I am a 19-year-old boy currently undergoing a degree program at the university. One thing I have noticed from my experiences in public is that random people seem to find it easy to approach me. For example, I often find myself being the only person in a crowd who gets asked for help or the one whom many people find easy to ask for assistance. I seem to be the guy anyone can look at and feel comfortable asking anything.
There are many instances where I have observed this. For example, the other day, while I was clearly engaged in a conversation with someone, another person looked directly at me and asked for money, completely ignoring the person I was with. Another time, a girl at the airport asked me to help her with her luggage after looking at my face, even though there were plenty of other guys on the plane she could have asked. These are just a few examples; there are many more I could give.
I'm not saying this is a problem or anything, but it is just an observation. It seems I appear very approachable to anybody, and I'm not quite sure how. Are there cues I display unknowingly in public, traits people can observe, or aspects of my body language that make me seem this way? I don't know, but it must be something, as I seem to appear approachable to people with both good and bad intentions.

Simple!!!
Your face is cool and approachable.
It also has its disadvantages - people will find it easy to walk all over you!

That's your advantage King. It takes grace to carry what you have. Now that you have discovered it, it's time to use it to your advantage.

People trust you easily and that's why they are approaching you, if you flip it, there's nothing you can not achieve with it. I have male friends like that and in all their secret weapons when it comes to negotiation, that always stands out.

Reading this made me laugh because I experience this, but before anytime I'm asked I always pray in my mind that I'm protected by the blood of Jesus because I feel these people are seeing something I'm not seeing and might want to take my glory. Don't blame me I was just ignorant, now I'm just happy to be asked for help while I do it. I mean I can't count the number of dispatch that will stop and ask me for direction or even drivers of private cars. Even yesterday some lady still asked me to help her with her load to her head, I mean I just came into her view and she just asked me with her eye like I was just right on time. I wish I can max on this like posters above insinuate but I don't know how.

Moogoo!

Nigerians will take advantage of you very well, especially that gender with "V" in the middle.

You simply look very naive, kind of like a huge maga mugu. And you don't have muscle or bear bear.

You are a nice Guy. People esp women use nice guys and dump them.

You must have a kind face.

Make sure you develop mental intelligence or else you will be exploited in life. Go and look for 48 laws of power and read

I am just like you
A bit older now but around your age all you've mentioned happened to me and I just keep giving when I have.

But I also noticed something else more.
All this one chance and agboros found it easy to pick me out of multitudes to prey on.

Twice I fell for their antics but never again,
Today I just have a way of convincing people without doing much, Be it ladies , work colleagues etc

As someone said up there, read the 48 laws of power.
And Ubunjas miseducation here on nairaland will help you navigate Nigerian girls.

Be logical and unpredictable, say less and listen more then speak last.
Study your environment always and use it and people around you to your advantage

Seems you dont have beards

Try dey use black sunglasses and also barb skin for your head. Go about with black suitcases and ensure to work fast at all times


Your story go change in a week. if you dont do all these bro, people go use your tire

If this is true, own it up


Some people get looked at scornfully from afar, you are lucky people find you approachable, the disadvantage is that sometimes you may find yourself in some unfavourable situations, one of which you have mentioned above, someone outrightly asking you for what you may not be able to offer or afford

Peterlandil:


I am a 19-year-old boy currently undergoing a degree program at the university. One thing I have noticed from my experiences in public is that random people seem to find it easy to approach me. For example, I often find myself being the only person in a crowd who gets asked for help or the one whom many people find easy to ask for assistance. I seem to be the guy anyone can look at and feel comfortable asking anything.
There are many instances where I have observed this. For example, the other day, while I was clearly engaged in a conversation with someone, another person looked directly at me and asked for money, completely ignoring the person I was with. Another time, a girl at the airport asked me to help her with her luggage after looking at my face, even though there were plenty of other guys on the plane she could have asked. These are just a few examples; there are many more I could give.
I'm not saying this is a problem or anything, but it is just an observation. It seems I appear very approachable to anybody, and I'm not quite sure how. Are there cues I display unknowingly in public, traits people can observe, or aspects of my body language that make me seem this way? I don't know, but it must be something, as I seem to appear approachable to people with both good and bad intentions.

Guess my case is worse
People I don't know, don't ask for help
They walk up to me and tell me their problems and secrets, all I have learnt to do
Is just listen and then delete from my memory
That way your secrets is save
Some time it's crazy
I try to help as much as I can

Peterlandil:


I am a 19-year-old boy currently undergoing a degree program at the university. One thing I have noticed from my experiences in public is that random people seem to find it easy to approach me. For example, I often find myself being the only person in a crowd who gets asked for help or the one whom many people find easy to ask for assistance. I seem to be the guy anyone can look at and feel comfortable asking anything.
There are many instances where I have observed this. For example, the other day, while I was clearly engaged in a conversation with someone, another person looked directly at me and asked for money, completely ignoring the person I was with. Another time, a girl at the airport asked me to help her with her luggage after looking at my face, even though there were plenty of other guys on the plane she could have asked. These are just a few examples; there are many more I could give.
I'm not saying this is a problem or anything, but it is just an observation. It seems I appear very approachable to anybody, and I'm not quite sure how. Are there cues I display unknowingly in public, traits people can observe, or aspects of my body language that make me seem this way? I don't know, but it must be something, as I seem to appear approachable to people with both good and bad intentions.

You also need to know when to say 8 can't help
It will save you alot of headache and heart aches from your inability to to help.
Otherwise you no go get savings

Get a tattoo on your face or neck...

You are lucky.
There is a spiritual implications to this. Your star stands Out.
Help as many people as you can comfortably, something huge is coming for you

You will definitely excell in marketing expensive products like brand new vehicles. Just develop yourself in marketing skills.