You attract what you are. Now what you deserve .

--The most hardworking people don't always get company promotions (but they've worked so hard for the company...don't they deserve to be promoted)

-- Virgin brides don't always get married to good husbands (but they've kept their Virginity for years. Don't they deserve prince charming)

---Women who are good at handling other people children often don't end up with children of their own.

---- Good people end up in terrible situations...but bad people end up In good situations

WHY WHY WHY

Why does this ever happen?
Why don't people get what they deserve

This is solely because life is continuous contrary to what you have been taught to believe all these while.
People don't get what they deserve. They get what they are...whom they've become over years and years of repetition of life and death cycle

And that may fly over your heads like it did mine years ago...but that's simply because of your notion/view point about how the world you're in totally works.

Now I'm going to respectfully explain something just the way I have it in my head..A summary if you will.

Death and Rebirth Cycle

After death, your body turns to dust. So what happens to your soul? Does it turn to dust too?

Nope. After death our body decays and our soul is sent to a plane to prepare us for our next life.
Next life which may either be life back on earth or someplace else depending on how we lived our life back on earth

But here's the interesting part: Our memory of our past life is erased so that we don't get conflicted in our decisions in the earth life we reincarnate to.

For example, Oppenheimer was credited for creating the bomb that blew thousands of lives. Now imagine Oppenheimer dies and is reborn with a 'clear' memory of how to make bombs?
Now you see why our memories had to be 'erased'

Or imagine if a psychopathic murderer was born with clear knowledge of how to murder and who their murder victims were from their past lives they lived.
Now if such a murderer decides to turn a new leaf in this current life, the vivid memories of his murder victims and his past life as a murderer might hinder such a person's growth spiritually: such a person might get so overwhelmed with guilt and think they're too far gone and it's too late to change.

Such a person might even get overwhelmed to commit suicide hence committing another sin and having to atone for killing himself or herself

Reincarnation is a Mercy by our creator.



The reason for your repeated life cycle via reincarnation is why you get what you ARE and not what you deserve.

This is the reason you were born as a Nigerian in Nigeria...also the reason why cripples were born crippled and why those who misused their body in another life were reincarnated in a new life with 'faulty bodies'. It was so they would learn to appreciate the body they didn't appreciate and misused in another Life.

So when you see a hardworking person being denied promotion at work...it could probably be that person repaying his/her past life karma.
Probably the person, in another life, was in an influential post/position but denied others their position/salaries on Time -- so he/she is reincarnated in a position to learn the error of their ways...to pass through what they made others pass through so they can learn the error of their ways.

If such a person learns the error of their ways and make amends before death, such a person karma might be greatly reduced in his or her current life.

Nothing is random in life. You saying everything happens just like that is you ignorantly disaknowledging the presence of a unique Creator.

This is how the world works, death and Rebirth cycle wise...and this is what all the messenger of God tried to teach...from Jesus to Mohammed...and this is the sole reason Jesus was killed by the people his teachings spoilt business for...the very people who build fancy buildings and convince you to attend every Sundays.

So you in a relationship that get attracted to girlfriends that cheat and are selfish...it's probably because you share such characteristics with your girlfriends(you attract what you are)

So for such a girlfriend to lose attraction to you or for you to attract a good partner, try changing who YOU ARE genuinely.
Genuinely in the sense that you can only deceive me and others BUT NOT YOURSELF.

Change yourself genuinely and what you're attracted to/what gets attracted to you will change.

Link: show me your friends
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You attract what you are and not what you deserve.

Good luck fellas

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