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How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by dre11(m): 11:09am On Sep 29
By Makua Ubanagu




A Nigerian woman has narrated how her boyfriend, said to be a lecturer at Auchi Polytechnic in Edo State abandoned her with a twin pregnancy after securing his visa to the United Kingdom.

The yet-to-be-identified woman, who shared her story on Saturday via social media under the handle #dat_edogirl, revealed the details of her ordeal.

In a series of posts, she recounted how she met the lecturer in mid-2019 and fell in love, believing they had a future together.

“He told me about his plans to travel outside the country where his elder brother was,” she wrote, adding that when they met, he expressed his dissatisfaction with his lecturing job at Auchi Polytechnic, saying he was seeking greener pastures abroad.

By 2022, the lecturer informed her that his visa had been approved, and while she was initially thrilled for him, the joy quickly turned to sorrow when she discovered she was pregnant.

When I told him about the pregnancy, he said he wouldn’t advise me to keep it because he was traveling and wasn’t ready to be a father,” she recounted.

Despite the potential risks to her life, he pushed her to terminate the pregnancy, even suggesting the use of pills.

“I just told him I wasn’t ready to lose my life,
” she added.

Unknown to her at the time, she was carrying twins. Throughout her difficult pregnancy, the lecturer completely cut off contact.

This guy never called, even once, or replied to my WhatsApp messages,” she wrote, adding that her nine-month journey was filled with sickness, and she was frequently hospitalised.

The twins were eventually born through a Caesarean Section, with one of the babies placed on oxygen due to complications.

Even after sharing the news of the birth, the father remained unresponsive.

I did a video with my phone and sent it on WhatsApp to Kola, still he didn’t reply, she added.

The financial strain soon became overwhelming as her family struggled to pay the hospital bills.

“My mum was running helter-skelter just to source funds,” she wrote, with the final bill amounting to N233,000.

After being discharged, she continued to care for the children alone.

“I named my children myself, did everything myself; he didn’t care or show interest,” she lamented.

Reaching out to his family also proved fruitless, as his brother in Nigeria blocked her after promising to speak with him.

The situation worsened when she travelled to Ondo State to confront his family. She borrowed money from a loan app to make the journey with her mother and children.

Upon arrival, the lecturer’s brother intercepted them at the gate of Adeyemi College of Education and took them elsewhere to avoid creating a scene.

When they eventually spoke with the father, he refused to accept responsibility.

He insulted me and my family to the extent I started crying,” she said, devastated by the verbal abuse.

She blocked his number and finally decided to share her story publicly, appealing for help.

“Please if you know his family in Ondo, kindly help me reach out to them. The economy is hard, feeding, clothing, and the kids need to go to school,” she wrote.

She added, “I am not interested in marrying Kola or having any relationship with him… I just want my kids taken care of.”

Meanwhile, social media users have gone out for her by donating money to support her children.

In a late post on Saturday, she wrote, “I want to thank you all for all the support so far. God will bless you all… you all will never lack. I have gotten N5m so far.. thank you all so much my children and I are grateful.”

https://punchng.com/how-my-edo-poly-lecturer-left-me-with-twin-pregnancy-to-japa/?amp

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by chukwuibuipob: 11:10am On Sep 29
sad ONDO EGIN, EKIMOGUN. OBULA MEJI S"OJU SEYE..The Ondo i knw doesn't support Evil/wickedness.Make una come help this twins mother sad

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by AllBlack: 11:20am On Sep 29
Hahahahahahahaha funny babe

he tell you? abi he no tell you?

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by chukwuibuipob: 11:22am On Sep 29
sad Some peepz deliberately spread their legs wide apart to collect yogurt and trap unprepared/jobless man.Some gave birth to sorrow.No wonder,you see touts disturbing our peace

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by TinubuCriminal(f): 11:25am On Sep 29
Every woman's dream is to be used and dumped

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by bluepreek(m): 11:58am On Sep 29
Serves her right.....there must have been responsible young men asking her out but since she was eating students blocking money,her sense of reasoning was automatically and systemically blocked as well,so she couldn't detect whether she was being used or not angry

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by ojun50(m): 12:11pm On Sep 29
Op

Include the husband picture too, no be X you copy the story

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Atuero(m): 12:33pm On Sep 29
Na wa ooooo
5M gotten already?


Na to fabricate my own sorrowful story go drop for X to cash out be the new format

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Lalami3232(m): 1:24pm On Sep 29
grin
Do you know why there was little or no single mothers in the time of our forefathers? It was because the women then knew how to close legs. They won't open legs because of gifts, neither will they open it because of iPhone or shawarma. But today, the reverse is the case.
People are more pained when they lost their headset than virginity. People have come up with useless quotes of "her past doesn't matter". People have come out with baseless theory of non-virgins will be more faithful because they've seen it all.
Now let's analyze this together.
Do you crave for Japanese or Korean food? I guess NO. Do you know why? It's because you haven't eaten them before. But if you eat those food for 5-10yrs consistently like our non-virgins take gbola consistently, you will have craving for such kinds of food.
Like I will always say, a fairly used product can never be compared to a new one. It's left for you to decipher the meaning from the proverb.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Quelme: 3:16pm On Sep 29
Probably those kids are a product of sex for grades...

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by dkidd: 3:42pm On Sep 29
First of all the Op must u emphasize on the state or ethnicity of the guy? Meanwhile for the lady looking for sympathizers, a guy told u his dreams and plans to make a better man out of himself and all u could come up with is the old trick of trapping a nigga down with babies Really Even though the idiot refused to use protection were u thinking he was hustling visa for both of u? Oh u definitely had plans of tagging along but then guess the guy was too focused on the mission ahead. It's only sad because u have involved innocent lives into this mix and please when u talk about about their daddy to them in future which u most likely will, also explain to them how their daddy had big dreams and plans and actually worked towards achieving them and how u single handedly tried to ruin it for him but he had to leave to pursue his dreams. Pray for him to be better and he will surely come back for u except no be him get those kids. For him to tell u at all of his traveling plans shows he rates u and had nothing to hide but I guess ur the one with a sinister motive and if him want release akamu u go dey use legs dey trap am inside like crab when hold food... see the result now?

Wow... I been no read am finish sha but the guy for no treat her like that though even if he's not sure of the paternity just do what u can. At least she didn't stop ur movement. That's sad. Lol some even see who stand by them but them dey mumu find how to run away with baby. Madam pray for mercy God will see u through if not for anything but for the sake of those two blessings. And she sounds like a good girl who made some wrong choices. Well what do I know she might be the tiger forming good because she needs help but even at that the guy no for deny her and the kids.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by SlavaUkraini: 5:57pm On Sep 29
Trust me, that guy will come looking for those kids tomorrow.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by saphiere(f): 5:58pm On Sep 29
I have never seen irresponsible beings like this gender before. My business with them was over years ago.

BTW: Any lady that loves and supports VDM is very useless and lack self-esteem.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Godwin4444: 5:58pm On Sep 29
A fool looking for sympathy, someone already tell him your plans n he made it clear he doesn't need a baby but ur long throat made u feel u can tie him down

I don't pity people like this

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by femi4: 6:00pm On Sep 29

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by BannedUser: 6:00pm On Sep 29
Why is Punch twisting this story? This is what she said on Twitter:

"In 2022, he told me his visa was out; I was very happy for him, so I asked him about his plans towards me. He did the usual sweet-talking, saying he was never going to forget me, bla bla. It was during this period I found out I was pregnant. When I told him about the pregnancy, he said he wouldn't advise me to keep it because he was traveling and also wasn't ready to be a father..."

She tried to tie him to herself with the pregnancy but she failed. How did she suddenly become pregnant when she became aware that he was traveling abroad?

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by JovialJune(f): 6:00pm On Sep 29
So many evil men these days, later they will come up with one sob story when the twins are adults that it was their mother that bla bla bla,

Even if the idiot man cannot marry her, at least acknowledge the kids and let his family know them then take care of them, that's not too much to ask but no, even his siblings supported him and are evil to her,

Thanks to twitter folks that helped her, she got more than 5m yesterday, I'm so happy for her.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Zooposki(f): 6:00pm On Sep 29
Women, hope you are paying attention o. Not one word of empathy and encouragement to the woman. All blaming and insulting her.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Softmirror: 6:00pm On Sep 29
The Evil that men do. You better thank God that he didn't kill you for rituals.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Baronthecelebri: 6:00pm On Sep 29
Good for her

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Lumig: 6:01pm On Sep 29
The wages of promiscuity and gold digging

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by faceland: 6:01pm On Sep 29
He better send some Pounds and Euros.

Due to exchange rate, he can still be a responsible father to his offspring (just not a responsible/committed lover).

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by motionarena: 6:02pm On Sep 29
Dem send you to school to study books
You go dey study lecturer Gbola

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Glimpsetv: 6:02pm On Sep 29
Sorry
Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by BigBrother9ja: 6:03pm On Sep 29
Maybe she was never loyal when they were together...

Maybe her hole was a public toilet and the guy only took his own sh*t too...


Maybe he knew other guys were knacking her and he didn't care...

MOST OLOSHO GIRLS OF THIS GENERATION WILL ALWAYS TIE PREGNANCY TO THE GUY WHO THEY THINK IS MORE RESPONSIBLE AND CAN FOOT THEIR BILLS, EVEN THOUGH THEY'LL NEVER BE LOYAL AND COMMITTED TO HIM ALONE.
THEY'LL SIMULTANEOUSLY SLEEP WITH DIFFERENT GUYS AND STILL BLAME YOU FOR CHEATING AND NOT BEING SERIOUS WITH THE RELATIONSHIP.


Most guys knows this and will deal with you whenever they can or have the UPPER HAND cool cool cool

WE CAN PLAY ALONG AND ACT LIKE WE TOLERATE YOU, BUT WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU CHEATING cool cool cool

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Squirrel1(m): 6:03pm On Sep 29
The lady shoulda ought to use protection and not allow herself become pregnant.

However I'm very sure the guy sweet mouthed her until she opened her legs multiple times and then ended up with twins.

The lady was naive to be fucking around and the guy is evil for suggesting she take the life of two innocent infants. What fukery?!

She should count her losses and move on. And for the lad, Kama go catch up with am of he doesn't come back to rectify what he messed up!

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by Ofunaofu: 6:04pm On Sep 29
grin
Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by bluestone2015: 6:04pm On Sep 29
?
TinubuCriminal:
Every woman's dream is to be used and dumped
Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by JovialJune(f): 6:05pm On Sep 29
Baronthecelebri:
Good for her


Stupid.
Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by JovialJune(f): 6:05pm On Sep 29
TinubuCriminal:
Every woman's dream is to be used and dumped

Your mother must have been one

Product of a dysfunctional upbringing.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by faceland: 6:06pm On Sep 29
Baronthecelebri:
Good for her

It seems she tried to hook him with pregnancy.

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Re: How My Edo Poly Lecturer Boyfriend Left Me With Twin Pregnancy To ‘japa’ by JovialJune(f): 6:06pm On Sep 29
faceland:


It seems she tried to hook him with pregnancy.

How can a lady hook him with pregnancy when they both had unprotected sex?

This is the 21st century, adult men should be thinking maturely and logically not this type of daft statement.

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