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Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 6:19am On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:


My husband did not take her in..he spoke with her at the door..she gave him the food at the workplace
unre saying two different tins mama.

She gave ur husband food at the entrance. Ur husband did not let her in and u said it happened at the work place, if it happened at the work place then ur husband would have let her in cus it's at the work place.

But initially, u said she took the food to the home of ur oga and ur oga didn't let her in, so I asked, how did she know ur oga house??

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Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by JONSYN7154: 7:06am On Oct 01
Nazgul:

Why can't he just fire her. I mean with all the things you said about her, he'll have more than a thousand reasons to do so.

For him to still keep her despite her nonchalant attitude towards the job which she's being paid to do shows that even though he might not admit it, he's clearly into her. That's definitely something going on between them that you're not yet aware of.

I'm sure if it was a male employee who was guilty of all these, be would have been laid off a long time ago.
You nailed it.
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 12:23pm On Oct 01
OlawaleBammie:
unre saying two different tins mama.

She gave ur husband food at the entrance. Ur husband did not let her in and u said it happened at the work place, if it happened at the work place then ur husband would have let her in cus it's at the work place.

But initially, u said she took the food to the home of ur oga and ur oga didn't let her in, so I asked, how did she know ur oga house??

The food was at work
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 1:55pm On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:


The food was at work
U said she took it to him at home na...madam seems ur story is fake then, cus u re heavily contradicting urself. We re not fuuls here please.


No be u say d girl took the food to him at home but denied her entrance??

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Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 2:47pm On Oct 01
OlawaleBammie:
U said she took it to him at home na...madam seems ur story is fake then, cus u re heavily contradicting urself. We re not fuuls here please.


No be u say d girl took the food to him at home but denied her entrance??

Quote where I said that
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 2:55pm On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:
There is a lady in my husband's office. She is undisciplined. My husband managed her for long. Always late to work, challenges authority, misses work with excuse duties.

Her work relationship with my husband the boss wasn't good because of her indiscipline. Eventually, she sent a colleague to speak with my husband. My husband said she had no personal issues with her only she must be committed to work. She feigned some remorse and began doing right.

After this, she tried seducing my husband. She would gaze at him, tap him, bring him food, go to his house uninvited (my husband would not let her in) etc. My husband didn't fall for her. Then she began the misconducts again and now aspersing that my husband was rather into her. My husband reported all these actions to his supervisors.

Now here is the thing:

Three different people who my husband hasn't discussed the matter with, have walked to my husband to tell him that the lady is a witch sent specifically to sleep with him and destroy him. Three different people. What should my husband do about this?

My husband is not interested in her. I know this as a fact. And has never done anything with her.

Mods, please this is a serious issue ongoing, kindly frontpage for urgent assistance. Thank you.

Preciousgirl:


Quote where I said that

Madam check the emboldened at the upper post.

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Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 4:00pm On Oct 01
OlawaleBammie:




Madam check the emboldened at the upper post.

Read that whole line again. Your problem is Grammar
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by benqo01(m): 5:07pm On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:
There is a lady in my husband's office. She is undisciplined. My husband managed her for long. Always late to work, challenges authority, misses work with excuse duties.

Her work relationship with my husband the boss wasn't good because of her indiscipline. Eventually, she sent a colleague to speak with my husband. My husband said she had no personal issues with her only she must be committed to work. She feigned some remorse and began doing right.

After this, she tried seducing my husband. She would gaze at him, tap him, bring him food, go to his house uninvited (my husband would not let her in) etc. My husband didn't fall for her. Then she began the misconducts again and now aspersing that my husband was rather into her. My husband reported all these actions to his supervisors.

Now here is the thing:

Three different people who my husband hasn't discussed the matter with, have walked to my husband to tell him that the lady is a witch sent specifically to sleep with him and destroy him. Three different people. What should my husband do about this?

My husband is not interested in her. I know this as a fact. And has never done anything with her.

Mods, please this is a serious issue ongoing, kindly frontpage for urgent assistance. Thank you.


OP IF D REVELATION CAME FROM ONE PERSON DEY CAN BE DOUBT, BUT COMING FOR THREE PERSONS THAT SAYS ALOT .

MY ADVICE IS FOR YOUR HUSBAND TO RELIVE HER OF THAT JOB.
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 5:18pm On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:


Read that whole line again. Your problem is Grammar

So who went to meet person for house then??

Clarify.
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 7:24pm On Oct 01
benqo01:



OP IF D REVELATION CAME FROM ONE PERSON DEY CAN BE DOUBT, BUT COMING FOR THREE PERSONS THAT SAYS ALOT .

MY ADVICE IS FOR YOUR HUSBAND TO RELIVE HER OF THAT JOB.


The bus doesn't stop with him
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 7:25pm On Oct 01
OlawaleBammie:


So who went to meet person for house then??

Clarify.

Read the post well
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 8:54pm On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:
There is a lady in my husband's office. She is undisciplined. My husband managed her for long. Always late to work, challenges authority, misses work with excuse duties.

Her work relationship with my husband the boss wasn't good because of her indiscipline. Eventually, she sent a colleague to speak with my husband. My husband said she had no personal issues with her only she must be committed to work. She feigned some remorse and began doing right.

After this, she tried seducing my husband. She would gaze at him, tap him, bring him food, go to his house uninvited (my husband would not let her in) etc. My husband didn't fall for her. Then she began the misconducts again and now aspersing that my husband was rather into her. My husband reported all these actions to his supervisors.

Now here is the thing:

Three different people who my husband hasn't discussed the matter with, have walked to my husband to tell him that the lady is a witch sent specifically to sleep with him and destroy him. Three different people. What should my husband do about this?

My husband is not interested in her. I know this as a fact. And has never done anything with her.

Mods, please this is a serious issue ongoing, kindly frontpage for urgent assistance. Thank you.

Preciousgirl:


The bus doesn't stop with him

At the emboldened, the last time I checked, "his" as a pronoun is used for a male figure, and ur husband is the only male subject here.

So who went to ur husband house uninvited, and who showed the intruder the way to ur husband house to visit him uninvited??


Seems u don't understand the grammar by ursef.
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 9:05pm On Oct 01
OlawaleBammie:




At the emboldened, the last time I checked, "his" as a pronoun is used for a male figure, and ur husband is the only male subject here.

So who went to ur husband house uninvited, and who showed the intruder the way to ur husband house to visit him uninvited??


Seems u don't understand the grammar by ursef.

Read
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 11:57pm On Oct 01
Preciousgirl:


Read

I got you grin grin

But don't worry, uur husband is gone, I will be here to READ ur long epistle when he's finally caught, by then, I will READ grin

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Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by cobilak9: 1:14am On Oct 02
Your simple husband should sort himself out in a simple way!

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Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 7:42am On Oct 02
cobilak9:
Your simple husband should sort himself out in a simple way!

How?
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 7:42am On Oct 02
OlawaleBammie:


I got you grin grin

But don't worry, uur husband is gone, I will be here to READ ur long epistle when he's finally caught, by then, I will READ grin

How?
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by OlawaleBammie: 9:17am On Oct 02
Preciousgirl:


How?
Don't worry, u will know how when the tsunami hit you from behind grin

I will be here to READ
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by ritorio68: 9:27am On Oct 02
I'm really sorry you're both going through this difficult situation. Here are some steps your husband can take to handle it:

Document Everything: Keep records of all interactions with the lady, including dates, times, and what happened. Save any messages or emails related to her behavior.

Report to HR: Your husband should formally report her behavior to the Human Resources (HR) department. Provide them with the documentation you've gathered.

Set Clear Boundaries: He should continue to keep things professional and avoid any personal interactions with her outside of work tasks.

Seek Support: Talk to trusted colleagues or a supervisor about the situation. They can offer support and may help address the issue more effectively.

Avoid Confrontation: If she tries to approach him again, he should remain calm and not engage in any personal conversations. Stick to work-related topics.

Legal Advice: If the situation doesn't improve, consider seeking advice from a legal professional to understand his rights and options.

Stay Safe: If he feels threatened or unsafe at any point, he should inform security at work or contact the authorities.

Ignore Rumors: The comments from the three people about her being a witch are likely rumors or misunderstandings. Focus on the facts and what can be addressed through proper channels.

Take Care of Yourselves: Dealing with workplace issues can be stressful. Make sure both of you take time to relax and support each other during this time.

Remember, everyone deserves to work in a safe and respectful environment. Taking these steps can help address the problem effectively.
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 4:04pm On Oct 02
ritorio68:
I'm really sorry you're both going through this difficult situation. Here are some steps your husband can take to handle it:

Document Everything: Keep records of all interactions with the lady, including dates, times, and what happened. Save any messages or emails related to her behavior.

Report to HR: Your husband should formally report her behavior to the Human Resources (HR) department. Provide them with the documentation you've gathered.

Set Clear Boundaries: He should continue to keep things professional and avoid any personal interactions with her outside of work tasks.

Seek Support: Talk to trusted colleagues or a supervisor about the situation. They can offer support and may help address the issue more effectively.

Avoid Confrontation: If she tries to approach him again, he should remain calm and not engage in any personal conversations. Stick to work-related topics.

Legal Advice: If the situation doesn't improve, consider seeking advice from a legal professional to understand his rights and options.

Stay Safe: If he feels threatened or unsafe at any point, he should inform security at work or contact the authorities.

Ignore Rumors: The comments from the three people about her being a witch are likely rumors or misunderstandings. Focus on the facts and what can be addressed through proper channels.

Take Care of Yourselves: Dealing with workplace issues can be stressful. Make sure both of you take time to relax and support each other during this time.

Remember, everyone deserves to work in a safe and respectful environment. Taking these steps can help address the problem effectively.

Thank you
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by malaria(f): 8:08pm On Oct 02
Poster is the lady just a junior colleague or she is working for your husband? You said your husband is the boss meaning he has authority over the lady In the office. He should exercise his authority period . Unless there is something else bewteen them, even if there is, your hubby should know business comes first before pleasure so he should do the needful
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 8:10pm On Oct 02
malaria:
Poster is the lady just a junior colleague or she is working for your husband? You said your husband is the boss meaning he has authority over the lady In the office. He should exercise his authority period . Unless there is something else bewteen them, even if there is, your hubby should know business comes first before pleasure so he should do the needful

He doesn't have the final authority
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by malaria(f): 8:17pm On Oct 02
Preciousgirl:


He doesn't have the final authority
That means she has something to do with the final authority because I see no reason a company can keep such person with them . She is not there to work , she is there for something else.
Re: Those With Spiritual Eyes, Please Share Your Thoughts On This Matter by Preciousgirl(f): 9:35pm On Oct 02
malaria:

That means she has something to do with the final authority because I see no reason a company can keep such person with them . She is not there to work , she is there for something else.

It is obvious

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