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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Zonefree(m): 7:52am On Nov 19
Houseofglam7:
You waited 15 years to know he’s a beast??
🤦🏽‍♀️
Na love na.

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by anyitokunbo(m): 7:52am On Nov 19
My sister love is blind o
Stay with him till the other eye follow join body.
Idiotic woman
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Odidigboigbo(m): 7:53am On Nov 19
From the he pictures I'm seeing up there, I can deduce that both of them are bunch of irresponsible "warey". I have this type of couple in my former street both husband and wife are "Warey", they fought like hell with bottles, knives, and with any harmful objects that comes across their path; in the next minute if you see them together, you won't know they were the ones that just fought. "Street people no de put mouth for their matter"

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by ubev01(m): 7:56am On Nov 19
Nwaokunkpara:
Why is it usually so hard for women to leave an abusive relationship but can easily let go off a good and loyal guy 🤔🤔🤔🤔
because most women abused in a relationship are abusers themselves. They are just with someone who's ready to match their craziness plus extra

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Harddiskng(m): 7:56am On Nov 19
15 years? If it wasn’t conducive for you, you won’t have stayed!

Only a simp pity women and their choices.

You see nice guy, you say he is too nice and gentle. You pitched your tent with “Mr Beast” for a whole 15 years, you knew why you stayed for that long naa undecided

Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by nolzautoz: 7:56am On Nov 19
Unfortunately, it seems that many Nigerian women today are not properly trained, which some believe contributes to the treatment and abuse they receive from their partners. Notwithstanding, everyone deserves respect and kindness, regardless of their upbringing or societal trends. Issues in relationships should be addressed with understanding and mutual respect, not violence or mistreatment.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Suicideboy: 7:58am On Nov 19
Some women never learn



She still day put nose ring


Reset that Stoopid brain of hers with confirm belt
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by verydarkgal: 7:59am On Nov 19
Men treat your wives the way you want your daughter to be treated

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Psoul(m): 8:00am On Nov 19
Madam, I hope you are not one of the reasons he treated his ex wife badly, chased her away so that you will enter.
If this is part of the story, you are just reaping what you sowed.

Well, it is very bad to treat anyone like this how much less, a woman you married. Too bad.
But you see women...Many of them are evil.
They will make an angel turn to devil.
They will push you so bad that some men will be left with nothing than to beat them up.
The way they will be pushing you to beat them will even confuse you that you will be wondering if they get orgasm when beaten.

Men, always walk away from them cos their judgement manual is different from men's own.
They will always win against men in things like this.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by chidiokay: 8:05am On Nov 19
Zico5:
The sad reality is that like attract like. I wonder how a woman that turn herself to lord of the ring want a man to respect her and her dignity. You litter you ear, face and body with rings and u expect man to respect u. Man only see such a woman as loose and nothing good for home. You are original olosho and wayward woman. You should enjoy what u attracted to ur life. I no dey pity people like this. The man has seen it all in you.


Oga mechonu,why will a man marry a womam she sees no value in the 1st place, does it even make sense

what you know you wont eat dont bring it close to your nose.

Have we not seen men beat virtuous woman blue black, what about osinach gosprl musician that died as a result of domestic violence, why was she not respect ?? whats her fault ??
olosho is human, naa hustle she no kill person If you cant stand her why toast even up to marry her, there is no justification for domestic violence either way
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by deanoffaculty: 8:06am On Nov 19
Newlymarried:

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You saw those red flags before embarking on the journey but you ignored. Shawarma and dick literally blocked your brain.
For 15years you stayed for whatever reason....are you kidding?
You even mentioned "his ex wives"..... madam were you hypnotized?
I will not be sentimental or emotional here cos of your swollen eye and marks.
Something is not right somewhere.
I always tell people: Don't see relationship or marriage as a civil service job that you get promotion. If you notice cracks from the foundation of the wall, don't try to fix it.......RUN!!!
Love is blind! ...now your left eye is partially blind.

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Chegesnd: 8:06am On Nov 19
Sorry Madam!
You remained in an abusive relationship for fifteen years and now came out with this.
Why wait that long?
You ever mentioned about his ex-wives ready to testify, that means you knew women have been coming into the marriage and leaving.
You get mind an formed James Bond abi?
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by SIRKAY98(m): 8:07am On Nov 19
I think we need to hear from them both,all i see is arogancy in the spouses, no sane partner will directly blow up the other partners face,without a cause.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Maitunbi: 8:08am On Nov 19
This only happens when one doesn't love himself or herself sufficiently.

No self loving person will allow themselves to be a punching bag for a mentally imbalanced person for so long.

My sympathies
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Yamprince(m): 8:08am On Nov 19
Surely any person that inflicts such bodily harm on another person is definitely a beast and should have no place in a civilized community

but come oooo..... so you know he did same to his ex wives... i.e. not one but more than one ex wife and you still entered the relationship..... and then even remained in the so called relationship for 15yrs!!!

Aunty, you haven't told us everything..

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by FORWARDEVERLY: 8:09am On Nov 19
Useless woman ..
God punish you...

He has been abusive for 15 years and you no quit?
Baztard

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by kellybently(m): 8:09am On Nov 19
Newlymarried:

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You stay with beast for 15yrs definitely you too you a beast. When the man dey Bleep your yash you tell us. Bird of same. Na better woman dey put nose ring. The guy did well.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Shaneroberts: 8:09am On Nov 19
Samantha125:
You could be right, chances are he started abusing her even before they got married, but didn't listen when people advised her against getting married to him.
And now, she has lost an eye. She is lucky he didn't kill her.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Hmmmmm2024: 8:09am On Nov 19
Karlman:
This is really bad, and there is no excuse why anyone should be treated like this.
Shut up...bring up your daughters to understand that it is wrong to fight. that is it wrong to fight with a man. that even when fighting with a man, the moment he says "leave my shirt or leave me" know that he is not interested in the fight and whatever she gets due to her refusal to let go, it's her fault.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by spiceadole: 8:12am On Nov 19
All I say to women who endure abusive partners including my mother is "SERVES YOU RIGHT".

My mum almost lost an arm.

He fractured her arm...After the surgery which was fully funded by me,they were separated for a while.
I and other family members tried to set her up,started a business for her,even took her in..later got an apartment for her.
But she shunned everything and returned to him.
Made all of us her enemies..said we wanted to destroy her marriage.
And everybody hands off.

Just yesterday,the old man who clocked 74 last month bathe her with hot tea he prepared and locked her out of the house tying only a wrapper.

She passed last night at a neighbour's house.

A fool at 65 is a fool for ever.

Serves her right again and again.

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by EKOMADENG: 8:24am On Nov 19
WeddingParol:
This is one of the advices I always give men, don't wait till you are provoked to beat a woman before you do something about a hopeless relationship.

Look at how the man has been labeled a beast and some other simps are joining to castigate the man without hearing the other side of the story.

However, there is no justification whatsoever to beat a woman though some women can make your life a living hell. When you discover that the relationship is heading south, bite the humble pie and leave. Forget whatever people will say or the emotional blackmail, they are just setups to get you demonised.

This man has just fallen a victim.

Men, wakeup and take charge and defend your life and sanity. You cannever win a mud fight with a pig.

To the few remaining great women out there, God bless you.


May God bless you now and forever.

I pity some men on this forum who are quick to join the bandwagon. My prayer is:

May woman not push you to the wall.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Kaypols(f): 8:25am On Nov 19
Women will open their korokoro eye like this 👀 to marry someone with bad character and when Wahala start they start to pretend as if they were not aware of this bad character before they married the useless man, some will even pretend as if the bad habit just started.

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by highchief1: 8:26am On Nov 19
Newlymarried:

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i wish he killed u.una go see crase finish put head.if I’m her brothee I won’t get myself involved.Why will a sane woman allow a guy like this toast her.even me as a man can’t be friends with a guy like this.Whats the dread and dada for?how many dread and dada does Davido have,jowizaza,obi cubana.I pray he kills her
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by antiMuhamad: 8:27am On Nov 19
Tallesty1:
Actually there is.

If you kick my blokos because you can, I will forget that you have breasts and beat you more than this.

First to do no dey pain but na them dey mostly first complain.
I guess you are a descendant of Muhammad the rapist.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Arrowhead71: 8:28am On Nov 19
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Mumu man angry

Pounding a helpless woman as if she's your mate angry

I trust Nigerian authorities, especially NPF if the case reach their desk,the idiot own don finish...

As for the woman,you knew he did the same thing to his ex wives but you still went ahead to marry him angry. Was it because he was spending lavishly on you that made you to think the animal would change and treat you better than all his ex wives? angry

Enduring an abusive marriage is a NO NO for me and I always warn my younger sisters and neices to steer clear from anyone who seems to possess such anger issues......

Las las,the last time an animal did a similar thing to my late sister of blessed memory,na so my elder brothers settle down condemn the idiot ears till today....
15 years of abusing you and you waited until he destroyed your eye , haba!!!! And you said still have family something is wrong with you and your family for allowing this nonsense from that animal who think he is a human been
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Thabothabo101: 8:32am On Nov 19
Put a bandage over it, and stop whining.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by aswani(m): 8:33am On Nov 19
kellybently:


You stay with beast for 15yrs definitely you too you a beast. When the man dey Bleep your yash you tell us. Bird of same. Na better woman dey put nose ring. The guy did well.

You might have inadvertently hit the nail on the head.

Let's just say the make up sex was too good to allow a small thing like being slapped around aforehand to matter (allegedly). You will be surprised how good sex shuts off some women's brain.

Having said that, nose ring doesn't matter when it comes to character as you alluded. He also did not do well. I am sure regrets what he did.

Incel culture shouldn't be allowed to creep into Nairaland.
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by MaziObinnaokija: 8:35am On Nov 19
sad hmmmmm sad! U are aware of the man u kal husband BEAST lifestyle yet u endured 15 years battering shocked sad. See the hyena you kal husband undecided sad? A full grown adult with dreadlocks,twisted hair .earing sad.

No need any authority. Gather/arrange some able street boys to give him panel beating till his 3 teeth comot dislocated joint,contour on his head_eyes.Make dem come rub ABONIKI on his balls
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by cidieschat(m): 8:35am On Nov 19
Before I Judge, is love to hear from the man too...


PEACE!!!

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Thinktwicemybro: 8:39am On Nov 19
GOFRONT:
Madam, yours is even better.....ThanksGod that you are even alive, you only lost one eye..

The other man on the other thread Killed his Wife, killed his Kids and then killed himself
What about the man the wife poured hot water on some days ago. Truth is it's goes both ways. It takes two mad people to get to this extent.

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Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by Heavyweights(m): 8:40am On Nov 19
15 years and you're still in the relationship, untill him remove your head from your body that's when you will finally leave abi. Nigerian women in general don't fancy nice guys and won't ever respect them but they love the one that treats them like shits, I see🤒
Re: 15 Years In Abusive Relationship With A Beast Has Cost Me My Left Eye(pics) by DemonSlayer: 8:40am On Nov 19
Newlymarried:

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/15c2nqrwbW/

His ex wives can testify, so you knew he is an abusive monster and chose to stay with him in your toxic relationship for 15 years? What am I missing?

Stupid people make bad decisions and then start crying and claiming victim, begging society to save them from the consequences of their own stupid actions.

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