jennykadry:

Debrief where you dey since? I thought say your hubby don carry you go for 14th honeymoon, since he cannot take his hands off you.

chaircover:

@dyt unfortunately it doesn't work that way. You could be the most acrobatic wife on the planet but if the man thinks that his vows are unimportant and he can get away with it, he will do the unthinkable.

Ask some men why they have affairs and they cant even give an answer. If ones thinks about it how often do these randy husbands get to Be Intimate with their concubines anyway?
A girl bad enough who is knowingly prepared to have an affair with a married man is clever enough to only do it for the money and in exchange for the most  minimal body collateral on her part.

In the posters case, the husband goes for everything; married women, unmarried women, work colleagues etc.  Are we going to say that all these women give this man better quantity and quality sex than his wife at home?

She can stay married to him if she wants that is her choice but I wouldn't put my life at risk for a man who has no concern for my life. Its not just about the STD's but a raging jealous husband (he is sleeping-with married women too) is very dangerous and can do the unthinkable too.

There comes a time where sitting back and wringing ones hands & hoping the problem will just go away is not the solution and one has to be proactive
In many cases; not all, a man will treat you the way you allow yourself to be treated.



[i]I am glad you are seeing the light and am glad all my posts and lessons have not been in vain.
Just hope you will not contradict yourself on another thread.

@OP,
Men cheat all the time,learn to live with it and stop coming here when you have the itch to post BS.
We gave you advise on what to do the last time,apparently you did not take it!
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chaircover:

Haba can I hear a FULL amen please and if you don’t say it I will say it on your behalf . . . . .Me I have always wanted twins o!

Infact If I come back to this world again, one of the things on my list of “must have’s ” when looking for a man apart from his money is if lots of twins & triplets run in his family so I stand a better chance of having them

mutter:

If this girl wanted to make her peace with you why tell you about the other girls? She should have restricted herself to her own confession. I too believe she is trying to spite your husband.
Since you have accepted your husband as he is plead with him to use condoms, better still make sure he has a constant supply.

chaircover:

This is one of the reasons why I never understand women who fight their husbands concubines rather than facing and fighting their husbands. The husbands are ones who have violated their vows & betrayed the wife not the concubine.

Concubines are not affiliated to anyone; they are fair weather friends and if Some one else comes along tomorrow they are off. How many concubines do you see at hospitals looking after their sick married boyfriend while his wife is at home dancing yahozee?

Richvkunt:

^^^
Ronke,what the state House of Assembly has shown is that we all knew men are polygamous by nature,but we continued to delude ourselves with the bigamy law.
I bet other states will soon repudiate the law of bigamy and kick it to the kerb where it belongs!
The law is totally unAfrican and nobody was prosecuted under it!