Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for prick and toto matter.

She is closer to the guy than you are. Know your place. He is the one piping her steady and cumming inside of her .

I have few questions to ask before I can be able to analyze the solution for you.
1. Why don't you want your sister to get married to the guy? I believe there's something you're not telling us.
2. Looking at the guy, does he look like someone who has prospect/bright future?
3. How does he treat your sister?
4. I hope you've NEVER liked my comment when I bash non-virgins a.k.a boreholes?
Bros, it's obvious your sister loves him, hence she has been with him for 5yrs. The guy not wanting to marry your sister may be because he's not financially buoyant enough. The fact that he played some roles when the first baby was born show say he get your sister for mind but na money dey hold am. I know say you want the best for your sister, but you have to trade this matter with great caution. If there's someone you can't advise, then it has to be a lady who's in love. Call that guy, follow am reason like man and hear from his own side before taking a decision. One more thing bros, that guy needs to marry your sister abeg, make another person no go inherit a girl wey don collect steady sperm for 5yrs at a stretch.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

otipoju:
Mind your business. Them no dey put mouth for prick and toto matter.

She is closer to the guy than you. Know your place.

bro his mom is dying in silent on this matter

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

All the one you did in the past, did it change anything?

Have you wondered why your sister keeps going back? Can you give your Sister what she wants and enjoy?

MarketDispatch:

All the one you did in the past, did it change anything?

Have you wondered why your sister keeps going back? Can you give your Sister what she wants and enjoy?

haba this one too much na first one and second one.....I don't think he will marry her Las las na to turn her to baby mama be the guy plan later he go marry another girl. Reason am if na your sister na

You are acting like the commander-in-chief of your sister's life at the age of 27 , you deserve to be flogged. You can only advise her, not command her to do you order, as you are doing now

Stay out

You have tried your best. Let your sister learn in a bitter way

You don try..

Abeg free them..

Since your sister doesn't want to learn her lessons, just let her be.......Dem no dey tell person.......Wish her good and let her be....

Na why I no dey put my mouth for anything wey concern BF and GF be this because once Dem begin moan,na my name Dem go use settle scores for bed

Your sister is old enough to take care of herself. Leave her alone. Her eyes will eventually clear. Did she even further her education? Maybe you guys can set her up with something to keep her busy.

The guy seems responsible. Your sister is finding happiness in the relationship,i don't know why you don't want him.No one knows what the future holds,this is a man that's not running away from his responsibilities

Your 27 years old sister nor get sense. Who raises these kind of children? Your parent nor try for am.

Lalami3232:

I have few questions to ask before I can be able to analyze the solution for you.
1. Why don't you want your sister to get married to the guy? I believe there's something you're not telling us.
2. Looking at the guy, does he look like someone who has prospect/bright future?
3. How does he treat your sister?
4. I hope you've NEVER liked my comment when I bash non-virgins a.k.a boreholes?
Bros, it's obvious your sister loves him, hence she has been with him for 5yrs. The guy not wanting to marry your sister may be because he's not financially buoyant enough. The fact that he played some roles when the first baby was born show say he get your sister for mind but na money dey hold am. I know say you want the best for your sister, but you have to trade this matter with great caution. If there's someone you can't advise, then it has to be a lady who's in love. Call that guy, follow am reason like man and hear from his own side before taking a decision. One more thing bros, that guy needs to marry your sister abeg, make another person no go inherit a girl wey don collect steady sperm for 5yrs at a stretch.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

bro i want my sister to get married to the guy that's why I went to meet him to discuss about it with him initial time.

The guy is a roofer, he has built his own house already, he's not poor.

What I understand is that he abuses my sister, using his cunning method. He don't like marrying my sister but want to use her to get a child. If my sister give birth now, and it happens to a girl child , believe me he won't take care of her he may abandon her

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

It's not ur sister that foolish, but ur mother is a weak person, and if she doesn't take decisive decision to send ur sister to that guy's place, she will destroy her life thinking, she is Apple of her eyes.


Meanwhile, it's a foolish decision to waste ur money to arrest him, you are talking about a full grown up lady, that took decision to have pregnant for a guy out of her own volition twice.

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

Lock the guy up for what?

Nawa o...see your story na...
Mtchewww

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

At 27 yrs, my brother; you have tried as a good caring brother... She is old enough to be wise.

Let her be

oz4real83:
You are acting like the commander-in-chief of your sister's life at the age of 27 , you deserve to be flogged. You can only advise her, not command her to do you order, as you are doing now

lol, bro I dey try do am for the interest of my mom. Make she no use high BP kill the woman for me, we don plenty for house and money no dey! adding another number to our current number at this hard time na palava. Thanks for your input.

Lalami3232:

I have few questions to ask before I can be able to analyze the solution for you.
1. Why don't you want your sister to get married to the guy? I believe there's something you're not telling us.
2. Looking at the guy, does he look like someone who has prospect/bright future?
3. How does he treat your sister?
4. I hope you've NEVER liked my comment when I bash non-virgins a.k.a boreholes?
Bros, it's obvious your sister loves him, hence she has been with him for 5yrs. The guy not wanting to marry your sister may be because he's not financially buoyant enough. The fact that he played some roles when the first baby was born show say he get your sister for mind but na money dey hold am. I know say you want the best for your sister, but you have to trade this matter with great caution. If there's someone you can't advise, then it has to be a lady who's in love. Call that guy, follow am reason like man and hear from his own side before taking a decision. One more thing bros, that guy needs to marry your sister abeg, make another person no go inherit a girl wey don collect steady sperm for 5yrs at a stretch.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted atall atall

You are talking like someone, with very low IQ, your comprehension and thinking faculty is far below average, don't you read where, he said, the guy impregnated her and doesn't want to take responsibility?

Moreso, you are also behaving, like guy, who his upbringing is totally enmeshed in paternity crises, ......'who' really own's of the child among different man that had, multiple sex with your mother. The scares of bully and stigmatisation are all over your comments and behaviour for people to see.

I will advise you to go and see clinical psychologist, if you want to stop leaving a life that, full of bitterness and enrage.

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

You don't have money YET you have not decided to choose your battles wisely ⚠️

Oshiofe:
Please house, your advice is needed this is from a friend of mine.

I have a sister 27yrs old, who has been into a relationship with a guy for 5yrs now or more...

Last 2yrs she got pregnant from the guy, I took her to the guy's place, to confirm if he's is responsible for the pregnancy , he didn't deny that he's not responsible, but he's said he's not ready to get married to my sister now.

I tried all I could to force him to marry her, we have met the guys parents several times with my mom and my brothers but it didn't work out...


I even planned to chase her away from our house but my mom chilled me. Later she gave birth and it was a boy , the stupid guy started showing interest claiming she cares, bring foodstuffs and money.

I warned my sister not to receive anything from him, unknowingly to me she has been receiving money and other things from him at the back.

I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill , I got angry the day I noticed that, and got mad at my sister, and she made arrangement with the guy and left our house to a place where they guy rented a house for her with the baby. I felt sad about her attitude, but decided keep calm

In summary.

Unfortunately, the baby died this year January, we then went there and packed her load from where the guy rented house for her back home and warned her to leave the guy, not knowing she still visit him .

The worst is that she's pregnant again from the same guy. we recently met him the same story he used at the first time

My major problem now, my mom is so attached to my sister and wouldnt want anything to happen to her , because she's the only daughter she has, and can't sleep always thinking about her condition.

I swear If have money I would have locked the guy up tey tey.

y don't u leave your sister n d guy

After your sister eye see she nobody go drag her before she run, that kinda person u let them experience hell before they learn

If not that guy go just Dey laugh u n he will b manipulating your sister behind you

U will eventually turn a laughing stock to him

Girls fall in love easily with bad boys.
Let her be; she go collect wotowoto soon and her eyes go clear!

Oshiofe:
lol, bro I dey try do am for the interest of my mom. Make she no use high BP kill the woman for me, we don plenty for house and money no dey! adding another number to our current number at this hard time na palava. Thanks for your input.

......but you are the one that said, ur mum is too attached to her, maybe its ur mummy that even remoting ur sister, so that she won't be able to stay in husband's house, since "she is too dear for ur mum" and an Apple in her eye.

She can't use BP kill ur sister o, because mummy is enjoying her company maximally in her home

OP, you better mind your business and face your life.

Omo,
Women Sabi cast person.
Your sister is bringing shame to your household.

You have no business going to try to cajole the guy to marry your sister.
That kain waka na wrong waka.
He will forever never rate you and yours for it.

But you've done your best as a man.
Now you should sit back and let your sister live out the consequences of her action.
If your mama wan guilt trip you, you give am space too.

Na the only way wey everyone go dey alright.

Allow your sister be with his man comfortably, love the guy as family and help them morally. You won’t regret it. Abi you Dey find bride price?

Na you go marry your sister?

Oshiofe:
haba this one too much na first one and second one.....I don't think he will marry her Las las na to turn her to baby mama be the guy plan later he go marry another girl. Reason am if na your sister na

No be the guy be the problem...na hin sister

"I later found out, that he even sent money to my sisters account to pay for hospital bill"... why didn't you do it before it got to this point?

The guy is good in bed

I understand you are trying to protect your sister which I support however a lady of 27 is not a girl. Please allow your sister to follow her choice. I m sure her guy mean well this time around. Welldone bro

Lalami3232:


One more thing bros, that guy needs to marry your sister abeg, make another person no go inherit a girl wey don collect steady sperm for 5yrs at a stretch.
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

shey dis guy go make heaven like dis

Fiscus105:



......but you are the one that said, ur mum is too attached to her, maybe its ur mummy is one that even remoting ur sister, for her not to be able to stay in husband's house, since she is too dear for ur mum and she is Apple in her eye.

She can't use BP kill ur sister o, because mummy is enjoying her company maximally

How is he a husband to the sister? Someone who decided not to marry her.