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What Should I Tell Her Or Do by DanielAlhassan(m): 5:45pm On Sep 05
SHE IS LIKING ME , FALLING FOR ME BUT SHE ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT MY QUIETNESS, SHYNESS AND INTROVERTED LIFE , I CANT CHANGE MYSELF WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER OR DO
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by Yugoslavia247(m): 5:47pm On Sep 05
Tell her you dont like that she wants to change you.

Ask her does she like you for who you are or what she expects you to be.

Trust me you dont want to be told how better other guys are or how you should upgrade, dress or talk.

Tell her why does she not change if she likes you that much.

Why is she selfish and want to takw away who you are.

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Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by DanielAlhassan(m): 5:49pm On Sep 05
Yugoslavia247:
Tell her you dont like that she wants to change you.

Ask her does she like you for who you are or what she expects you to be.

Trust me you dont want to be told how better other guys are or how you should upgrade, dress or talk.

Tell her why does she not change if she likes you that much.

Why is she selfish and want to takw away who you are.

Okay thanks man
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by illicit(m): 6:21pm On Sep 05
Do you wish to change....?

Perhaps you will like the new you just let her change you

I used to be a introvert, I decided one day to start going out and making friends.
I don't regret it, I still stay indoors if I want to or have to

I enjoy both worlds now

Being introvert is not too fun, there are somethings u are missing out on

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Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by advanceDNA: 6:39pm On Sep 05
DanielAlhassan:
SHE IS LIKING ME , FALLING FOR ME BUT SHE ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT MY QUIETNESS, SHYNESS AND INTROVERTED LIFE , I CANT CHANGE MYSELF WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER OR DO

Cut her off....if u are happy with your loner life.. She's not for you....how can somebody be complaining about what makes you you....when it's not a bad behavior....

Pple who genuinely like loners like them for their nature i.e, the quietness and their shyness...
This girl obviously likes you for something else superficial perhaps ur look or because she's able to make u do what she wants, but isnt comfortable with the other things about you, which is your normal way of life

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Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by EreluRoz: 6:43pm On Sep 05
advanceDNA:


Cut her off....if u are happy with your loner life.. She's not for you....how can somebody be complaining about what makes you you....when it's not a bad behavior....

Pple who genuinely like loners like them for their nature i.e, the quietness and their shyness...
This girl obviously likes you for something else superficial perhaps ur look or because she's able to make u do what she wants, but isnt comfortable with the other things about you, which is your normal way of life

Chochocho
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by advanceDNA: 6:45pm On Sep 05
EreluRoz:
Chochocho
Werey!!! .... How ur day naaaa

U don miss one of ur drugs again??
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by Verydarkhearted: 7:26pm On Sep 05
Who wants you sef?? Go and work on yourself
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:15pm On Sep 05
DanielAlhassan:
SHE IS LIKING ME , FALLING FOR ME BUT SHE ALWAYS COMPLAIN ABOUT MY QUIETNESS, SHYNESS AND INTROVERTED LIFE , I CANT CHANGE MYSELF WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER OR DO

you should simply tell her: "sista... this is who i am , take it or leave it, and stop pestering me about my way of life. this version of me is a work of art that took decades to create and i certainly wont change for anyone. there is someone out there that would love and cherish that side of me, rather than look down on it (like you do).... and if it aint you, then so be it, but stop trying to turn me into what YOU desire in a man."
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by eniolorunfe: 12:55am On Sep 06
Are you sure she is falling for you or what you have? Because me I don’t understand how someone can be liking/falling for you and complaining about you @ same time.
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by jorion(m): 7:29am On Sep 06
That is a trap o...
She likes you but she knows that she has no power over you...
Becareful
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by DanielAlhassan(m): 5:15pm On Sep 06
advanceDNA:


Cut her off....if u are happy with your loner life.. She's not for you....how can somebody be complaining about what makes you you....when it's not a bad behavior....

Pple who genuinely like loners like them for their nature i.e, the quietness and their shyness...
This girl obviously likes you for something else superficial perhaps ur look or because she's able to make u do what she wants, but isnt comfortable with the other things about you, which is your normal way of life

you are making sense
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by Mopeola(f): 3:55am On Sep 07
Don't let her have that power over you, those r the first signal of a woman to break men into pieces if u decided to change ur life the way she requested, so don't listen to her as my advice
Re: What Should I Tell Her Or Do by DanielAlhassan(m): 3:19pm On Sep 07
Mopeola:
Don't let her have that power over you, those r the first signal of a woman to break men into pieces if u decided to change ur life the way she requested, so don't listen to her as my advice
Ok thanks

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