helinues:
The issue with some guys regarding relationship with ladies is Sex.

If you don't talk anything about sex from onset, the ladies won't dare to bill you and also treat you different from other guys

I don't agree with this. Girls of today would bill you for just talking to them.

Let me share one experience with you. My browsing Sim card is on MTN beta talk. So whenever I recharge, I get bonus credits for up to 70k to make calls for 7 days.

There's this girl I met around August at a mall. We've officially met just once after that day at the mall. So whenever I get this bonus credit I just call people to try to exhaust it before it expires. (although I've never been lucky enough to exhaust it tho)

So I noticed that whenever I call this girl, she'll try to emotionally blackmail me into sending her money. Maybe because I do call her for long. She'll be like ok just send me 5k let me use it for dinner. How can you feel comfortable knowing that I haven't eaten since morning. Please I don't have strength to talk bye bye.

This is someone I've officially met just once o. Most times we'll literally start quarreling because of it. With time I just blocked her number and deleted it.

Most girls these days don't need you to have sex with them before they bill you. No thanks to the economy. Once you show some level of seriousness towards them, they won't hesitate to try to emotionally blackmail you into giving them money.

Nazgul:

I don't agree with this. Girls of today would bill you for just talking to them.

Let me share one experience with you. My browsing Sim card is on MTN beta talk. So whenever I recharge, I get bonus credits for up to 70k to make calls for 7 days.

There's this girl I met around August at a mall. We've officially met just once after that day at the mall. So whenever I get this bonus credit I just call people to try to exhaust it before it expires. (although I've never been lucky enough to exhaust it tho)

So I noticed that whenever I call this girl, she'll try to emotionally blackmail me into sending her money. Maybe because I do call her for long. She'll be like ok just send me 5k let me use it for dinner. How can you feel comfortable knowing that I haven't eaten since morning. Please I don't have strength to talk bye bye.

This is someone I've officially met just once o. Most times we'll literally start quarreling because of it. With time I just blocked her number and deleted it.

Most girls these days don't need you to have sex with them before they bill you. No thanks to the economy. Once you show some level of seriousness towards them, they won't hesitate to try to emotionally blackmail you into giving them money.

Did you go to the mall to do shopping or just to meet random girls?

helinues:
Did you go to the mall to do shopping or just to meet random girls?

Was my quoting you about meeting girls or to prove you that a girl would bill you whether or not you're having sex with her?

Nazgul:

Was my quoting you about meeting girls or to prove you that a girl would bill you whether or not you're having sex with her?

Lol, so you don't know that mall , restaurants are hangouts for some ladies for hook ups.

Dizzyyish:


For the same reason that a girl who wants to f*ck right now would act offended if the guy told her "Let's go and f&ck." Saying it out loud makes her look like a slut in this instance. Women don't like hearing about their true nature---because they're naturally amoral the next best thing they can do is act moral. They don't like that straightforward honesty because it clashes with plausible deniability.

Plausible deniability and being disingenuous goes hand-in-hand. If she acknowledges your f&ck proposal then she's accountable for her actions afterwards, but if she follows you and "One thing just leads to another..." then she'll use that as an excuse to deceive others and convince herself that her actions were not of her doing.
If you tell her to "date other men so you can find the best that’s good for you," it's like saying "I see through you." She can't fully finesse you like she would a lover boy, so unless y'all are friends with benefits she go vex.

Always remember that women won't do anything that doesn't benefit them.

Yea they don't take blame. She told me she doesn't have gold circle. This was someone I since announced my coming over. When I agreed to go raw u could see the joy in her eyes. After releasing she pretended not to know and started telling me to pull out when about to release. I told her I already did then she formed vexation

After that experience she stopped using gold circle on me then our 4th raw meeting she was blaming me I don't like using gold circle again meanwhile she herself didn't make attempt to put one on me that I rejected

helinues:
The issue with some guys regarding relationship with ladies is Sex.

If you don't talk anything about sex from onset, the ladies won't dare to bill you and also treat you different from other guys

Lol this one na learner.. because you no talk sex, Dem no go com bill you .. dey play...

Dizzyyish:


For the same reason that a girl who wants to f*ck right now would act offended if the guy told her "Let's go and f&ck." Saying it out loud makes her look like a slut in this instance. Women don't like hearing about their true nature---because they're naturally amoral the next best thing they can do is act moral. They don't like that straightforward honesty because it clashes with plausible deniability.

Plausible deniability and being disingenuous goes hand-in-hand. If she acknowledges your f&ck proposal then she's accountable for her actions afterwards, but if she follows you and "One thing just leads to another..." then she'll use that as an excuse to deceive others and convince herself that her actions were not of her doing.
If you tell her to "date other men so you can find the best that’s good for you," it's like saying "I see through you." She can't fully finesse you like she would a lover boy, so unless y'all are friends with benefits she go vex.

Always remember that women won't do anything that doesn't benefit them.

Is there really a word like amoral

helinues:
Lol, so you don't know that mall , restaurants are hangouts for some ladies for hook ups.

So normal people don't go to the mall to shop. Is that what you're saying?

helinues:
The issue with some guys regarding relationship with ladies is Sex.

If you don't talk anything about sex from onset, the ladies won't dare to bill you and also treat you different from other guys

Sometimes U just don't make sense

So na until you follow woman talk sex matters before she go bill you....

Just like the saying...

.woman like you or not she wants money
..same as man like you or not ...he wants sex

Starz825:


Sometimes U just don't make sense

So na until you follow woman talk sex matters before she go bill you....

Just like the saying...

.woman like you or not she wants money
..same as man like you or not ...she wants sex

Did you say sometimes?this guy has NEVER MADE ANY SENSE in all his engagements I see so I am not surprised.