The reigning gospel now is that of priding in singlehood.

People preach it everywhere they could and are busy shaming other people who are married or in a committed relationship.

But Listen.. if you will. There is no gain saying that being single is disadvantageous at the long run because, who will be there for you when some types of situation arises?

I have been with my mother who is suffering from partial stroke since January this year. I forsook all my other endeavors just to be with her and provide the needed support.

I child you not, what I have passed through this past few months just because of my mother can never be bought with money.

There are times in life that people you call you friends or acquaintance can not fill a certain role. That role solely belongs to a blood relative.

My dad had to sell lands and other properties just because of my mum's case. Which other person or persons can possibly make these sacrifices for her except her blood relations.

Goodlyhrt:
The reigning gospel now is that of priding in singlehood.

People preach it everywhere they could and are busy shaming other people who are married or in a committed relationship.

But Listen.. if you will. There is no gain saying that being single is disadvantageous at the long run because, who will be there for you when some types of situation arises?

I have been with my mother who is suffering from partial stroke since January this year. I forsook all my other endeavors just to be with her and provide the needed support.

I child you not, what I have passed through this past few months just because of my mother can never be bought with money.

There are times in life that people you call you friends or acquaintance can not fill a certain role. That role solely belongs to a blood relative.

My dad had to sell lands and other properties just because of my mum's case. Which other person or persons can possibly make these sacrifices for her except her blood relations.

Your mother is lucky to have a child like you as a son..

Your father is lucky to marry a woman who he loves as a wife.

And your mother is lucky to have a husband who sincerely cares for her as a husband.

UNFORTUNATELY, THOSE DAYS ARE OVER

THE CROP OF GIRLS WE HAVE THESE DAYS WILL ABADON YOU FOR ANOTHER MAN AT THE SIGHT OF TROUBLE

THERE WILL EVEN ABADON YOU EVEN IF THERE IS NO TROUBLE

YOUR PARENTS WERE FORTUNATE TO LIVE IN THE ERA THEY DID

IN THIS ERA, MARRIAGE IS A BURDEN TO TIE PEOPLE DOWN.

PEOPLE WHO PREFER TO BE LOSE AND WILD ESPECIALLY WOMEN.

Goodlyhrt:
The reigning gospel now is that of priding in singlehood.

People preach it everywhere they could and are busy shaming other people who are married or in a committed relationship.

But Listen.. if you will. There is no gain saying that being single is disadvantageous at the long run because, who will be there for you when some types of situation arises?

I have been with my mother who is suffering from partial stroke since January this year. I forsook all my other endeavors just to be with her and provide the needed support.

I child you not, what I have passed through this past few months just because of my mother can never be bought with money.

There are times in life that people you call you friends or acquaintance can not fill a certain role. That role solely belongs to a blood relative.

My dad had to sell lands and other properties just because of my mum's case. Which other person or persons can possibly make these sacrifices for her except her blood relations.

You are right o... but

MARRIAGE IS ONLY BEAUTIFUL AND USEFUL WHEN IT IS RIGHT, BUT A CURSE WHEN IT IS WRONG.

WHATEVER YOU DO IN LIFE EVEN IF YOU FAIL ALL YOUR LIFE, JUST GET MARRIAGE RIGHT.......... and 70% of your problems are over.

YOUR PARENT'S TIME HAS PASSED, WE ARE IN A NEW GENERATION NOW..... So if you apply the old ways of your parents, you will suffer and regret being married.


ALWAYS KNOW THIS........... your EXPERIENCE is a personal stuff, and it can not be used for EVERYONE.

Do you also know that LEAVING ALL YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR MOM is also not the best?
It probably is OKAY because you have a good heart BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS, YOU ARE BROKE....... IF YOU REALLY HAD A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND MONEY, you would fly her abroad for treatment or bring her to your own house and employ special doctors to help her.


IN THIS LIFE, WHATEVER YOU DO, SINGLE OR MARRIED.............. have money... HAVE MONEY. And you will not suffer many things.

YOU HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF MARRYING THE BEST OF LADIES(who have character and beauty) once you have MONEY.

winning in LIFE keeps you MENTALLY HEALTHY
loosing consistently or being delayed in struggles can actually DAMAGE your mental health and affect your approach to life as an adult.

Be wise to know, NOT EVERYONE IS CALLED TO MARRIAGE, after death, there are no spouses on the other side.

YOU SPOKE OF HELPS AT OLD AGE......... if your parents were rich, they could have adopted many other children and right now they would have so much help and it will also keep them young.
Anyway you are doing a great job with your mum...... MAY GOD BLESS YOU MORE

blackpanthar:


You are right o... but

MARRIAGE IS ONLY BEAUTIFUL AND USEFUL WHEN IT IS RIGHT, BUT A CURSE WHEN IT IS WRONG.

WHATEVER YOU DO IN LIFE EVEN IF YOU FAIL ALL YOUR LIFE, JUST GET MARRIAGE RIGHT.......... and 70% of your problems are over.

YOUR PARENT'S TIME HAS PASSED, WE ARE IN A NEW GENERATION NOW..... So if you apply the old ways of your parents, you will suffer and regret being married.


ALWAYS KNOW THIS........... your EXPERIENCE is a personal stuff, and it can not be used for EVERYONE.

Do you also know that LEAVING ALL YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR MOM is also not the best?
It probably is OKAY because you have a good heart BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS, YOU ARE BROKE....... IF YOU REALLY HAD A SUCCESSFUL LIFE AND MONEY, you would fly her abroad for treatment or bring her to your own house and employ special doctors to help her.


IN THIS LIFE, WHATEVER YOU DO, SINGLE OR MARRIED.............. have money... HAVE MONEY. And you will not suffer many things.

YOU HAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF MARRYING THE BEST OF LADIES(who have character and beauty) once you have MONEY.

winning in LIFE keeps you MENTALLY HEALTHY
loosing consistently or being delayed in struggles can actually DAMAGE your mental health and affect your approach to life as an adult.

Be wise to know, NOT EVERYONE IS CALLED TO MARRIAGE, after death, there are no spouses on the other side.

YOU SPOKE OF HELPS AT OLD AGE......... if your parents were rich, they could have adopted many other children and right now they would have so much help and it will also keep them young.
Anyway you are doing a great job with your mum...... MAY GOD BLESS YOU MORE

Whether rich or poor. There are some roles only your blood line can perform. My example is just one of them roles and there are several other instances though

Kindly name 5 things men should look forward to in a relationship/marriage dating the avg woman in Naij.

The amount of single babes go too boku for this generation. Most men have seen the light

Men are now awake oo..
Truly,the eaths consciousness has shifted..

If you are a woman,hustle oo..
Men are not helping vvomen freely again oo.
You girls won't find escape route via marriage again oo..
I just dey tell you update..

We are no equal..
Una go experience the same pressure men bn dey experience all these yrs😹

Goodlyhrt:
The reigning gospel now is that of priding in singlehood.

People preach it everywhere they could and are busy shaming other people who are married or in a committed relationship.

But Listen.. if you will. There is no gain saying that being single is disadvantageous at the long run because, who will be there for you when some types of situation arises?

I have been with my mother who is suffering from partial stroke since January this year. I forsook all my other endeavors just to be with her and provide the needed support.

I child you not, what I have passed through this past few months just because of my mother can never be bought with money.

There are times in life that people you call you friends or acquaintance can not fill a certain role. That role solely belongs to a blood relative.

My dad had to sell lands and other properties just because of my mum's case. Which other person or persons can possibly make these sacrifices for her except her blood relations.

because you are a poor man.

Now tell me, if you are the CEO of a multi-million company, or a bank manager, would you leave your work to be taking care of your mum, or instead fly her abroad for treatment and hire a house help to be taking care of her

Op try and make money, and this your mentality will change.

Its good to have children, but pray for your children not to be poor or struggling when you start having health issues, or else.....you will end up making their lives miserable.

When my mum had stroke due to high BP, she told us her children that she doesn't want us to suffer to take care of her condition (since we were not yet financially stable then). Maybe thats why she died earlier.

Uchesis:


because you are a poor man.

Now tell me, if you are the CEO of a multi-million company, or a bank manager, would you leave your work to be taking care of your mum, or instead fly her abroad for treatment and hire a house help to be taking care of her

Op try and make money, and this your mentality will change.

Its good to have children, but pray for your children not to be poor or struggling when you start having health issues, or else.....you will end up making their lives miserable.

When my mum had stroke due to high BP, she told us her children that she doesn't want us to suffer to take care of her condition (since we were not yet financially stable then). Maybe thats why she died earlier.

of recent we all saw how our Nigerian senator Ekweremadu got involved in a hot mess of organ trafficking because of fending for a beloved family member. We are talking about a Nigerian SINator if you know what I mean. With all the billions he still had to sacrifice his time, comfort, and reputation just to save his beloved daughter.

Maybe he must have employed all the aid in the world but still at the end of the day still caught on a crossfire.

To tell you that there are some times you can't delegate everything or can't buy everything with money especially issues of blood relation.

Goodlyhrt:
of recent we all saw how our Nigerian senator Ekweremadu got involved in a hot mess of organ trafficking because of fending for a beloved family member. We are talking about a Nigerian SINator if you know what I mean. With all the billions he still had to sacrifice his time, comfort, and reputation just to save his beloved daughter.

Maybe he must have employed all the aid in the world but still at the end of the day still caught on a crossfire.

To tell you that there are some times you can't delegate everything or can't buy everything with money especially issues of blood relation.

Ekweremadu wasn't arrssted till he stepped foot in the Uk. If he had remained in Nigeria nothing would have happened to him.

I thought the topic is about your children taking care of you and not the other way round

Uchesis:


Ekweremadu wasn't arrssted till he stepped foot in the Uk. If he had remained in Nigeria nothing would have happened to him.

I thought the topic is about your children taking care of you and not the other way round

Yes, your spouse too.. having few that can go the extra mile for you without getting induced with money is so undervalued by this generation.