A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

A submissive wife holds the true power in a family. When God created everything, He endowed each creature with the ability to defend itself.

Did you know that a zebra's kick can kill a lion? If a zebra stands its ground, faces a lion, and kicks it, that single blow can be fatal. The same goes for buffalo.

However, these animals often choose to run from lions, unaware of the incredible power they possess. The moment the lion catches them by the neck, they submit to their fate, not realizing their own strength.

In a similar vein, women often fail to recognize the immense power they hold when they embrace their femininity. Many women today are fixated on competing with men, striving for equality, and forgetting the quiet power that comes from their feminine energy.

There are things I do now that, if you had told me I would do them last year, I would have been in disbelief. My partner has subtly influenced me to act in ways I never thought possible, without even directly asking.

I do these things and then wonder how it happened. I pray that the men I mentor about being alpha males never find out, as it would seem as though I've become a "SIMP," unfit to lead them.

When a man marries a respectful and non-confrontational woman who does not diminish his masculinity or challenge his alpha traits, he will naturally let go of the defensive mechanisms he once used to guard against being controlled or disrespected.

Think about Delilah: if she had approached Samson with an aggressive or "iron-willed" attitude, would she have succeeded in bringing him down?

Absolutely not. Samson was a warrior, and any direct confrontation would have failed. The same applies to Solomon. If his wives had attempted to outwit him with logic or wisdom, they would have failed, as Solomon was renowned for his wisdom. Instead, these women employed their feminine energy to influence these great men.

If Solomon, one of the wisest men in history, could turn away from God to worship other deities under the influence of his wives’ feminine energy, it speaks volumes about its power.

This is how it works. You may be having an argument with your wife, feeling frustrated and ready to lash out. But before you can fully express your anger, she apologizes, diffusing the situation instantly. You are left without an outlet for your frustration, and the anger dissipates.

Or perhaps you tell her to be quiet during a conversation, and she obediently complies without protest. When you finish speaking and ask her why she isn’t responding, she calmly reminds you that you asked her to stay silent.

Suddenly, the tension vanishes, and you may even find yourself laughing at how respectful and compliant she was, despite your harsh command.

This is the essence of feminine energy: it disarms masculine aggression and creates harmony.

There is nothing stronger than feminine energy. It can soften even the toughest, hardest men, rendering them gentle and peaceful.

The only scenario in which a man can truly claim to be the head of the household is when he is married to a nagging wife. In this situation, the man knows that he has married a woman who behaves like another man.

As the saying goes, "two captains cannot steer the same ship." Thus, this man constantly asserts his dominance, reminding his wife that he is the head of the household.

He remains perpetually in his masculine energy, ready to suppress her disrespect and disloyalty, always prepared for a power struggle.

He may stay out late deliberately, returning home at 11 p.m. When his wife questions his tardiness, he responds angrily, “Why are you asking me? Am I not the man of this house? Is this not my house? Don’t I pay the rent?” They will argue, and he will assert his position as the "man of the house."

He will cheat and justify it by saying, “I am the man of the house.” In truth, the only family where the man is the head is the one where the wife refuses to be a wise and soft queen but insists on competing for kingship.

As I said earlier, a submissive wife is the true head of the family. Why? Because the respect she shows her husband causes him to protect and cherish it.

He will do whatever it takes to maintain that respect. When his friends invite him out after work, he will decline and head home.

Why? Because he enjoys the peace and companionship of his wife more than a night out with friends, where temptation might lead him astray and ruin the trust and respect between him and his wife.

Whenever his wife is upset, he will do whatever it takes to cheer her up. If she needs something, he will provide it, even if it means borrowing money.

Her happiness is tied to his sense of peace, and he will go to great lengths to preserve that balance. Anger can make a woman act irrationally, leading to the loss of respect, and for a man, losing respect is worse than losing affection.

In a family, the man is like the head, but the submissive woman is the neck. You cannot turn the head without turning the neck.

When a woman is submissive, the man becomes a ceremonial figurehead—the real power lies with the woman, and whatever she desires, she receives.

For example, let’s say your younger sister visits and, after a week, still hasn't contributed to the household chores.

One day, you come home from work, and although your wife greets you with a hug, she seems unusually sad. She serves your dinner and retreats to another room, her face turned away, silent and upset.

Sensing something is wrong, you ask her repeatedly what’s bothering her until she finally confides, “When is your sister leaving? She hasn’t lifted a finger since she arrived. She watches TV all day, and I don’t want it to seem like I’m pushing her out.”

With that, the message is clear, and you immediately tell your sister to either contribute in chores or leave. Why? Because you don’t want to lose the respect your wife holds for you.

Many people today believe that our mothers settled for less or didn’t know what they were doing. On the contrary, it’s the new generation of women who are not as wise as the women of old.

Our mothers understood the power of feminine energy, and they wielded it effectively, often without us realizing it. This energy, while gentle, is manipulative in its ability to get men to do anything.

Even today, some mothers try to use the same tactics on their sons’ marriages. A mother might remind her son of how she carried him for nine months and raised him, all in an attempt to control his decisions.

The women of old knew how to use their feminine power to subtly influence the men in their lives. They weren’t foolish for recognizing its strength.

It's the modern women who are missing out, blind to the power they have. Instead, they try to compete with men, adopting masculine energy and, in doing so, inadvertently diminish the potential influence they could have had.

This desire to project masculine energy leads men to ask, "What do you bring to the table?"—a question that never existed before.

Back then, a woman worked only if she wanted to. Today, men expect women to hustle and contribute financially, all because they are bringing masculine energy to the relationship just like a man.

If a woman chooses to embody masculine traits, she should be prepared for war. Men are built for conflict, and when confronted with masculinity in a woman, they will respond in kind, ready to prove their dominance.

However, when a woman taps into her feminine energy, men become calm, protective, and eager to guard her. This is why you’ll often see a strong, tough man dating a small, gentle woman.

He’s not looking for someone to match his strength; he’s seeking feminine energy, which brings respect and loyalty.

Many modern women mistake this dynamic for control, believing that a man wants a submissive woman just to dominate her as his slave.

They don’t realize that by embracing their femininity, they actually gain control over the man. He will worship her, and their marriage will endure far longer than those women trying to be "kings" like King Tonto Dikeh.

Where is King Tonto’s marriage today? Her future marriages will still end the same way except she switches to feminine energy. Even Blessing CEO confessed that she knows better now.

There was a day I went to buy fuel. The queue was long, filled with angry, muscular men (because the price of fuel has gone up) and some beautiful women.

Out of nowhere, a woman appeared, greeting everyone, “Good evening, brother. Good evening, sister.” She greeted the entire line and then humbly asked if she could buy fuel ahead of us because she was in a hurry.

Though there were other beautiful women in line, all the men let her go ahead. Only one man objected, but she had already won over 99% of us.

She bought her fuel, and even the men in line rebuked the one who refused her request. When she returned, she thanked him as well, showing grace even in the face of resistance.

I watched in awe as she used her feminine energy to win over a group of men and women. Meanwhile, the other pretty women in line complained,

“We’re women too! Why haven’t we been allowed to buy?” The men simply laughed and told them, “Not all women are the same.” This is the power of feminine energy.

If more women understood this power, they wouldn’t waste time trying to be "kings" like Tonto. When I see a woman with “king” in her title, I immediately know she doesn’t understand the power of being a queen. Even on a chessboard, the queen is the true powerhouse.

For so many years, one of the most powerful figures in the world was a queen—Queen Elizabeth. She commanded armies filled with strong men, and her empire colonized vast territories around the world.

A woman doesn't understand the power she holds when she fully embraces her feminine energy, and that’s why she finds herself competing with men.

Feminists, on a mission to dismantle marriages and relationships, preach equality, but in truth, there is no equality—you already hold the upper hand through your feminine energy.

If you truly knew the power of a queen, you wouldn’t waste time competing with a man or flaunting your intellect in debates. You certainly wouldn’t bother with titles like "King" to prove your strength.

Do you see? You have the power! When a submissive woman commands her husband, it may look like witchcraft, but it’s not. It’s simply the man responding to the pull of feminine energy.

This isn’t magic. It’s a man protecting his respect. Disrespect a man, and you bruise his ego—he’ll retaliate, often harshly, to prove his worth. But with feminine energy, you eliminate the need for conflict and violence.

Want to spice up the dynamic? Throw in a bit of playful stubbornness, then revert to your true feminine self. He’ll swoop you up from the kitchen and carry you to the bedroom, eager to remind you who’s boss in a loving way, you know what I mean. #Smile.

With feminine energy, he will confide in you about everything or most things. When a decision looms, you’ll be the first to know because he trusts your judgment, believing in the wisdom of your feminine insight. Even if he ends up not accepting your suggestion, at least he told you about it.

He might even tell his friends, “Let me ask my wife first,” leaving them baffled by his devotion. What they don’t understand is that he’s the king, but his queen’s opinion is invaluable.

I reiterate: in a household where the woman is submissive, she is the true head, even if the man appears to lead.

This kind of family will thrive because the woman’s gentle influence keeps everything balanced. But if you insist on asserting masculine energy, the marriage will falter, just like the beautiful King Tonto Dikeh’s own did because she wants to lead with masculine traits as if she's a man.

On the other hand, look at 2Baba’s wife, Annie Idibia—she isn't as beautiful as Tonto, but hers worked out. Annie understands the power of feminine energy, and 2Face cannot bear to lose the love and respect she has nurtured within their relationship for years despite him having access to lots of more beautiful and rich women.

This difference in approach tells you everything. The power does not lie in competing with men or proving oneself as their equal in strength. The power lies in understanding the potent influence of femininity, in being a queen rather than attempting to be a king.

In conclusion, the only home where the man is truly the head of the household is where he has married a nagging wife.

In homes where the woman is submissive, she is the true leader. The man may believe he holds the reins, but it is the woman’s quiet strength that keeps the family together.

Women, if you wish to have a lasting marriage and a happy home,

1. Look for a man that loves you (or at least likes or admires you and you do too).
2. And embrace your feminine energy.

Compete with your husband by trying to be more masculine, and you may see your marriage falter like King Tonto.

Take a lesson from the failed relationships of those who insisted on being "kings instead of queens." The real power lies in being a queen.

Have you found someone you want to date or marry? You know women love money and reading novels, right? Copy and send her the post. Tell her it's a short 5 minute novel.

Tell her after reading it, you'll ask her 20 questions from the novel and each one she gets, she'll get 1k and free massage. If she gets all 20, she gets 20k and 20 massages.

The money and massage is just an inducement to make her read it. You can remove the massage and only use money, if you want.

Check below and you'll see the questions.

What will this interaction do? It'll let her adjust her behavior towards you and become more feminine like Annie Idibia instead of exuding masculine energy like King Tonto Dikeh.

This, right there, is the secret marriages of our parents or grandparents lasted.

I managed to read the whole text even with little energy in me.

You are a gem. I just like to read your text.

I learnt that:
A submissive wife will always be the leader of a good head(husband) while a nagging wife will always bring out the true nature of a husband (masculinity of a husband).

Good read.

We stoop to conquer

20 Questions: A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

Here are 20 multiple-choice questions based on the write-up:

1. According to the text, what animal's kick can kill a lion?

A. Elephant
B. Zebra
C. Buffalo
D. Giraffe

2. What does the text suggest many women are fixated on today?

A. Embracing femininity
B. Competing with men
C. Raising children
D. Being submissive

3. What happens when a man marries a respectful and non-confrontational woman, according to the author?

A. He feels weak
B. He lets go of defensive mechanisms
C. He cheats on her
D. He asserts his dominance

4. Which biblical figure did Delilah bring down using her feminine energy?

A. David
B. Samson
C. Solomon
D. Moses

5. What does the text suggest a submissive wife is, in comparison to a man in the household?

A. The head
B. The neck
C. The servant
D. The king

6. When a wife apologizes during an argument, what effect does it have on her husband according to the write-up?

A. Increases his anger
B. Ends the argument peacefully
C. Makes him aggressive
D. Makes him distant

7. How does the author describe the power of feminine energy?

A. Weak
B. Strong but unnoticed
C. Powerful and manipulative
D. Controlling and forceful

8. What is the difference between a wife who competes with her husband and a submissive wife?

A. The submissive wife always loses
B. The competitive wife brings peace
C. The submissive wife holds quiet power
D. The competitive wife gets more respect

9. What does the author claim will happen when a man feels respected by his wife?

A. He will cheat
B. He will avoid her
C. He will prioritize her needs
D. He will become aggressive

10. According to the text, why did King Solomon turn away from God?

A. He was weak
B. He was misled by his wives’ feminine energy
C. He lacked wisdom
D. He was greedy for power

11. What do modern women often fail to realize, according to the write-up?

A. The strength of their masculine energy
B. The power of feminine energy
C. How to challenge men
D. How to compete effectively

12. In the story of the woman at the gas station, what did the men in line appreciate about her?

A. Her beauty
B. Her feminine energy and humility
C. Her assertiveness
D. Her wealth

13. According to the text, what question do men now ask due to women bringing masculine energy into relationships?

A. “How are you?”
B. “Where are you going?”
C. “What do you bring to the table?”
D. “Can I trust you?”

14. What does the author believe a man will do if confronted with masculinity in a woman?

A. Compromise
B. Protect her
C. Respond with conflict
D. Become gentle

15. What kind of woman does the author believe will fail in marriage, based on the example of King Tonto Dikeh?

A. A woman who competes with men
B. A submissive woman
C. A quiet and respectful woman
D. A woman who uses feminine energy

16. What does the text suggest men seek in relationships?

A. Masculine energy
B. Someone as strong as them
C. Feminine energy
D. Wealth

17. What advice does the text give to women who want to have lasting marriages?

A. Be a king in the relationship
B. Embrace their feminine energy
C. Compete financially
D. Be assertive and dominant

18. What analogy does the author use to describe the relationship between a man and a submissive woman in the household?

A. A king and a servant
B. A head and a neck
C. A leader and a follower
D. A warrior and a general

19. According to the text, why does a man prioritize coming home to a respectful wife?

A. He’s tired of working
B. He fears losing her respect
C. He enjoys controlling her
D. He doesn’t like his friends

20. What does the author suggest is a key to a woman gaining control over a man?

A. Dominating him
B. Competing with him
C. Submitting to him and using feminine energy
D. Confronting him frequently

PrinceDoctor:
We stoop to conquer

That's the came. Play a sucker to catch a sucker.

Not happening.....submissive sounds like death sentence to modern women....

Abeg ooo..u pple should stop teaching this women good things....let the vawulence continue abeg

iLegendd:
A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

If you understand ilegenddology, you'll silently devour this wisdom because in the nearest future, you will have to pay to gain access to it; especially in this "woke" era.

I was made to believe I was crazy but here is one of the greatest West Africans I know teaching people my default state of thought.

I literally collected a young girl's phone number this evening just because of her feminine energy, somehow my mother likes her. She once asked me if I liked the girl, I was surprised, my mother is finally becoming more open to topics like this.

Another crazy thing is, since I have realized how powerful this feminine energy can be, I'm always conscious so I don't become another Samson. Even my sisters that used to be so "aggressive" at times to me when we were kids, have now become angels when they're with me .

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The article or should I say book is so smooth, I like what you did boss.

Legend loud am gan. They don’t know. Loyalty and respect is as a result of submissiveness. This act can turn any man into a simp like they generally desire.

iLegendd:
20 Questions: A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

Here are 20 multiple-choice questions based on the write-up:

1. B (Zebra)
2. B (Competing with men)
3. B (He let's go of defense mechanism)
4. B (Samson)
5. B (Neck)
6. B (Ends the arguments peacefully)
7. B (Strong but unnoticed)
8. C (The submissive wife holds quiet power)
9. C (He will prioritize her needs,)
10. B (He was missed by his wives' feminine energy
11. B (The power of a feminine energy)
12. B (Her feminine energy and humility)
13. C "What do you bring to the table?" )
14. C (Respond with conflict)
15. A (A woman who competes with men)
16. C (Feminine energy)
17. B (Embrace their feminine energy)
18. B (A head and a neck)
19. B (He fears losing her respect)
20. C (Submitting to him and using feminine energy)


By the way, this does not mean you should tolerate a sadistic and wicked man!

You are right

Gold on nairaland for the female folks

iLegendd:
20 Questions: A Submissive Woman Is the True Head of the Family

Here are 20 multiple-choice questions based on the write-up:

1. According to the text, what animal's kick can kill a lion?

A. Elephant
B. Zebra
C. Buffalo
D. Giraffe

ans:B and C

2. What does the text suggest many women are fixated on today?

A. Embracing femininity
B. Competing with men
C. Raising children
D. Being submissive

ans: B

3. What happens when a man marries a respectful and non-confrontational woman, according to the author?

A. He feels weak
B. He lets go of defensive mechanisms
C. He cheats on her
D. He asserts his dominance

ans: B

4. Which biblical figure did Delilah bring down using her feminine energy?

A. David
B. Samson
C. Solomon
D. Moses

ans: B

5. What does the text suggest a submissive wife is, in comparison to a man in the household?

A. The head
B. The neck
C. The servant
D. The king

ans: B

6. When a wife apologizes during an argument, what effect does it have on her husband according to the write-up?

A. Increases his anger
B. Ends the argument peacefully
C. Makes him aggressive
D. Makes him distant

ans: B

7. How does the author describe the power of feminine energy?

A. Weak
B. Strong but unnoticed
C. Powerful and manipulative
D. Controlling and forceful

ans: C

8. What is the difference between a wife who competes with her husband and a submissive wife?

A. The submissive wife always loses
B. The competitive wife brings peace
C. The submissive wife holds quiet power
D. The competitive wife gets more respect

ans : C

9. What does the author claim will happen when a man feels respected by his wife?

A. He will cheat
B. He will avoid her
C. He will prioritize her needs
D. He will become aggressive

ans : C

10. According to the text, why did King Solomon turn away from God?

A. He was weak
B. He was misled by his wives’ feminine energy
C. He lacked wisdom
D. He was greedy for power

ans: B

11. What do modern women often fail to realize, according to the write-up?

A. The strength of their masculine energy
B. The power of feminine energy
C. How to challenge men
D. How to compete effectively

ans: B
12. In the story of the woman at the gas station, what did the men in line appreciate about her?

A. Her beauty
B. Her feminine energy and humility
C. Her assertiveness
D. Her wealth

ans ; B

13. According to the text, what question do men now ask due to women bringing masculine energy into relationships?

A. “How are you?”
B. “Where are you going?”
C. “What do you bring to the table?”
D. “Can I trust you?”

ans: C

14. What does the author believe a man will do if confronted with masculinity in a woman?

A. Compromise
B. Protect her
C. Respond with conflict
D. Become gentle

ans: C

15. What kind of woman does the author believe will fail in marriage, based on the example of King Tonto Dikeh?

A. A woman who competes with men
B. A submissive woman
C. A quiet and respectful woman
D. A woman who uses feminine energy

ans: A

16. What does the text suggest men seek in relationships?

A. Masculine energy
B. Someone as strong as them
C. Feminine energy
D. Wealth

ans : C

17. What advice does the text give to women who want to have lasting marriages?

A. Be a king in the relationship
B. Embrace their feminine energy
C. Compete financially
D. Be assertive and dominant

ans: B

18. What analogy does the author use to describe the relationship between a man and a submissive woman in the household?

A. A king and a servant
B. A head and a neck
C. A leader and a follower
D. A warrior and a general

ans : B

19. According to the text, why does a man prioritize coming home to a respectful wife?

A. He’s tired of working
B. He fears losing her respect
C. He enjoys controlling her
D. He doesn’t like his friends

ans: B

20. What does the author suggest is a key to a woman gaining control over a man?

A. Dominating him
B. Competing with him
C. Submitting to him and using feminine energy
D. Confronting him frequently

ans: C

omo e don tey o, the last time i did this was during my waec o, now na calculus and equations everywhere

This was lifted off a video ...

Y'all really should learn to accrue honor to intellectual properties ...

Fahvvy:


This was lifted off a video ...

Y'all really should learn to accrue honor to intellectual properties ...

Here is the main post: https://www.nairaland.com/8242459/before-date-marry-let-watch and everyone from the post already know I said I'll rewrite and repost it. No content is new—people narrate it in their own ways.