to catch so I told him I wasn't ready, that I was still recovering from my ex and was scared of men.

He tried again for the third time by taking me to the beach and trying to convince me he was different. I told him at the beach to give me some days to think about it. Three days later, he asked if I had thought of something, and my response was simply "not yet."

Bro Kwaku, can you believe that from that time till the guy never asked me anything concerning relationship again? I waited days for him to ask, so I tell him I was ready, but he never did. He only discussed work, work, work with me. I was single and waiting for him to just raise it.

What should I do now as a Lady?

#Copied

Guy was patient.
In my younger days once that one time is gone. Nothing more and I didn't take ladies that play games serious.

godwon01:
Can you explain better. I can not comprehend what you are saying. I stand by my words by British heart foundation about their second hand goods. Their products is like as if you are buying new things from M and S products.

I'm new in the country and collating survival /money cutting tips. I came across your post about BHF, so I'm asking which you would suggest to shop in instead

you cus it.....

just forget about him

rock86:


I'm new in the country and collating survival /money cutting tips. I came across your post about BHF, so I'm asking which you would suggest to shop in instead

Ok , try St Oswards Hospice, Marie Curie shops, The salvation army, Age UK, Barnardos, Community Corner, Oxfam, YMCA shops, PDSA CHARITY SHOP, The forum Shopping centre, and of course try any Sunday markets in your area. At any Sunday markets, you can buy quality TV as low as 10pounds flat screen for that matters. A lot of Nigerian are buying qualities stuff and send home to make money. Get someone that are reliable at home to help you sell them. You can buy a lot of nice clothes as cheap as 10 pence with M and S label. Good luck

godwon01:
Ok , try St Oswards Hospice, Marie Curie shops, The salvation army, Age UK, Barnardos, Community Corner, Oxfam, YMCA shops, PDSA CHARITY SHOP, The forum Shopping centre, and of course try any Sunday markets in your area. At any Sunday markets, you can buy quality TV as low as 10pounds flat screen for that matters. A lot of Nigerian are buying qualities stuff and send home to make money. Get someone that are reliable at home to help you sell them. You can buy a lot of nice clothes as cheap as 10 pence with M and S label. Good luck

Thank you so much

Just say Hi to any Nigerian girl, and she immediately sees you like a Fool to be exploited.

Quite true