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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by olamilekan9(m): 4:30pm On Oct 27, 2024
Mindlog:


You are struggling financially but you thirst for high maintenance women.

Settle for who will not constantly trigger high blood pressure in you with constant pressure to live above your means.

Bro you and i know that in this part of the world no high class maintenance lady will ever settle for any struggling dude right? I swear this is a totally wrong preaching, belike say this pastor bolaji too na hustler las las

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Amfem: 4:36pm On Oct 27, 2024
The message is clear, understood and apt! Men of humble beginning who heed to this message will have sufficient peace of mind in the marriage.

Women are wired to demand and make requests from their husbands. The moment women are shouldering all the responsibilities at home, one would regret marrying.

Only a fractional part of women would live humbly and submissively to men who are highly financially rated.
There's more to marrying simple women who are easy to be maintained.

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by BigYash: 4:40pm On Oct 27, 2024
LordIsaac:
Some go start as your pocket size, then outgrow it when they become greedy and selfish. With a woman, you can never know!
Tell Pastor Idosco o. He might start with you to manage that pocket,but once with a nigga with Ghana must go loaded comes,if she doesn't cheat alone,she fit just file divorce.

The thing is basically for someone to find that woman that will appreciate your pocket for life.. In good and in bad times. But these days,ladies na money money o.

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Truths9ja: 4:40pm On Oct 27, 2024
Na the fact be this oooo. Marry the woman that your income can carry oooo

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Basiljoe: 4:55pm On Oct 27, 2024
Forget all this Nonsense inexperienced Nigerian pastors.

Swallow the Redpill. Try to understand women's mating strategy. Understand what is hypergamy. Read the rational male book series. Listen to Rollo tomassi's podcasts.

If the rational male is too complicated for you, read Richard Cooper's book "The Unplugged Alpha".

You will understand the feminine game and learn how to play it well. Your relationship with women should improve.
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by c900: 4:57pm On Oct 27, 2024
just marry. it may not work out as you think later, nothing is certain with women except them having kids.
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Odidigboigbo(m): 4:58pm On Oct 27, 2024
Ironfaceman:
grin I shame for Christian leaders the country is in war mode and this is what they can come up with by now like this I expect all general overseers to Chant Babylon Down 👇.
It wasn't as bad as this in sodom and gomorrah when Angel invaded the place. Oh Lord send Angels to arrest APC.
If you are a true Christian you would have known that Bible admonished believers against rebelling against authorities.
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 5:11pm On Oct 27, 2024
So because say I no get money, I go see white American girl, I no go marry am!!? Shey dem do me ni?
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Dharmiejoe(m): 5:18pm On Oct 27, 2024
Almunjid:
Pastors have stopped preaching against immorality and sin, and instead have started advising people to marry within their financial means. However, after giving such advice, they still ask for offerings and tithes from their congregation, making it seem like they're just saying what the congregation wants to hear in exchange for money. grin
Shattap! You only see flaws in pastors messages than value. No body put a gun in ur head to pay offering or tithe. It's ur choice
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by djon78(m): 5:22pm On Oct 27, 2024
If you want to last in this Life

No go do ojukokoro for marriage

Marry according to your level

But with the aim to brush her up as you grow

As you dey grow in person

Brush her up to what you want

Many Men have messed up there lives by carrying wetin pass them

No go Carry wetin pass you

In the end commit your moves concerning marriage to God

Help will be readily available

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by deardevil(m): 5:22pm On Oct 27, 2024
LordIsaac:
Some go start as your pocket size, then outgrow it when they become greedy and selfish. With a woman, you can never know!


So tru

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by RealityKings: 5:27pm On Oct 27, 2024
Pocket size keh... I'll rather bite more than I can chew
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by kabanayol9(m): 5:49pm On Oct 27, 2024
Future wifey, shey you dey hear, you don hear now, T-shirt we don marry.
We go just pick Monday morning for our wedding, time 6am, after like 20minutes, the deal is done, there is plenty to eat and enjoy after wedding sho gbo?
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Merry100: 6:27pm On Oct 27, 2024
Nitoriolohun1:
I can boldly tell you this is a wrong teaching.

What if she was your pocket size before the realities of life sets in?

What if she is your pocket size then suddenly she grows and become more financially viable?

It seems most people even some preachers dont know the basis of marriage according to God's standard.

A man needs marriage to seek help mate
A man needs marriage for companionship
God requires marriage so human race can continue through procreation

The Bible clearly states, A woman is created for the man . A woman is created as a result of a man's need and not vice versa

If all what it takes to chase a woman is your level of financial strength then everything is wrong

Charm is deceitful, beauty is vain but the woman that fears the lord is to be praised.

All that is required is the fear of the lord

Let's stop raising the generation of vipers (Jezebel)

Pastor bolajis teachings are apt but on this subject he needs to take time and let the holy spirit speak through him and not based on what is trending and logic.

May God bless all God's generals . Shalom !!!
You are just deceiving yourself with this write-up. There is a difference between the selection process and marriage itself; there is no Biblical basis for the selection process (mandatory). The Pastor only stated a standard; there are different standards people set when it comes to partner selection. Since Biblical times, marriage has been consensual. Both men and women have been setting standards and choosing whom they like.

God saw that man needed a companion and created woman. God did not create woman as robot or give her less body parts. Men and women are companions to one another. According to the Bible men and women are expected to be useful to one another. A wife is a help- mate, not a slave.

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Almunjid(m): 6:52pm On Oct 27, 2024
Dharmiejoe:
Shattap! You only see flaws in pastors messages than value. No body put a gun in ur head to pay offering or tithe. It's ur choice
I'm sorry if my words are upsetting, but many modern pastors are more like motivational speakers than traditional pastors, as they often focus on inspiring and uplifting their congregations rather than solely delivering religious teachings.

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by SAMBARRY: 7:05pm On Oct 27, 2024
Basiljoe:
Forget all this Nonsense inexperienced Nigerian pastors.

Swallow the Redpill. Try to understand women's mating strategy. Understand what is hypergamy. Read the rational male book series. Listen to Rollo tomassi's podcasts.

If the rational male is too complicated for you, read Richard Cooper's book "The Unplugged Alpha".

You will understand the feminine game and learn how to play it well. Your relationship with women should improve.
yinmu.dey play.just dey deceive yourself grin
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by jaxxy(m): 7:07pm On Oct 27, 2024
Truths9ja:
yes soooo. Cut your clothes according to your money in your pocket. Na fact Pastor Idowu said here

Is that biblical or his personal opinion? Is marriage based on pocket size only?

People who marry their pocket size don't have issues or divorce?

I call this a shallow man's mentally. If a couple have to reduce their relationship to pocket size alone.

So men who marry less than their pocket size are doing what? undecided

Some will say marry ur age mate or with no more than a certain age gap... all bullshit.

There are people who married their wives with little or nothing but they had a focus and direction and plan.

These motivational speakers in pastor cloak will say anything they feel like.

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Crafteck1: 7:14pm On Oct 27, 2024
Whats your advice for women
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Niceiroko: 7:45pm On Oct 27, 2024
Truths9ja Marry a woman that God accept for you:
Marry your pocket size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu advises men



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HooIVe95xM
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Niceiroko: 7:47pm On Oct 27, 2024
jaxxy:


Is that biblical or his personal opinion? Is marriage based on pocket size only?

People who marry their pocket size don't have issues or divorce?

I call this a shallow man's mentally. If a couple have ti reduce their relationship to pocket size alone.

So men who marry less than their pocket size are doing what? undecided

Some will say marry ur age mate or with no more than so age gap... all bullshit.

There are people who married their wives with little or nothing but they had a focus and direction and plan.

These motivational speakers in pastor cloak will say anything they feel like.

He is wrong I can advice that a man marry a woman God accept for him
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Merry100: 7:50pm On Oct 27, 2024
Itooweak4una:
What does this mean?

Is there a price tag on women that we're not aware of?
He is not even shading guys, he is just giving an advice. He means date a woman whose demands you can meet. She doesn't necessarily have to be of a lower status than you, as long as her demands are not higher than what you can afford.

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Sammy101111(m): 8:23pm On Oct 27, 2024
The pastor is trying to say marry a woman that your finances💰💰 can manage .
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Sammy101111(m): 8:24pm On Oct 27, 2024
The pastor is trying to say marry a woman that your finances💰💰 can manage .
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Sammy101111(m): 8:25pm On Oct 27, 2024
The pastor is saying marrying a woman you know can manage your financially balance
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Anatolia: 8:46pm On Oct 27, 2024
This is how these pastors encourage entitlement mentality among women. What does he mean by pocket size ?
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by vikstandon(m): 8:51pm On Oct 27, 2024
Truths9ja:
Marry your pocket size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu advises men



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HooIVe95xM


No fear in marriage. Go with your heart. The rich kids are cheaper to maintain. If you can surmon courage to approach them. The poor girls see marriage as alleviation from poverty.

Be careful you don't marry for affordability, make you no turn burden bearer!

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Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by Quebec91(m): 8:55pm On Oct 27, 2024
You said it all 👍
Nitoriolohun1:
I can boldly tell you this is a wrong teaching.

What if she was your pocket size before the realities of life sets in?

What if she is your pocket size then suddenly she grows and become more financially viable?

It seems most people even some preachers dont know the basis of marriage according to God's standard.

A man needs marriage to seek help mate
A man needs marriage for companionship
God requires marriage so human race can continue through procreation

The Bible clearly states, A woman is created for the man . A woman is created as a result of a man's need and not vice versa

If all what it takes to chase a woman is your level of financial strength then everything is wrong

Charm is deceitful, beauty is vain but the woman that fears the lord is to be praised.

All that is required is the fear of the lord

Let's stop raising the generation of vipers (Jezebel)

Pastor bolajis teachings are apt but on this subject he needs to take time and let the holy spirit speak through him and not based on what is trending and logic.

May God bless all God's generals . Shalom !!!
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by randymirrors(f): 12:24am On Oct 28, 2024
Mindlog:


You are struggling financially but you thirst for high maintenance women.

Settle for who will not constantly trigger high blood pressure in you with constant pressure to live above your means.

But why do men exaggerate their financial worth to a woman they fancy and wish to marry?
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by randymirrors(f): 12:28am On Oct 28, 2024
jaxxy:


Is that biblical or his personal opinion? Is marriage based on pocket size only?

People who marry their pocket size don't have issues or divorce?

I call this a shallow man's mentally. If a couple have to reduce their relationship to pocket size alone.


If she ticks all or most of your boxes, consider your pocket size as well. That's what he's saying but people like you love to exaggerate simple meanings. You understand but pretend not to.
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by randymirrors(f): 12:31am On Oct 28, 2024
olamilekan9:


Bro you and i know that in this part of the world no high class maintenance lady will ever settle for any struggling dude right? I swear this is a totally wrong preaching, belike say this pastor bolaji too na hustler las las

It's not black and white. "Maintenance", "Level" "Size"...are all on different spectrums, just as there are different levels of rich and poor.
Re: Marry Your Pocket Size — Pastor Bolaji Idowu Advises Men(vid,pix) by micxwell(m): 12:32am On Oct 28, 2024
Nitoriolohun1:
I can boldly tell you this is a wrong teaching.

What if she was your pocket size before the realities of life sets in?

What if she is your pocket size then suddenly she grows and become more financially viable?

It seems most people even some preachers dont know the basis of marriage according to God's standard.

A man needs marriage to seek help mate
A man needs marriage for companionship
God requires marriage so human race can continue through procreation

The Bible clearly states, A woman is created for the man . A woman is created as a result of a man's need and not vice versa

If all what it takes to chase a woman is your level of financial strength then everything is wrong

Charm is deceitful, beauty is vain but the woman that fears the lord is to be praised.

All that is required is the fear of the lord

Let's stop raising the generation of vipers (Jezebel)

Pastor bolajis teachings are apt but on this subject he needs to take time and let the holy spirit speak through him and not based on what is trending and logic.

May God bless all God's generals . Shalom !!!
I blame all the folks liking your posts. This is just one point out of a whole series, and you wrote this long epistle 🤷

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