Emeskhalifa:


Wow really?

Aren't you the one with a foreign gig? (noise cancellation headphone, getting paid in dollars to write articles etc? Aren't you the one? How are you able to cope with being a proprietress??

Pochettino:


Source: PM News

cococandy:
The day you guys decide if you want traditional wives or modern wives is the day your problems will begin to be solved. Until then, revel in your confusion

Pochettino:
It is sad that we women don't want to provide. We just want to sit and collect yet we turn around and insult those men that struggle daily to meet our needs.

God bless Bovi.

We women should do better.

FatimaAbubakar:
In this present day Nigeria, investing in a girl who is not your wife, sister or mother is a sign of mental instability.

dominique:
But almost every corner I turn I see women hustling; white collar jobs, blue collar jobs, hawking under the sun, selling in shops or in the market. Where are they keeping all the money they're making if men are the sole providers as they claim? A lot of homes are being held together by the efforts of the wife, some wives are the sole providers yet cover up for the husband by saying he's the one providing. [b]Gow are they appreciated? [/b]Constant bickering, nagging and wailing by idiotic entitled men who believe women came to the world to please them. That's why I don't feel sorry for them anymore whenever they're given men's children as theirs, majority of them are useless and don't deserve any loyalty.

Tallesty1:
The comments on this post is disturbing, because Nigeria women with all their wahala have been running homes since the time of old. Our mothers invested all their money on us, like, we are their only retirement plan.

Nutridelfarms:
Women are generally stingy with their resources. As a man, do not pray to be in a situation where your wife is the provider or where you have to depend on your wife. It never ends well. Yes, there are exceptions no doubt but in a vast majority of cases, it'd not augur well. While I am not averse to women making own money, as a man, make sure you're constantly developing yourself so that you can be in a position where you never run out of money. Develop yourself to an extent where you can always provide value. What some men do is stop developing and prioritizing themselves and instead focus on their spouse. They prioritize the ambitions of their spouse. Some will even expend all their savings to sponsor their wife's ambitions all in the name of being woke. I have a friend who is earning moderate salary but is borrowing money everywhere including from me to fund his wife's master's program in the UK with the hope that when he gets to the UK, his wife will be the provider. Till today, he has failed to return the total amount he borrowed from me. I have made up my mind not to borrow him any dime as. I have dropped subtle hints to this guy just to make him realize the path he has chosen is risky and urge him to instead spend the money on himself to acquire advanced degree that might position him to earn more or relocate. but i guess love is blind and experience they say is the best teacher. Each time we talk, its always about what his good for his wife and never what is good for him. He will keep emphasizing on how his woman will take of the family when he gets there. I have rest my case. Different strokes for different folks. It may well turn out to be a good decision for him. Life's never a straight line. But that's a risk I personally will not take.

As African men, It is our pride to provide for our family and I wear that responsibility with pride, the same cannot be said of women. They are mostly selfish and stingy regardless of how rich they might be. Statistically speaking, most charity work is done by men.

Personally, I work really hard to make money and provide for my family. I also do not lose sight of taking care of myself while at it - very important.

dominique:
But almost every corner I turn I see women hustling; white collar jobs, blue collar jobs, hawking under the sun, selling in shops or in the market. Where are they keeping all the money they're making if men are the sole providers as they claim? A lot of homes are being held together by the efforts of the wife, some wives are the sole providers yet cover up for the husband by saying he's the one providing. Gow are they appreciated? Constant bickering, nagging and wailing by idiotic entitled men who believe women came to the world to please them. That's why I don't feel sorry for them anymore whenever they're given men's children as theirs, majority of them are useless and don't deserve any loyalty.

dominique:
But almost every corner I turn I see women hustling; white collar jobs, blue collar jobs, hawking under the sun, selling in shops or in the market. Where are they keeping all the money they're making if men are the sole providers as they claim? A lot of homes are being held together by the efforts of the wife, some wives are the sole providers yet cover up for the husband by saying he's the one providing. Gow are they appreciated? Constant bickering, nagging and wailing by idiotic entitled men who believe women came to the world to please them. That's why I don't feel sorry for them anymore whenever they're given men's children as theirs, majority of them are useless and don't deserve any loyalty.

Pochettino:


I'm a married school proprietress with a good marriage and children. I just feel hurt whenever I see my fellow women misbehaving.

We4all:


E be like say you dey find husband for this forum. Na boys full here oh!

Pochettino:


Source: PM News

Pochettino:
It is sad that we women don't want to provide. We just want to sit and collect yet we turn around and insult those men that struggle daily to meet our needs.

God bless Bovi.

We women should do better.

Pochettino:
It is sad that we women don't want to provide. We just want to sit and collect yet we turn around and insult those men that struggle daily to meet our needs.

God bless Bovi.

We women should do better.

ScarletBrace:


Looks like you have a scar from the past.
Unfortunately that scar is still speaking.
Don’t let it consume you. Seek help to heal fast.
Shalom.

1Sharon:


Bless your heart


That's a man like you with saggy hairy balls.

Tallesty1:
The comments on this post is disturbing, because Nigeria women with all their wahala have been running homes since the time of old. Our mothers invested all their money on us, like, we are their only retirement plan.

yomi531:
See talk. Is it the same Naija mothers that will buy Ordinary book and Pencil for her Child and, write it down. When Oga comes back , She collects her money back. Abeg leave story...

Shegzdave:

Tbh. E shock Me cause Nigerian women are hardworking everywhere you turn to these days

Tallesty1:
I didn't grow up in your family house

folake4u:


You are very rude. 😂😂😂

Tallesty1:
On Saturdays only 😂 😂

Pochettino:
It is sad that we women don't want to provide. We just want to sit and collect yet we turn around and insult those men that struggle daily to meet our needs.

God bless Bovi.

We women should do better.

dominique:
But almost every corner I turn I see women hustling; white collar jobs, blue collar jobs, hawking under the sun, selling in shops or in the market. Where are they keeping all the money they're making if men are the sole providers as they claim? A lot of homes are being held together by the efforts of the wife, some wives are the sole providers yet cover up for the husband by saying he's the one providing. Gow are they appreciated? Constant bickering, nagging and wailing by idiotic entitled men who believe women came to the world to please them. That's why I don't feel sorry for them anymore whenever they're given men's children as theirs, majority of them are useless and don't deserve any loyalty.

We4all aka ahnie:


E be like say you dey find husband for this forum.
Me I'm a single mother of 3 children looking for a partner too

Pochettino:
It is sad that we women don't want to provide. We just want to sit and collect yet we turn around and insult those men that struggle daily to meet our needs.

God bless Bovi.

We women should do better.