My name is fasakin ademola I’m from ogun state lives in abeokuta in 2019 me and my cousin relocated to aregbe some where in abeokuta we got there living my best life big boy with small swag as a new resident I needed a new babe to be dating we were like 8 guys living in 2 room self contain in the same compound we always stroll out in the evening till night to find new babes luckily for me the second day we went out I met one small girl funmi is her name very fine and nice shape I worked close to her tell her how I feel spoke some good words to her ears she fell for the loves word she accepted to be my girlfriend instantly the next day she came to visit we bleeped have a nice time this girl is good when it comes to bleeping our relationship continues and I need more babes to be keeping my company when konji want to kill me so their this small girl that has big yansh she lives adjacent to my house her name is aminat I tried to woo her she told me she will think about it me and the girl started playing along without any positive results from her I was dating my old time friend back in Moshood abiola polytechnic her name is grace she came to visit me we had a nice time their was a lady we played together and gist her name is zainab she saw grace that day when we are coming from my apartment she started hailing me that i like big things and grace is thick and sexy I followed grace to the bus stop and came back home me and zainab sat together and having conversation about grace she said she is too big for me I told her I like them big and she mentioned one of her friends oluwakemi(my current wife) she is big and lonely that she needs a boyfriend I told her that I’m not interested I left her to my room next day in the evening I was with my friends at the front of house I saw zainab from afar whispering to me I went to her she pointed oluwakemi that is her she fine but not that much I declined zainad collected my phone and dailed oluwakemi number I was like what is wrong with this babe I left there back to my house

In the evening I decided to call kemi number to hear from her I expressed my feelings to her she accepted instantly to be my new girlfriend that is how will started the relationship I have like three babes one is still forming hard to get everything is going fine without any issues and this my house is too lively that other guys from next compound always came to sleep over flexing smoking drinking we don’t know they don’t like the way we behave in our compound we have like three police that lives in the same compound because police station is not far to our area June 12 something bad happened in the morning we were like twelve that day some of us were upstairs cooking others were smoking downstairs at the backyard as we heard the noise I thought they were fighting unknowingly to me they are sars from police station they caught those guy smoking downstairs all of us upstairs ran to one of our co-tenant apartment the woman left us to downstair told her daughter we were in her room that is how the small police her name is bolaji joined them to get us she pointed the room we are their is this woman a senior police officer that live in our compound(may her soul rest perfect peace)she tried to stop them not to arrest us but they didn’t succumb they barged in started beating us told us to lied down they moved us downstairs with other guys we were eleven in numbers they packed us inside the bus we got the station....

We got to the station their boss in the station started shouting insulting us that we are not serious with our life that we are disturbing the peace of our compound and the neighbors they came to reported us and me i didn’t like smoking i only take alcohol that time when he is done shouting they told us to write statements they asked us who can’t write some of us raised their hands me I wrote my statement myself because I didn’t want police to lie against me while writing the statement when they finished with our statement you know nigeria police they started negotiating with us to bring money they bill us 1.5 million we pleaded that we didn’t have they bring it down to 1million where we want to see the such money that time they came to burst us all of us were broke like church rat we pleaded they accepted to collect 250k for our bail that is when I experience true love for the first time only oluwakemi(my wife) stood by me out of the three girlfriends I had then she left her working place to see me in the station with her friends brought food for us our arrested has reached to my mum she called my dad my dad came that evening to the station pleaded their boss to collect 150k for our bail the boss vexed that we should sleep in the cell till morning that my first experience sleeping in the cell my dad went home came early to station for our bail he paid 250k that is how they freed all of us as we got out we are three out of eleven that is blood me,my kid brother and cousin other guys their parents came gather bail money gave it my dad we left the station we got home not up to two all us vacant the apartment to my dads house at kuto

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We got back to my dads house continue with my life hustling as you all know I need to secure the bags I forgot all the babes I dated at aregbe including oluwakemi not up to a month oluwakemi started calling me back to back I didn’t pick her calls because i don’t want any serious relationship fortunately for her anytime she calls I’m always with my mum she will tell me to pick the call I won’t comply till one day my mum asked me when am I bringing my girlfriend to her I told her i didn’t have any she asked what of the one that calls all the time I told her I’m not interested in her one fateful day I’m with my mum in the living room when oluwakemi called my mum insisted that I should pick her call I succumbed to her pressure that is how me and oluwakemi continue our relationship from where it stoped that is June 15th 2019 our love is too strong that she can’t do without me I did not have my personal apartment and is not yet time to bring her to my mum anytime she is coming to visit me I took her to my friends place is not far to my dads house I’m not happy with the place whenever she is around one of my clients sent me some dolls I got a new apartment furnished it to my taste I told my girlfriend about it she was happy to hear the good news that I have got my own apartment .....

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I’m happy that i have my own apartment 100 percent privacy my girlfriend always visiting me twice in a week sometimes she will sleepover that was when her mum started questioning her about her boyfriend that she should bring me to her so she can confirm her daughter is in safe hand she told me about it I told her i will go but not now me and her mum did videos calls but she insisted that she want to see me physically November 20th 2020 I went to her mum she was so happy to see me she blessed me our relationship going on without any problem till brokenness occurred my paying client stop talking to me I was down I didn’t know how to cope without having money I thought my girlfriend would leave me then I told her about it she consoled me not to worry too much that another client will come she was the one supporting me by sending me money bought raw food with her money whenever she is coming to my place I faced this sapa for good one year she stood by me what made her care for me is we had deep conversation about our future i told her she will be the one I will take to my mum that is why and she has a good job that time in 2021 I changed my phone to iPhone X because the previous phone can’t update anymore i link up with my guys they gave me latest update i kept on grinding one day my hustle will pay one month later I cashed out even the client that paid i used him for picking that is how I got back to my previous lifestyle bought new clothes,sent money to my girlfriend my parents my siblings the money is coming non stop because having a picker that time was a blessing December 18th 2021 my girlfriend decided to spend two weeks with me....

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I’m so happy when she told me she is coming to stay with me for two weeks because I have a lot of money in my account anytime she come I’m ready the next day she called me she is on her way to my place I didn’t go out because the love of my life is coming I waited for her outside she came we went inside as we got in I was in the mood I moved to her before saying anything took her top off unzipped her bra we started bleeping we only had one round i didn’t rush because she is spending two weeks with me she cooked my favorite amala and egusi the next day we went to oopl obasanjo presidential library went to the cinema we left there headed to amusement park we had much funs that day we got back home the bleeping continues without condom whenever my girlfriend is with I noticed some attitude she love nagging and insecure anytime she came I can’t talk to any girls in my area I thought she would change before we got married two weeks is over she went back to her place the feelings grew from 60 percent to 80 percent I decided to take her to my mum January 8th 2022 my mum saw her she was happy to see her son wife to be we stay with her for some hours before she left I got back to my place she called me when she got home one month later she called me that she is sick I sent her money for treatment maybe is malaria or typhoid she went to hospital the next day for check up she called me when she left the hospital told me the good news that she is one month and two weeks gone I’m so happy because I have been planning to settle down with her I told her to come to show my the result she came I read the results i hugged her tightly we talked about it and my plan to come for introductions I went to my parents house to share the good news to them my dad was around that time I told him I want to marry her I want introductions asap my dad told me to go to her mum for date her dad is late I got there her mum was so happy she will be grandma soon my girlfriend is the first born of their family her mum said she will inform her dad family before they pick date I went back to my dad told him everything.....

Week later her mum called me that we should come on the 4th of April 2022 for the introductions my dad is not around I told him on phone he said when he comes back we will talk about it I went to my mum told her the date for the introductions I started making some arrangements firstly is my wears and my wife to be wears i told her to give me the cost of her wears,shoes,bags and jewelries she told me I sent her the money I bought mine too sent her mum money for the introductions preparation within a month everything is ready along the line my picking client didn’t reply he blocked me and some guys sent money to his cashapp if not for my kindness and they trusted me I would have pay their money but when I explained to them they understand because the money is not much $250 that is how I started struggling but thank god we did the introductions successfully as an experienced picker some of my guys also do picking I collected his tag as middleman I broadcasted it I started getting little money sending it to my wife for her upkeeps and my unborn son the greatest mistake i made in my life is proceeding on doing wedding I love my wife that is how I can show her true loves my dad was around i went to him that I want to do wedding he said he is ready to do it for me because he has not done wedding for his male child that I will be the first son to do it in my family I’m so happy to hear that from him I came from polygamous family 3 wives 12 children while preparing for wedding my wife is telling me we should do court wedding i declined it because I didn’t want wahala in the future and i have been facing the wahala now me and my dad went to her mum for wedding list that time my wife uncle was around we discussed about the wedding they should give us the dowry’s list her uncle said we should be going that my wife will bring the list anytime from now me and my dad left three days later my wife brought the list my dad said no problem we will get back we also picked date for the wedding 10th of September 2022 we bought all the necessary things my dad and my mum spent a lot on the wedding ceremony I’m so happy because my parents supported me we did wedding everything went successfully we didn’t relocate because their is no money to relocate and Yoruba always says whenever someone is expecting a new born child that source of income will low business will come down till the person gives birth I thought that was what I’m facing because I expected it to stop when my wife gave birth....

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I really don't understand how yahoo boys expect income to be flowing like water year in year out, invest on something good for yourself and wife for the rainy days, they won't hear. When you're used to an affluent lifestyle, it's hard to start being prudent anyway.

The happiest and Saddest day of my life glory be to god

The day my wife gave birth to my son Abdul jamal this fateful day was on the 17/12/2022 me and my wife went to my parents place to visit them as we got there is not up to three hours my wife started feeling somehow like is time to deliver the baby fortunately the date on the scan report was the day and her antenatal hospital is not far to my parents house we decided to take her there as we got to the hospital the matrons started examine her I left there instantly because I couldn’t withstand the pains my wife is going through I went back to my parents house I played for some hours till night I left there to my place as I got home I took my ablution kettle went to the bathroom and performed ablution got back to my room i prayed like two hours after that I decided to take a nap waiting for my parents or the matron to call me that my wife has delivered while taking nap I slept off I woke up in the midnight still expecting the calls from them I couldn’t sleep anymore I just continue praying and begging for forgiveness from god while praying I slept off again and I woke up in twenty minutes to 6:00 a.m I got up instantly to my parents house as I got there my mum was about to go mosque and I asked her how is it going I don’t hear anything from them she drop the ablution kettle we headed to the hospital as we got there I could hear my wife still screaming to deliver the baby I was like god and tears started rolling down from my cheeks I cried the matron was making jest of me and I left the hospital to my parents place I sat down on a bench praying to god seeking for forgiveness is not up to one and half hours I saw my mum coming back from the hospital smiling at me that my wife just gave birth to a bouncing baby boy I stood up and praised the lord for making it happened without CS I’m really grateful to you god you are the only one that can do and undo....

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When my wife gave birth I thought is time to enjoy after birth that was when the brokenness started the struggling continue I sold my iPhone X and bought Samsung s8 the remaining cash I used it to stocked food at home because my wife just put to bed she needs good food hustle continues without any cash out for like six months i faced this sapa my mum,my dad,my siblings,my mother in law,my closed friends really tried for us in the hard time but still the same I fed up on hustling I gave up because I need to feed my family and make them happy one of my cousin introduced my current job house and properties management to me that is how I started making little money to cater for my wife and son in this time of brokenness me and my wife always have serious issues she didn’t cheat but her nagging is too much she didn’t respect me anymore mocking me in the front of friends families neighbors reason why she is doing that she owns her shop before we got married after we married she relocated from her previous shop to her new shop not far to our place I told her she should get the shop far to our place she didn’t comply she told me I don’t have say because she owns the money and my life is so simple i hate nagging i didn’t infringe her privacy she is the one trailing me because of her insecurities she got the shop life continues I have not been doing agent when she got the shop and I’m the type of guy that if I have money to spend is not my problem I’m a responsible husband because I like my family when I needed some funds my wife won’t assist me with it only my dad,my mum and siblings she started showing her real attitude there was a lady I dated before we got married I left this lady for my wife I didn’t know who told my wife that the lady was my ex she went straight to the lady house to caused trouble i didn’t not know about it she came home saying it to my face that she has gone to fight my side chick I tried to explain to her but my wife didn’t trust me I don’t know why the lady and her mum came to our house they started shouting cursing her she is doing the same thing in my presence i left them outside got inside thinking of my life changed to worst did I married wrong partner since have been facing the brokenness I turned myself to an introvert unless I’m going for inspection...

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Did you let her know that sometimes money dey finish and life will not be funny then?
I hope if yes, you guys would have made plans for that

My new job is paying well because I know some gees that will call me for consultation anytime i went out for inspection I always come with money when it succeed I see enough money that can sustain us for a week till I see another job sometimes i got three to four jobs done and succeed in a week my life changed but can’t spend the money like fraud money i always makes my wife and son happy with the little I’m earning but my wife did not respect me neither succumb to my command anytime i didn’t go to work I will be bored at home because the money I’m earning can’t take us long I may not see job for two weeks my wife is the one catering for me and my son from her savings whenever she does that she would insult the hell out of me we always had issues about it i tried to correct her she didn’t change their was a day i went out to play at one engineer shop at my area that is my spot every evening I took my son along jamal is eight months old that time all of us were guys then this lady came her name is laide she carried my son that was when my wife came angrily grabbed my son with force from the lady she was upset and left i followed my wife home to know what is wrong as I got home my wife started insulting me cursing that the lady is my girlfriend I said she is accusing me wrongly I told her in her life she should not try such with me again embarrassing me all the time whenever I’m outside that is how I heard slap on my cheek from my wife I thought I was dreaming she still standing in front of me that she will slap me again that is how the man in me came out I beat her she won’t forget that day I packed her load called her mum that I’m done with her daughter I’m fed up I can’t cope anymore she went to call someone I respected in my area the man beg me on her behave I accepted her back the issue didn’t even reach my parents that was we started domestic violence anytime she bleep up i will beat her till date she didn’t change I’m fed up this is not the man I want to become but she changed me to a beast she didn’t have regard for any of our parents because they have interfered so many time without change I’m planning to end this marriage but for my son sake that is why i hold but with time if she didn’t change I will move on with my life relocate to another state......I’m sharing my experience to all single guys out there know everything about you girlfriend before you marry her money is important be sure you are okay and ready to be a man Peace out

Guy if you don't let that woman go, you'll beat her to death one day, remain three beatings

Just be joking with prison time, nobody would care who caused what...

Find a way to co-parent your son and enjoy your peace of mind, this life is too short oh, enjoy now or forever lose your peace....


Stay safe brodah..