When you are interested in a girl romantically, the worst thing you can do is to present yourself as a good man.
Women will only see you as husband material and try to play the good girl act.
To make you think that she is different, she is going to start setting up rules against you while others are banging her on a regular.
Never fall for the "WOMEN WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO COME SAVE THEM TROUPE", it will end badly for you
Stop wasting your time trying to act like you don't want to drill her hole and be direct with her
If she says NO, you walk away and count your losses
Don't be the potential husband to a girl who is being spudded regularly by other guys.
You would only end up as an embarrassment even to your own family

WOMEN DON'T WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO SAVE A HOE, THEY WANT A BAD GUY TO DRILL A HOLE.

jorion:
When you are interested in a girl romantically, the worst thing you can do is to present yourself as a good man.
Women will only see you as husband material and try to play the good girl act.
To make you think that she is different, she is going to start setting up rules against you while others are banging her on a regular.
Never fall for the "WOMEN WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO COME SAVE THEM TROUPE", it will end badly for you
Stop wasting your time trying to act like you don't want to drill her hole and be direct with her
If she says NO, you walk away and count your losses
Don't be the potential husband to a girl who is being spudded regularly by other guys.
You would only end up as an embarrassment even to your own family

WOMEN DON'T WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO SAVE A HOE, THEY WANT A BAD GUY TO DRILL A HOLE.

Just be your authentic confident self and carry yourself with dignity.

If you still think you need to have money to get and keep women, you still dey jonze !!!

What's all these gibberish with sex? Hunger no dey catch your prick?

otipoju:


Just be your authentic confident self and carry yourself with dignity.

If you still think you need to have money to get and keep women, you still dey jonze !!!

You need money to get and keep a Nigerian woman.
Don't kid yourself.

Even if you are the most handsome boy, you won't get no PUCI except you are good at faking it.
AND FAKING IT WOULD INVOLVE A LOT OF LIES.

chatinent:
What's all these gibberish with sex? Hunger no dey catch your prick?

Why hunger go catch my drillpipe, I tell you say I vote for TINUBU??
Bro, I am never hungry.
Company dey feed me morning, afternoon and evening right now until I go back to town.

jorion:


Why hunger go catch my drillpipe, I tell you say I vote for TINUBU??
Bro, I am never hungry.
Company dey feed me morning, afternoon and evening right now until I go back to town.

You work in heaven?

chatinent:


You work in heaven?

It is close to heaven...

jorion:


You need money to get and keep a Nigerian woman.
Don't kid yourself.

Even if you are the most handsome boy, you won't get no PUCI except you are good at faking it.
AND FAKING IT WOULD INVOLVE A LOT OF LIES.

No problems. Na where you eye see reach na him you go know reach.

If your confidence is predicated on how much money you have...you are indeed empty.

I repeat for emphasis...you do not need money to attract and keep a woman.

Women will collect your money if you give them but the relationship will always be superficial.

Go and learn about female nature and how to bring out there primal instincts in them.

No be by money.

otipoju:


No problems. Na where you eye see reach na him you go know reach.

If your confidence is predicated on how much money you have...you are indeed empty.

I repeat for emphasis...you do not need money to attract and keep a woman.

Women will collect your money if you give them but the relationship will always be superficial.

Go and learn about female nature and how to bring out there primal instincts in them.

No be by money.

You are all theories with no real life application.

WOMEN WANT PEOPLE WHO ARE BETTER THAN THEM AND THAT IS A FACT...

If a woman sees that you have nothing to offer her, you will pursue her in vain with no result...

There are men who don't pursue women but get to sleep with them...

No woman gets attracted to a man who cannot provide for her, not even for a one night stand...

ALL THESE YOUR THEORIES ONLY EXISTS IN BOLLYWOOD, NOT EVEN HOLLYWOOD NOR NOLLYWOOD..

WOMEN WANT AND WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE TOP TIER MEN. THAT IS A FACT THAT EVEN OLOSHO CAN NEVER ESCAPE

jorion:


You are all theories with no real life application.

WOMEN WANT PEOPLE WHO ARE BETTER THAN THEM AND THAT IS A FACT...

If a woman sees that you have nothing to offer her, you will pursue her in vain with no result...

There are men who don't pursue women but get to sleep with them...

No woman gets attracted to a man who cannot provide for her, not even for a one night stand...

ALL THESE YOUR THEORIES ONLY EXISTS IN BOLLYWOOD, NOT EVEN HOLLYWOOD NOR NOLLYWOOD..

WOMEN WANT AND WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE TOP TIER MEN. THAT IS A FACT THAT EVEN OLOSHO CAN NEVER ESCAPE

No wahala. Like I told you earlier. Na where your eye see reach na him you go know reach.

A man cannot talk beyond his exposure.

As a Man thinketh in his heart, so is he. O doubt if we are from the same generation. But in our time we learned the art of "toasting" which is understanding female psychology.

Get her to laugh and feel good about her self and be a safe space for a woman where she can be anything she wants to be without the fear of guilt...you will get and keep her for a very long time.


This is coming from a guy who people swore married his wife with jazz because to them he had nothing because he did not have money at the time of marriage.

I have been broke , unemployed with just a few change of clothes as a young man and girls were fighting themselves over me in the neighborhood. Even Aunties coming to my Uncles to beg them to talk to me that their sister is loosing her mind over me.

Being Confident , knowledgable and Articulate is a man's biggest asset...it sets you apart from others.

As a man if money is the only thing you have...you are empty.

jorion:
When you are interested in a girl romantically, the worst thing you can do is to present yourself as a good man.
Women will only see you as husband material and try to play the good girl act.
To make you think that she is different, she is going to start setting up rules against you while others are banging her on a regular.
Never fall for the "WOMEN WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO COME SAVE THEM TROUPE", it will end badly for you
Stop wasting your time trying to act like you don't want to drill her hole and be direct with her
If she says NO, you walk away and count your losses
Don't be the potential husband to a girl who is being spudded regularly by other guys.
You would only end up as an embarrassment even to your own family

WOMEN DON'T WANT A PRINCE CHARMING TO SAVE A HOE, THEY WANT A BAD GUY TO DRILL A HOLE.

Bad Advice that would make all Men Goes Toxic .... You guys are just destroying yourself because you want to live for Women....

Women wants This, Women Want That .. Women Don't Want This, That, Those ... Hiannn...

You Bunch of Sheeple would never talk about what Men Want ....

Laslas, Una Go Spend all Your Generational Wealth Trying to Buy Sex .....

Become a Man & Women Would Want You .. Simple ...

The Question is How Do You Become a Man ...

Simply Be Untop of Your Hustles & Beware of Karishikas(Parasitic Women) ... Dem go use you Count Scores ...

Once You are a Man, Whatever You Dictate to A Woman, She Abides because she knows she is In a Safer Hands Of An Odogwu .... Na she go dey chase you around with Pvssy .. Dey Use Breast dey flog Ya Head ....

Women become Kids in the Presence of a Real Man just like a Dog wags it's tail before Its Real Owner ....

On Your Journey to becoming a Man, Leave Women for Oneside to avoid distractions till You Accomplished Your Goals ... Once Done, Use Ya Head to Protect Ya Life Hustles If not ... Same pvssy you wan drilled like Mad, No be only Ya Dick go go Inside, Your Entire Life Hustles would follow your dick Go Inside Pvssy.....

A Man without Sense Na Boy !

otipoju:


No wahala. Like I told you earlier. Na where your eye see reach na him you go know reach.

A man cannot talk beyond his exposure.

As a Man thinketh in his heart, so is he.

Forget exposure. There's a reason why Nigerian women date multiple men for financial gains and it has everything to do with money.
No woman has ever said I am attracted to him because he has no money.

DonroxyII:
Bad Advice that would make all Men Goes Toxic .... You guys are just destroying yourself because you want to live for Women....

Women wants This, Women Want That .. Women Don't Want This, That, Those ... Hiannn...

You Bunch of Sheeple would never talk about what Men Want ....

Laslas, Una Go Spend all Your Generational Wealth Trying to Buy Sex .....

Become a Man & Women Would Want You .. Simple ...

The Question is How Do You Become a Man ...

Simply Be Untop of Your Hustles & Beware of Karishikas(Parasitic Women) ... Dem go use you Count Scores ...

Once You are a Man, Whatever You Dictate to A Woman, She Abides because she knows she is In a Safer Hands Of An Odogwu .... Na she go dey chase you around with Pvssy .. Dey Use Breast dey flog Ya Head ....

Women become Kids in the Presence of a Real Man just like a Dog wags it's tail before Its Real Owner ....

On Your Journey to becoming a Man, Leave Women for Oneside to avoid distractions till You Accomplished Your Goals ... Once Done, Use Ya Head to Protect Ya Life Hustles If not ... Same pvssy you wan drilled like Mad, No be only Ya Dick go go Inside, Your Entire Life Hustles would follow your dick Join .....

A Man without Sense Na Boy !

This post has nothing to do with money, so I don't know why people are talking about money.
This post is about not getting yourself in a position to be used because you are claiming to be a gentle man.

Secondly, I can assure you that there are no real men when it comes to women, at least not in the long run.
Women are into dating for self survival and would manipulate anyone to get what they want.

jorion:


Forget exposure. There's a reason why Nigerian women date multiple men for financial gains and it has everything to do with money.
No woman has ever said I am attracted to him because he has no money.

No wahala. So you have never met a girl who has everything you think is important.

Great education, high paying jobs and side business, Houses, Cars, Business etc that she worked for legitimately

Bro there is a world out there that you do nit know of...and then you will know that money is not what is the most important thing to women.

Money na costume. Even the broke girls you date will collect money from you and go and use it to pay the school fees of the guy that she likes.

Any way be you. Ignorance can be blissfull.

otipoju:


No wahala. So you have never met a girl who has everything you think is important.

Great education, high paying jobs and side business, Houses, Cars, Business etc that she worked for legitimately

Bro there is a world out there that you do nit know of...and then you will know that money is not what is the most important thing to women.

Money na costume. Even the broke girls you date will collect money from you and go and use it to pay the school fees of the guy that she likes.

Any way be you. Ignorance can be blissfull.

Even the educated, high earning women do not want a man who cannot provide their needs.

They might have fun with you and even become baby mamas in the process but they will never settle with you

Instead, they would look for a SIMPANZEE to help meet their needs..

HAVE YOU NOT HEARD THE SAYING THAT HIS MONEY IS OUR MONEY BUT HER MONEY IS HERS...

Then you talk about a woman collecting money from Peter to pay Paul... Why do you think that I am advising men to never be the GOOD GUYS in a relationship?

That's what happens to good men when they get in a relationship, they get used regardless of whether you have money or not.

It is that simple.

Its guys like you that will come on to nairaland later to start saying "AFTER EVERYTHING I DID FOR HER< SHE LEFT ME".

jorion:


You are all theories with no real life application.

WOMEN WANT PEOPLE WHO ARE BETTER THAN THEM AND THAT IS A FACT...

If a woman sees that you have nothing to offer her, you will pursue her in vain with no result...

There are men who don't pursue women but get to sleep with them...

No woman gets attracted to a man who cannot provide for her, not even for a one night stand...

ALL THESE YOUR THEORIES ONLY EXISTS IN BOLLYWOOD, NOT EVEN HOLLYWOOD NOR NOLLYWOOD..

WOMEN WANT AND WILL ALWAYS GO FOR THE TOP TIER MEN. THAT IS A FACT THAT EVEN OLOSHO CAN NEVER ESCAPE

Quick question

Since you said women go for men with money, how come poor men are getting married and women are divorcing rich men e.g billionaires like Bill Gates and Jeff bezos?

Are you saying only bad men are getting married and good men are single virgins?

Expand my mind with you wisdom pls

otipoju:


No wahala. Like I told you earlier. Na where your eye see reach na him you go know reach.

A man cannot talk beyond his exposure.

As a Man thinketh in his heart, so is he. O doubt if we are from the same generation. But in our time we learned the art of "toasting" which is understanding female psychology.

Get her to laugh and feel good about her self and be a safe space for a woman where she can be anything she wants to be without the fear of guilt...you will get and keep her for a very long time.


This is coming from a guy who people swore married his wife with jazz because to them he had nothing because he did not have money at the time of marriage.

I have been broke , unemployed with just a few change of clothes as a young man and girls were fighting themselves over me in the neighborhood. Even Aunties coming to my Uncles to beg them to talk to me that their sister is loosing her mind over me.

Being Confident , knowledgable and Articulate is a man's biggest asset...it sets you apart from others.

As a man if money is the only thing you have...you are empty.

If only nairaland romance section boys will listen and reflect on your words of wisdom.

JovialJune:


Quick question

Since you said women go for men with money, how come poor men are getting married and women are divorcing rich men e.g billionaires like Bill Gates and Jeff bezos?

Are you saying only bad men are getting married and good men are single virgins?

Expand my mind with you wisdom pls

Women who settle for poor men have no choice and basically cheat on them at every turn.

Secondly, Bill gates and Jeff bezos have so many options. There will always be women around them...

Thirdly, good guys get used... That's just a fact

jorion:


Even the educated, high earning women do not want a man who cannot provide their needs.

They might have fun with you and even become baby mamas in the process but they will never settle with you

Instead, they would look for a SIMPANZEE to help meet their needs..

HAVE YOU NOT HEARD THE SAYING THAT HIS MONEY IS OUR MONEY BUT HER MONEY IS HERS...

Then you talk about a woman collecting money from Peter to pay Paul... Why do you think that I am advising men to never be the GOOD GUYS in a relationship?

That's what happens to good men when they get in a relationship, they get used regardless of whether you have money or not.

It is that simple.

Its guys like you that will come on to nairaland later to start saying "AFTER EVERYTHING I DID FOR HER< SHE LEFT ME".

You dont sound like someone who has real life experience. The first thing to know is that NO man wey no git fall maga for any girl. You must be aware of thatbreality and groom your to observe and adjust as things unfold.

You don't win all, you win some and you loose some and so you don't carry any woman matter for head by making her the center of your life. You also have to let her know that your life's purpose comes first and you are able to walk away from everything at any time and start all over again.

mind So you see that we have arrived at the same destination. It's not the money that will attract and keep the woman. It requires more.

I have been married for nearly 15 years but If I was in the dating market, I just realized that the way that my mind works now in 2024, I can't even look at a lady romantically for a relationship if you don't have your sheet together.

As in you are a senior manager, or have a solid verifiable business and have your own things...and a name or reputation to protect.

I no just fit date anybody that has nothing to loose and can't comport herself.

jorion:


Women who settle for poor men have no choice and basically cheat on them at every turn.

Secondly, Bill gates and Jeff bezos have so many options. There will always be women around them...

Thirdly, good guys get used... That's just a fact

So all poor men's wives cheat on them, none of them have faithful wives lmao, only a man of your kind of wisdom can say this

But according to you, I thought you said women only go for rich men, that we go for high class men with money, how come Jeff bezos and Bill Gates wives divorced them and went for low class men since they are the richest men in the world?

So all good guys have been used and dumped? No bad guy have ever been used and dumped?

Your wisdom is limitless, pls explain more

JovialJune:


So all poor men's wives cheat on them, none of them have faithful wives lmao, only a man of your kind of wisdom can say this

But according to you, I thought you said women only go for rich men, that we go for high class men with money, how come Jeff bezos and Bill Gates wives divorced them and went for low class men since they are the richest men in the world?

So all good guys have been used and dumped? No bad guy have ever been used and dumped?

Your wisdom is limitless, pls explain more

From my experience, a woman who finally SETTLES for a financially inept man will cheat on him on a regular.

Secondly, Bezos and Gates wives didn't cheat on them. They got divorced and moved their separate ways after spending years together.

And that is not even what the post is about.

I clearly stated that playing the nice girls to girls will get you PLAYED...

ITS JUST THAT SIMPLE....HAVING MONEY MAKES IT EVEN WORSE...

Not once did I use the phrase "use and dump"... Stick to the subject matter

otipoju:


You dont sound like someone who has real life experience. The first thing to know is that NO man wey no git fall maga for any girl. You must be aware of thatbreality and groom your to observe and adjust as things unfold.

You don't win all, you win some and you loose some and so you don't carry any woman matter for head by making her the center of your life. You also have to let her know that your life's purpose comes first and you are able to walk away from everything at any time and start all over again.

mind So you see that we have arrived at the same destination. It's not the money that will attract and keep the woman. It requires more.

I have been married for nearly 15 years but If I was in the dating market, I just realized that the way that my mind works now in 2024, I can't even look at a lady romantically for a relationship if you don't have your sheet together.

As in you are a senior manager, or have a solid verifiable business and have your own things...and a name or reputation to protect.

I no just fit date anybody that has nothing to loose and can't comport herself.

Dude, I am a young man who interacts with a lot of girls.

These girls will literally tell you the guys they are playing if they are open with you. And they are mostly good men who are head over hills in love with them.

You have been married for 15 years and I can assure you that the quality of girls you had in your youth are way better than what I had and it's getting worse.

APPROACHING A GIRL AS A GOOD MAN IN 2024 IS A ONE-WAY TICKET TO MISERY...

Good men that do not thrive on hedonism are happy to leave the broken women for the bad boys who think sleeping with loose women is admirable.

Being a bad boy will only take you far with damaged woman, not the correct ones. No single value if a so-called bad boy slept with hundred women. Because a woman that opens her pant that easy is not one to be proud of banging.

Real bad boy is crowned in the world of men, not in the world of women.

Let other men call you a man, look up to you, comes to you for solution, are convinced of your competence, and sees you as a plus to the team, just by your mere presence. Let other men testify to the work of your hands, that your presence is sought after, and mere association with you is a blessing.

Thats who I consider the real bad boy, not the one that sleeps with random women, who foolishly think he is using them, when they are using him for to cure ovulation

Yes I can confirm this


I used to be a good man only getting my babe's pussy...

Vyzz:
Yes I can confirm this


I used to be a good man only getting my babe's pussy...

So now you're a bad boy and you have access to different ladies

Nlol