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Re: You Should know these by age 40 by mdshow01: 12:15pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:
BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to solve your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.


Number 11 absolutely correct.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Ten06(m): 12:15pm On Nov 15
DaddyCoool:
That number 12, how about Colorado and Arizona?

Including soft drinks and energy drinks
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by olarent: 12:24pm On Nov 15
The number 3 is not acceptable by me, anybody can advise you. The best person you can learn from is people you consider low person.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Draslo(m): 12:26pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:


If they are not smart enough to keep it, I may not be taking advice from them like learning about money from people who have lost money.
Really dumb write up tbh
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by ScarletBrace(m): 12:29pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:
BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to solve your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.



Number 3 and 14 are destructive.
14 is against the adage that says no bird should despise her trusted launchpads, land, trees or rocks, cos no matter how glorious it feels to fly high above them, they (the birds) can't sleep in mid air.
Family is an extension of yesterday's legacies and a function of tomorrow's promises.
14 is very destructive.

3 is flawed. Its unwise to tag people by virtue of where you find them.
Everyone is a work in progress. Some have made mistakes in the past and may not be where they ought to be presently. Would you decline advice from such people just because they aren't currently successful?
That's awful.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by ScarletBrace(m): 12:40pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:


If they are not smart enough to keep it, I may not be taking advice from them like learning about money from people who have lost money.

This is not wisdom.
Money is what you see. Its an effect to a cause.
There are people who aren't necessarily rich but are secrets to most wealthy men's influence.
Change that mindset. Its damn destructive. There are many currencies in life that are very important.
Money can buy knowledge, not wisdom. Relationship can pay for all of those.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by excessmon(m): 12:48pm On Nov 15
Thank you for this: most people don't understand this number 1, it simply means when you get to 50 years ,you must have something generating another source of income even if you have a high paying position you occupy
Nnamdipapa:
BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to solve your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.


Re: You Should know these by age 40 by excessmon(m): 12:52pm On Nov 15
Did you read to understand the statement.......no matter how close we are to family,try to build a better one than the one you came from...

To understand more Google the phrase black tax and understand the text more
ScarletBrace:


Number 3 and 14 are destructive.
14 is against the adage that says no bird should despise her trusted launchpads, land, trees or rocks, cos no matter how glorious it feels to fly high above them, they (the birds) can't sleep in mid air.
Family is an extension of yesterday's legacies and a function of tomorrow's promises.
14 is very destructive.

3 is flawed. Its unwise to tag people by virtue of where you find them.
Everyone is a work in progress. Some have made mistakes in the past and may not be where they ought to be presently. Would you decline advice from such people just because they aren't currently successful?
That's awful.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by franvincoop: 1:08pm On Nov 15
All correct, but u no try at all for that #9 & #12.
Na only death fit make me stop beer and 4-20 for my balcony shocked
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by ifeco4(m): 1:09pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:


If they are not smart enough to keep it, I may not be taking advice from them like learning about money from people who have lost money.

You are wrong. Its better to take advice from someone who has succeeded and failed as well. They will offer you a better view about life.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Loveenthed: 1:28pm On Nov 15
Harrynight:
shocked

You were making sense until I saw No.12

OP
Next time you want to advise an adult on alcohol,
Simply say "Drink Responsibly"

Infact OP no just get sense and it's very obvious.

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Re: You Should know these by age 40 by ObalendeCMS: 1:42pm On Nov 15
Vinnie2000:


Plz Tell him.
Very WRONG and Poor mentality. undecided

That's how a Friend who teaches once tried to Advice his Proprietress.
The woman said she can't take advice from Someone who is not an Entrepreneur. undecided

She did NOT know my friend had owned a Laundry b4. sad

I believe I may know that your friend.

Maja?!
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Miramonica: 1:50pm On Nov 15
DaddyCoool:
That number 12, how about Colorado and Arizona?
I think he meant cigarette smoking

I hate that habit eh, instead smoke Natural Igbo wey God give em children to take dey reason well.

But don't try AZ, Colos or loud.

Just be natural!
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Dtruthspeaker: 1:53pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:


You are always bitter, cantankerous, abusive, and angry. I really pity individuals who have to deal with you in real life. Is your life so miserable that you are always combative?

I pity your wife and kids who have to daily contend with your idiocy, were you abused growing up that you ended up like this?

Hahahahahaha! You are just crying because you want to live comfortably with stupidity and I have come to point out that it is stupid.

Thus, this is just you and confirming the Truth of Okey Bakassi's statement. which said

"Intelligent people should keep quiet so that stupid people can feel it comfortable"!

Unfortunately for you, i listenened to Denzel Washington, who said

"You've got to be an example even in the face of stupidity"

Si, i respect that it is your right to remain stupid however, my posts is for people who do not want to remain stupid.

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Re: You Should know these by age 40 by tobby20: 2:03pm On Nov 15
Miramonica:
I think he meant cigarette smoking

I hate that habit eh, instead smoke Natural Igbo wey God give em children to take dey reason well.

But don't try AZ, Colos or loud.

Just be natural!
So colos and loud fast or slow down ur brain
No lie o
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by ScarletBrace(m): 2:04pm On Nov 15
excessmon:
Did you read to understand the statement.......no matter how close we are to family,try to build a better one than the one you came from...

To understand more Google the phrase black tax and understand the text more

If its flawed its flawed. Don't window dress it.
The family you're from is as important as the family you're trying to create.
If you don't settle certain scores in the family you're from, you'll have to settle it with the family you'll create.
Tell me the family you create should look more like your ideologies than your genetics, then I'll understand.
Don't tell me its more important than the one you come from.
There are certain families you get married to and the name reflects in your generation till the next. Just like Davido is still gonna use the name Adeleke for many generations to come. Same for the Dantatas.
People who have had poverty issues in the family they came from will easily subscribe to this garbage. No one from a wealthy, prominent family will deem that family less important than the one he creates.

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Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Dearlord(m): 2:04pm On Nov 15
Knowing that u are loner in the grave can change your life forever
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Miramonica: 2:07pm On Nov 15
tobby20:

So colos and loud fast or slow down ur brain
No lie o
they're laced with chemicals
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Mandate1: 2:18pm On Nov 15
ScarletBrace:


Number 3 and 14 are destructive.
14 is against the adage that says no bird should despise her trusted launchpads, land, trees or rocks, cos no matter how glorious it feels to fly high above them, they (the birds) can't sleep in mid air.
Family is an extension of yesterday's legacies and a function of tomorrow's promises.
14 is very destructive.

3 is flawed. Its unwise to tag people by virtue of where you find them.
Everyone is a work in progress. Some have made mistakes in the past and may not be where they ought to be presently. Would you decline advice from such people just because they aren't currently successful?
That's awful.
you're very smart. Anyone who buys into that number 14 is a great fool. The family you came from is as important as the family you made urself.

My wife is as important as my mum, my kids as important as my siblings. A foolish man will only realise this the day he's no more, what you do to your family will determine what they do to your kids.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by IGBOPROMISE1: 2:21pm On Nov 15
Never lend money you can't do without, as lending can ruin relationships with family or friends or even ruin your lifes prospects!

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Re: You Should know these by age 40 by DaddyCoool(f): 2:29pm On Nov 15
Miramonica:
I think he meant cigarette smoking

I hate that habit eh, instead smoke Natural Igbo wey God give em children to take dey reason well.

But don't try AZ, Colos or loud.

Just be natural!

Nope. He singled out alcohol. Certain drugs are good for certain people and bad for others. Just as you love weed, some people hate it. Some people can't do without a cold one to wind down after a tough day. Same with cigarettes, for some people life is meaningless without them!
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by mightyhaze: 2:36pm On Nov 15
Nice one
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Konjiboii: 3:25pm On Nov 15
Once you realize that nobody escapes death then will you truly live.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by mrjojo: 3:45pm On Nov 15
"To know yourself is the beginning of all wisdom." - Aristotle

By age 40, you should have a clear understanding of your values and yourself. Despite how simple this sounds, most people go through life without truly knowing themselves.
Stay healthy - watch what you eat and avoid unhealthy habits like drinking beer and eating heavy foods. There's no excuse for having a pot belly at 40.
Never stop learning. Don't feel you're too old to unlearn and relearn. The world is a global village now. As Noam Chomsky said, "Continuous learning keeps the mind young and agile."
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by DollarLanda: 4:42pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:
BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to solve your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

16. You should be done with childbirth even as a man.


Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Klass99(f): 6:21pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:


You are always bitter, cantankerous, abusive, and angry. I really pity individuals who have to deal with you in real life. Is your life so miserable that you are always combative?

I pity your wife and kids who have to daily contend with your idiocy, were you abused growing up that you ended up like this?

I can't stop laughing grin. Your entire post was amusing but the parts highlighted in bold took it to another level for me because I kept imagining what that looks like in real life. Nice retort!
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Tonytonex(m): 7:04pm On Nov 15
Nnamdipapa:
BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to solve your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.


you see that number 12 and 15, take it very serious.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Nnamdipapa(m): 7:45pm On Nov 15
Klass99:


I can't stop laughing grin. Your entire post was amusing but the parts highlighted in bold took it to another level for me because I kept imagining what that looks like in real life. Nice retort!

My dear, check over 80% of that dudes contribution on NL, it's always insults and invectives for no reason at all. Honestly, life is not that hard.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Love800(m): 7:46pm On Nov 15
I appreciate your comment.
zonties1:
nah dont say that, if you only know what it means then you will understand
the family you built comes first and others follows, you have to balance it sha so one will not offend another, i hope u understand me
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Nnamdipapa(m): 8:41pm On Nov 15
No.7 resonates with me so well. Go out there and create your chances. No one gives a fvuck about you in the world.
Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Ozap: 9:29pm On Nov 15
Vinnie2000:


Plz Tell him.
Very WRONG and Poor mentality. undecided

That's how a Friend who teaches once tried to Advice his Proprietress.
The woman said she can't take advice from Someone who is not an Entrepreneur. undecided

She did NOT know my friend had owned a Laundry b4. sad


She has missed an opportunity to learn for free.

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Re: You Should know these by age 40 by Nnamdipapa(m): 10:08pm On Nov 15
Ozap:



She has missed an opportunity to learn for free.

"had owned". It means she failed and should be learning not giving out advice. If she has translated her laundry business to a successful one then, she would qualify to dish out business advice. I will never take business advice from individuals who have failed in their business.

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